Old boy, pretend as if you love her for a month, as if without her you cannot live. After showing her much love, then withdraw from her and stop calling her even if that will end everything let it be. I tell you, she will come back hanging around you as if you have charmed her.

Most nigerian girls wont just call u,If ulike take them to the moon
U need to get used to it,and play by the game

NIKE,IICE
wus up?missed una

wishing yall a nice wkend

@ poster,
lets assume d date was in d evening say arnd 4pm n by 6pm, u guys were thru with d date, n d chic thanked u ^profusely immediately after the date b4 u guys went ur seperate ways dat evening.
so, if dat was d scenario, y on earth shld d chic call u bk for again, at least she has shown appreciation by sayin thank u immediately after!

@enque
lets assume d date was in d evening say arnd 4pm n by 6pm, u guys were through with d date, n d chic thanked u profusely immediately after the date before u guys went your seperate ways that evening.
so, if that was d scenario, y on earth should d chic call u bk for again, at least she has shown appreciation by saying thank u immediately after!


I can bet it with my life that no Naija City Girl would do what you just described except those who are fresh from the village (broda thank u stuff). An average Naija girl sees it as her birth-right, so why would she tank you profusely on the spot. Some are even so stupid to bring their friend(s) along when a Guy offers to take them out.

alextayo,
well, i guess u've been meeting or going on dates wit d wrong set of girls. being appreciative/ saying thank you shouldn't be such a big deal/task n secondly, if u av d opportunity to say it on the spot after ur date, then y save it for a phoneversation

Try and bang them on the first date. That way you wouldn't feel bad if they don't call because you 'enjoyed' your money.

@enque,
Thank God you've identified my problem, well i guess you can solve it for me by going on a date with me. Call me when ready

@ alextayo

Rflm ^friggin ao , yeah rite! u wanna use me as a confirmation to ur theory on nairaland abi, thanks for d offer, but sorry, i ain't interested.

@ enque

I aint even begging for one, i just want to confirm if you are one of dem eat and run girls.

enque
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@ alextayo

Rflm friggin ao , yeah rite! u want to use me as a confirmation to your theory on nairaland abi, thanks for d offer, but sorry, i ain't interested.

@enque
u just pretending maybe alex is ur dream, yeahhh

Most nigerian girls wont just call u,If ulike take them to the moon
You need to get used to it,and play by the game



i got u , just the best words meant for him'''you need to get used to it'''safe.

@ pornmaster,

when did u become alextayo's mediator?

Answer: TEN MISTAKES MEN MAKE ON A FIRSTDATE

There are some "Don'ts" on a first date?1) Don't talk about politics or religion. She may not share the same view.
2) Don't check out ANY other females. Leave that waitress alone! FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR GIRL!
3) Don't talk about your past relationships. In fact, don't talk about yourself too much at all. Remember the golden role: keep the focus on HER!
4) Don't make any offensive jokes. Humor is good, until feelings get hurt. (Then its hilarious?just kidding!) Seriously, be FUNNY - just don't be offensive or rude.
5) Don't talk about your sexy kinks. Unless you know she's into the same stuff. (Like unless she tells you first and it happens to be the same thing you like?)
6) Don't get into ANY sort of argument with her. Seriously, it's going to ruin the whole evening.
7) Don't kiss her ass.
Don't tell her you love her. Don't even tell her you like her!
9) Don't be late on the first date. Don't show up an hour early and then wait for her either. BE ON TIME.
10) Don't act like this is your first date in your entire life. Try to play it cool!

For more ways to let her call immidiately after the first date check www.datingkeys..com/ .

