josite: for me the most effective non verbal way to communicate my intention is to invite her to where only lovers go.like the 14th floor restaurant in eko le meridian or a private exclusive beach and though I know I will be rebuke or rebuffed I will try an intimate move like a playful soft slap on the butt.it works for me.but may actually get u a slap if un don't know how to implement this strategy.so really I don't talk and yet my message is gotten.if she is for me,she encourages the touch and I do more of it even on a first date.

i would lke to know more about your strategy

Joliecoco: Why are guys so afraid of friend zone. I think teh best way to start a relationship is through friendship, you get to form a bond with that person which is so important in a relationship.

while u dey form ur bond another smarter dude is ''sealing'' the Bond......!!!


As u siddon dey look dey friend.....another guy stand up dey carry ya girlie away