Br3nd4: Making your intentions known from the start doesnt appeal to most ladies. Like when i meet a guy today, he gets my number and tomorow he's telling me he loves me.. Really cocky I must say

On the contrary being friends first makes every thing magical, you get to know each others strength and weaknesses, you know what makes him/her happy or sad and the nerves not to step on buh then again there's a thin line that must'nt be crossed if ever youre considering going into a relationship.

For me starting as friends has always worked..

5alive: i cant comprehend anytin from this thread......





Am out

FYsol:
i quite agree with the OP, when you get close to ladies first and then ask them out they tell you i thought we were friends. my question is do they want to date an enemy? this has happened to me twice.

drnoel:
funny, but this statement can only come from a woman. Madam,declarating ones intension from the start has nothing to do with telling a woman u love her. I have never ever told a woman I loved her, if I didn´t mean it and I have only told one woman I loved her and she was the one I made my wife. Now am sure u will think she is the one one I dated but that won´t be true cos I had my share of a field day with multiple gfs and sleeping partners but I never ever lied to anyone saying I loved her cos I didn´t love anyone of those I was sleeping around with. I always believe in making intentions known from the first day, the thing is that woman are gullible and the ladies will definitely convince themselves to believe what they want to without me having to say anything in the matter. I the guy has to do then is go with the stride.
To answer your question, tell her from the unset. If she likes u, it´d work out itself. If she doesn then betters still,...besides u can´t win all of them. Pls don´t go lying to any lady just to bed her, that is very low of anyone that does that.

shymexx: What intentions from the start, though?? When you first meet a girl, your first intention(s) is/are how you're going to beat it... most people usually decide if a girl is a keeper, or a smash-and-zoom-off, after getting to know her... So, telling a chic your "intention(s)" from the start would kill off the vibe... just get to know the chic without being overly friendly and let it flow from there...

drnoel:
How right u are about most people deciding if the lady they just met is a keeper or hit and run. I usually used to make that decision in the first few hours I meet any babe. That usually directs my line of approach. If I though she was a keeper, I usually used to run a mile and if I thought she would be a hit and run, I go for the kill immediately. I never pursued any woman more that 2 wks cos if one doesn't impress her in that time, one usually won't, that mean u loose the element of surprise and risk slipping in to the friend zone.

vichofu:
so, the ones you've slept with, did u jst tell them u want them to be ur sexmate & they jst accepted?
Na wa ooooo

shymexx:

You need be very careful with your game, bro.. Most women are inbred liars and very pretentious - and deciding if she's a keeper from the get-go is suicidal...

Better watch out before you become a victim, bro.

sagytarius™:

drnoel:
Yea u are right, but I had fine-tuned my game that it only disappointed me once. That once it disappointed me was a turning point in my life.

Irritant: Rape her at the beginning n she will never forget u...

Kzinne: gold digger tinz