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Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by bebe2(f): 10:33pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
armyofone: secured future for me is making sure I give my kids the best education. Ok o, there is time for everything, my no sane parent wud skimp on their kids education. It's not gra gra it's pension. My prayer is dat I never have to tax my kids for up keep wen am in my 60s. They will buy me stuff as the please but I will Neva open my mouth to say " pls son, can u help me wit some money, I can't pay my bill dis month" dat wud be my worst nightmare. I cud spend my noney on french lace gele or Cud invest it on bricks and mortar, I chose the later. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 10:38pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
bebe2: It will only happen if you allow it. Maybe you place your career before your hubby, or you have been so busy planning your getaway that you fail to notice you have become a stranger to him. You could just be the trouble maker...... |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 10:42pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
bebe2: This is another scenario altogether, and you are right to provide for your old age. But husby must know about it, or do you think himself wants to be begging money from the kids at 60? The only thing I dont support is stealing your own money to build behind your husbands back |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
LMAO! Lawd have mercy!! So people are really taking a tribalistic moral high ground based on the fact that their own married men chop and clean mouth instead of taking 2 wives? Is this some sort of joke? I was even expecting to hear that Igbo men never cheat on their wives, imagine my shock when I saw that the reason for the superiority is that they cheat but don't marry other wives. That's not even going into this bullcrap generalization about Yoruba men. Is it tribal or religious? Is it not the Islamic religion that allows multiple wives? What percentage of Christian Yoruba men marry several wives all together? |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 10:53pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
ileobatojo: LMAO! Lawd have mercy!! So people are really taking a tribalistic moral high ground based on the fact that their own married men chop and clean mouth instead of taking 2 wives? Is this some sort of joke? I was even expecting to hear that Igbo men never cheat on their wives, imagine my shock when I saw that the reason for the superiority is that they cheat but don't marry other wives. Contribute to the topic or just waka pass. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by bebe2(f): 11:05pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
7842I: I don't o, for now my career is looking after hubby and 4 kids under 10. ( going backbto work i sept wen baby is 3yrs old) u know wat things tend to spiral out of control wen dis incident happened, it shook our community, as in all our friends. Everyone started to think of something to do. I beg o my sister, make GOd look afte us all |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by debosky(m): 11:08pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Hilarious posts. So I guess since some tribes 'chop and clean mouth' wives don't have issues with their men leaving them for other women or other women emerging after the man dies? Joint investments with your names included is the way to go. If you want 'additional' protection, husband and wife can have investments that both parties know about - I don't believe in going into marriage with this 'hiding' of funds and resources. If it's the kids' futures you are worried about, set up trust funds or investments in their names - again, with the knowledge of both husband and wife. You can keep investments solely in your name/control if you want, but deception/secrecy is a sure way to cause rifts in a marriage. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
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Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Pataki: 11:49pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
chaircover: You are so full of wisdom and grace. Excellent post. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 12:36am On Mar 31, 2013 |
eagle,eye: Dude shut the f*cuk up you dirty insecure monkey! Have you ever heard of someone fighting himself? Why is it anytime anyone says the truth you insecure male bishes turn it into "They Hate Igbos"? If I say, if he says... dude i'm not dealing with sentiments but facts and as for trying to label me a "Igbo hater" with that sleek jab your slow brain mustered you must be very stupi.d for that statement. I should be civil when talking about Igbos? What about when Im talking about others? Did you fu*ckas even grow up around any men cus all you do is whine and whine like little girls. Can you tell my nationality from behind the screen? Are you a magician? Are you God? My nigga, pull up your skirt and remove that wedgie that your thong seems to causing you and stop being a biyytch everytime. Does it look like i was denigrating igbos or didnt you realize me and that id*iot I replied to have unfinished business we're settling? Like everyone else Igbos are not perfect, nobody is, and the moment you dummies realize that the better. P.S: Wasnt your biyytch azz among those attacking me earlier in the other thread? Now your pretentious punk aszz wants to come here and pretend to be a peace maker. dude, pls fu&ck off and miss me with that bullshiyyt. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by coogar: 1:56am On Mar 31, 2013 |