Poster you were nt interesting in your date, that is why they never called back. Remember my dating rules, is not how much you like a girl or how much you spent on her but how much she likes. In fact you don't even need to spend too much money and time on a date. All you need is chemistry, read more in that blog, I can't explain more

Ok poster, These are some things you should do on a first date

1) Do groom yourself properly before you go out. Dress nice!
2) Do flirt with her and tease her like there is no tomorrow during the date.
3) Do buy some fresh condoms AND clean up your room, house or apartment before the date. Just in case!
4) Do give her a big hug as soon as you meet her. Why? A little physical touching right off the bat can be a good start!
5) Do advance through her boundaries and limits subtly. Holding her hand? See if you can get a kiss next, and so on.
6) Do have a stimulating conversation with her.
7) Do act like a gentlemen and open doors for her, etc.
Do compliment her. (Not too much though!)
9) Do only go to a place where you can afford to order the most expensive item on the manual.
10) Do relax and have fun!

www.datingkeys..com/

@ENQUE
Voice of the people is the Voice of GOD. Pornmaster might be a prophet.


@steriod101
I am happy to tell you that i dont believe in all these craps about dating tips, do's and dont's of dating , bla, bla, bla, .

If i should talk to my girl the way you talk to yours and she listen to you, mine may ditch me for that.

There are also some girls dying for me while if you try aprroch them, you will only receive the insult of your life.

There are some girls dat will do anything to get you in Bed, yet they may even vomit seeing me naked.

So if a book tells you to slap you date, you will go ahead and do it?

Man wake up man, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint gonna follow any stupid dating rules.

lo! prophet wey no dey sure of imself

Steroid101:

Answer: TEN MISTAKES MEN MAKE ON A FIRSTDATE

There are some "Don'ts" on a first date?1) Don't talk about politics or religion. She may not share the same view.
2) Don't check out ANY other females. Leave that waitress alone! FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR GIRL!
3) Don't talk about your past relationships. In fact, don't talk about yourself too much at all. Remember the golden role: keep the focus on HER!
4) Don't make any offensive jokes. Humor is good, until feelings get hurt. (Then its hilarious?just kidding!) Seriously, be FUNNY - just don't be offensive or rude.
5) Don't talk about your sexy kinks. Unless you know she's into the same stuff. (Like unless she tells you first and it happens to be the same thing you like?)
6) Don't get into ANY sort of argument with her. Seriously, it's going to ruin the whole evening.
7) Don't kiss her ass.
Don't tell her you love her. Don't even tell her you like her!
9) Don't be late on the first date. Don't show up an hour early and then wait for her either. BE ON TIME.
10) Don't act like this is your first date in your entire life. Try to play it cool!

For more ways to let her call immidiately after the first date check www.datingkeys..com/ .

Poster you were nt interesting in your date, that is why they never called back. Remember my dating rules, is not how much you like a girl or how much you spent on her but how much she likes. In fact you don't even need to spend too much money and time on a date. All you need is chemistry, read more in that blog, I can't explain more

Hell, what is left to talk about if I should not say any of those things above
You sure say u don try this your advise

Don't feel bad oh but it's usually this:

1) If it was splendid I will let you know at the end of the date and I will say thank you. It is IMHO your job to continue the chase. I respect myself too much to be running after a guy like a madwoman because all those unfortunate chicas are always seen as cheap even if they aren't. Even if it was sooo sooo good, I'll treat that phone call like it's an impulse buy at the shoe store: look at it, contemplate it, contemplate your depleted wallet, then drop it and walk away! This is not always the case though. I may have left my bag in your car and if that's the case, you will definitely get a call from me pronto! LOL

There is the rare instance where the two of you can already feel love blossoming and got along so swimmingly on the date that the babe won't know when she'll call you and you too won't know when you will call her just to hear each other's voice again. In that case, keep doing what you're doing and God will bless you both.

You 've got to be "bad" if you must be successful in this dating stuff. That's why bad boys don't carry last, it sucks. I would say you wre just too nice and predictable by doing what every dude does.A girl may never call you after a date if she discovers that

1. You were a kind of a wimpy, needy and nicey-type.
2. You were boring by discussing "MEN STUffs'' all through the date.
3. You were the type who buys chiken and bla bla bla for her while you drink only water or bought suya while you eat only the onions pretending to be okay.
4. You laid your cards on the table too early by letting her know how you feel for her.

Guy, never make the mistake of trying to impress a girl with money and your classical dates. It will scare her away 'cos all the guys she's dated in the past did all that.You 've got to be DIFFERENT and show her that you are a man and not a door mat.

