I need your Opinion on this;

A guy I know met a girl he fell in love with n they ve been doin well as couple. He complained initially that she was s*x starving him with no reason not even due 2 her virginity n he was quite patient with her. Recently she gave it(s*x) to him n they had it four times b4 she disclosed her HIV+ status to him.

The stunning thing is that he stills make love to her with condoms, no oral s*x but they kiss on the note that his badly in love with her.

When I asked him about the initial four times s*x he said he had protected s*x n it was so because she refused him going in unprotected.

I am worried cos he is confident he is safe becos of the protected s*x n has refused my advise to go in 4 RVT.

Wat do u think or suggest?

With proper medical counseling this can be well managed. As for me sha, my own love get brain and better IQ!

Na 440 str8! The only HIV person I relate with na for my workplace and na because company policy fit fit fire anybody wey make them feel one-kind, else, I keep respectable distance!

My life. . . . my policy!

Their is no opinion on diz mata bt since he his aware, then let him enjoyed his life. Why are u worried on his behalf abi na you?

There's nothing wrong with being love with a HIV+ person; love goes beyond sexx and intimacy. Using a condom is all good and fine, but to limit the risk your friend (and his girlfriend) ought to go for proper medical counselling and tips to avoid her infecting him.

Love don't cost a thing

Some of these HIV+ people will outlive a lot of you.

I think the condoms can help him stay protected but for how long?

He also said that he is d reason she's alive, she was always having sucidal attempts b4 he came into her life.

You know the world has a population of about 7 billion, the over population in some third world countries has been categorised as a crises by the UN, the earth is facing some serious environmental challenges because of our carbon emission so when a person decides to cut his life short all in the name of love, we can only give kudos to him as it would be a little contribution towards saving the planet.

dvdon:
He also said that he is d reason she's alive, she was always having sucidal attempts b4 he came into her life.

Eyaa.

Just convince your guy to visit one of these HIV-friendly hospitals for counselling and tips. It'll be tragic if they both become positive o!

50calibre: You know the world has a population of about 7 billion, the over population in some third world countries has been categorised as a crises by the UN, the earth is facing some serious environmental challenges because of our carbon emission so when a person decides to cut his life short all in the name of love, we can only give kudos to him as it would be a little contribution towards saving the planet.

So caring of u.

at times, its better to love with ur brain than ur heart. The risk is v.costly oo

Do you guys know that Malaria kills more people every year than HIV??

Your man is safe.
And can make HIVFreeBabies wif his gurl.
He shud visit VCTU in general hospitals 4 further enlightenment.

If he is Nigerian, then he is invisible to dat shit jooor, HIV no dey mess with us boiz like that, but if he is south african ....

Ok, start the attacks and ban

Well,there is low possibility of a guy contracting HIV after having unprotected sex with HIV+ patience let alone having protected sex.However,in both cases,i must admit that there is risk present and i think the guy in question should go for HIV test even though i feel confident that he has not contracted HIV from his HIV+ gal.

That's just too risky,and doing it consciously makes me think your friend is madder. Something are excusable when done unconsciously.

Is her love worth all that risk is the big question. for us that gave up on love;a long time ago...I wouldn't try it,I would slice her throat after telling on the fourth time.

Guess wat, I just showed him (my friend the loverboy) this thread on NL n he is happy at the positive responds from u guys n says that when his girl is back from work he will share n follow it up wif her.

For you to contract HIV from kissing you must drink a bucket full of saliva not just do kiss o and condoms are the for a reason. A friend with aids or hiv is still a friend. Just because they have HIv it does not mean its the end so i dont see why it should be a biggy. comeone yall be open minded we live in 2013 remember not 1983

see risk guys take in the name of conji

dvdon: I think the condoms can help him stay protected but for how long?

He also said that he is d reason she's alive, she was always having sucidal attempts b4 he came into her life.

Not good. So she has HIV and is emotionally unstable too. He has bitten off more than he can chew

Yomieluv: That's just too risky,and doing it consciously makes me think your friend is madder. Something are excusable when done unconsciously.

what's the risk there? Afterall he's proctecting himself. Let's stop being ignorant for crying out loud. You think the lady will be confident to disclose her status to the next guy she meets should she get dumped by her bf? The gal deserve commendation for not choosing to intentionally spread the virus with the mindset of "afterall i got it from someone else"

@all, whoever is having unprotected sex with any girl is at a higher risk of contracting HIV than the op's friend.

dvdon: Guess wat, I just showed him (my friend the loverboy) this thread on NL n he is happy at the positive responds from u guys n says that when his girl is back from work he will share n follow it up wif her.

Aww, thats so nice. Glad i finally contributed something truly positive to someone's happiness through NL.

Oh and please tell your friend and his sweetheart to ignore the doom-singers on this thread asking him to dump her. You know we need people like that so that words like ''ignorant'', ''unenligntened'' and ''insensitive'' will still have a meaning.

to think he isn't even married to her love gbakwa oku!