7842I: the money spent on your education should have been used to invest in cocoa......without a shadow of a doubt, you must be functioning on a single-digit IQ. you don't marry 2 wives? why don't you push the envelope further and claim all igbo men are eunuchs? |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 5:31am On Mar 31, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Stunning idiocy. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 6:26am On Mar 31, 2013 |
^^^ Shut up David! |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 6:29am On Mar 31, 2013 |
ileobatojo: LMAO! Lawd have mercy!! So people are really taking a tribalistic moral high ground based on the fact that their own married men chop and clean mouth instead of taking 2 wives? Is this some sort of joke? I was even expecting to hear that Igbo men never cheat on their wives, imagine my shock when I saw that the reason for the superiority is that they cheat but don't marry other wives. Lmao . . . Ile seriously, u crack me up! Saying a certain tribe don't cheat, is it not lying to one's self? But you have to agree that 'chop and clean mouth' is the lesser of the two evils . . No one's taking a moral high ground, just saying the facts. No need for you guys to get all defensive! People say stuff about Igbo men and money and we don't jump down their throat! |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 6:33am On Mar 31, 2013 |
coogar:No thanks, we are good! Abeg go and celebrate Easter jor . . . I really don't get why you guys are getting your knickers in a twist about this. If e pain you pass, go hug transformer. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 6:48am On Mar 31, 2013 |
Ujujoan: ^^^ Shut up David! Uju truly truly you fall my hand this time. You condemned a whole tribe... including both the guilty and the innocent? |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by eagleeye2: 6:51am On Mar 31, 2013 |
kingoflag: Why do you always resort to Gutter language? Don't you have home training. Even if NL is a faceless forum does it warrant you to disgrace your parents, and make all their effort at training you look nought. Or were you raised up in the Gutter with other filthy beings. Even at that, you can choose not to remain in the Gutter, but I guess it is your choice. 2 Likes |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by eagleeye2: 7:00am On Mar 31, 2013 |
chaircover: Madam CC, thank you for this ohh. Bebe, you are feeling secured now, forgetting that your hubby may not have even thought of the angle you are thinking. But you may be unwittingly giving him ideas as to how you want him to relate with you. Sometimes, women are the architect of their own misfortune. You have sat down in your private corner and thought of all the things that can go wrong, but why not give Thanks to God for all the things that are Right presently. You are there fighting Unseen enemies (in the form of other women), but you may be forgetting that the seen friend(Hubby in this case) is worth far more of your love and loyalty than any strange woman. God forbid it, what if after all these plans for a secured Future, you wake up one day and see that all you have planned are just heap of rubbles (maybe house catch fire or one brother or even son wakes up and sell off your house?). My dear, plan for your future, but in all things Put your Trust in God and not men or wealth. 1 Like |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by eagleeye2: 7:39am On Mar 31, 2013 |
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Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 9:34am On Mar 31, 2013 |
kingoflag: It must be painful typing with one arm while the other one is chained to a bedpost at the raving mad section of yaba left. We warned you that crack can make you kolo but you continued to sniff cheap and inferior crack. Kpele. Didnt even know who gives internet access to lunatics, smh. 3 Likes |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 9:37am On Mar 31, 2013 |
eagle,eye: Sensible post. 1 Like |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 31, 2013 |
@Topic I guess, I am married to a very odd thinking man. Hubby amongst a few things is into real estate, some are bought in my name, some in his name and others with both our names......Same with my car, it was bought in my name and actually one of his was also bought in my name (come to think of it, i could claim that one, and I love four wheel drives). We both have different bank accounts and joint accounts. We also have separate accounts for the kids. We just recently discussed buying a few in each child's name and not tell them about it until they are like 30 So yes, my future and my children's secured. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
davidylan: Obviously not ALL yoruba men are like that . . . do I also have to spell that out |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by coogar: 2:42pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
Ujujoan: uju, go and rinse your mouth with chicken legs..... |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by dayokanu(m): 3:11pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
7842I: Ojuku must be Hausa from Katsina |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by 7842I: 4:02pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
dayokanu: ......Why Ojukwu? MKO Abiola married about 32 wives, how can you compare him to a war hero whom women were chasing everywhere and he selected the most beautiful girl in Nigeria as at then? |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
^^ Ojukwu is not Ibo,heard he is a Yoruba man. |
Re: Women: Have U Secured Your Future? by blank(f): 1:12am On Apr 02, 2013 |
obowunmi: Don't knock my friend, Onyeka. She dated Chima when he was a nobody. He left her and got married to Kalu Orji's daughter, Neya cos of money and contracts from her father. He came back to her and she thought he had changed and forgave him. However, he started sleeping around and beat her. It was never about money. If it was money, she would have endured the crap he was dishing. |
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