Lastly, you probably were not cheeky by busting her bulls and teasing her to such extent that she feels that gut level attraction for you right away.

I No be lecture o

When they don't dig your style, They will not bother calling, so guys try to make your date fun , she might be captivated by that and she will want some more.

its part of the effizy tin pls do u want him to think u are trippin and strippin?u act like "dat dont impress me much even if u are drooling but i also wont call bak if he was a bore so i guess u have to find out or kip impressin i guess.maybe sometin went wrong maybe u spoke too much or u didnt notice sometins dat she didnt like or u were touchin her any how u know some men how de are they jus cant wait but whicheva if u invite her for like 3 dates and she says no den u are not her type why i said three is because the second one she mite fil if she says yes she shows sign of am 2 available so the third one is a bad sign.

if i really had fun, i usually let them know. i dont need to say thank you sef. a simple 'i really had fun today/it was nice hanging out with you' is sufficient.

why waste my credit as well if he already wasted my time and energy?

[qu[b]ote author=iceblue link=topic=124164.msg2256266#msg2256266 date=1210695649]
if i really had fun, i usually let them know. i dont need to say thank you sef. a simple 'i really had fun today/it was nice hanging out with you' is sufficient.

why waste my credit as well if he already wasted my time and energy?
[quote][/quote]HELP ME ASK DEM OH! [/b]

Poster, it depends if she likes you or not, or if she's shy or not and waiting for your call

Call? Is her call going to pay u back?
Anyway sometimes it is called 'EGO'
She might not feel like
Some do call
Some don't care
Some are just too tired to do so
Might not wanna be too forward or jumpy
Might not want it to look like it freaks her
She might not even like u or care about u
Depends on her mood sometimes
And so on
Everybody with one reason or the other
Come to think of it, who is doing the chasing stuff?
Got any problem with that? Call her and enquire if she arrived safely! Chikena.

Who resurrected this dead thread?


@OP

[size=2pt]No mind 'am, she's just forming u know - they all do. Duh![/size]

Yorisb:



[size=2pt]No mind 'am, she's just forming u know - they all do. Duh![/size]

Abi o!!!
But i think that if a Girl doesn't call you after a date, then that means she didn't really enjoy your company. My first date didn't call me after our date so i assumed that things didn't go well. Called her the next day to know how she was. Her tone told me i messed up somehow and after a little argument, i got the reasons. Patched up my relationship with her. Dated my current a few months after and thinking i had again messed up, i decided to call her as soon as i get back home but she surprised me by calling back to say how she enjoyed her night and we just took off from there. So i think she just has to call to show how she appreciates your company because its her call whether she wants you as a bf or not.

its simple u werent interestin to her, if u were blv me she will call n when she does she myt also ask why u dint call her( at least most of dem would) thats 4 u to know u were interestin n she wanted to hear from u again.

na poverty no dey make 9ja girls call.

Maybe the girls want you to buy them recharge cards after the date so they can have enough credit to call you. Even if you pay for the recharge card, they may use the recharge card bought with your money to add credit to their phone and use it to call someone else.

I don't think it should be expected. Most girls would not call, (I wouldn't) especially if it was the first date. It would make you appear rather eager, needy or dependent. I will show appreciation after the date. Thanks for a great time, I could say, even if it wasn't so great. No matter how it was, I wouldn't call first after the date. If it was truly great and he calls, he gets another date. If it wasn't and he calls, he goes into voice mail.

Relavenue:

I don't think it should be expected. Most girls would not call, (I wouldn't) especially if it was the first date. It would make you appear rather eager, needy or dependent. I will show appreciation after the date. Thanks for a great time, I could say, even if it wasn't so great. No matter how it was, I wouldn't call first after the date. If it was truly great and he calls, he gets another date. If it wasn't and he calls, he goes into voice mail.

Eager?, Needy?, Dependent?!. . .
If you have been doing great before you met him then there will be no need to think this way.
Well, different strokes for different folks.