It is money, good job, insecurity, searching for the right partner, age, background, want to play etc. As for me I have a good job, but still searching for the right partner. What of you? Let's hear from you

im not single

Cos I need a God fearing man. Is dat too much 2ask?

Cos I ve nt Met any Man that makes me crazy that I wanna b wif.

pepper never rest....

im waiting for my knight in shinning armour

Cause my kinda girlz are scarce...

chymystique: Cos I ve nt Met any Man that makes me crazy that I wanna b wif.

Yeah! Keep telling yourself that!

chymystique: Cos I ve nt Met any Man that makes me crazy that I wanna b wif.

lier! Its because no man has proposed to u.dnt u knw men are scarce

I don't KNOW!

I have a good job ... and lead a good life.

I just don't feel ready(for marriage) deep down inside me.

I need to feel ready and determined from deep within.

Hmmm,i dont even know my marital status,am i single,marid or engaged

dmcdad: Cause my kinda girlz are scarce...

Just say you are "choosy"
I wonder the kind of gurl you are looking for that makes you think they are scarce. Remember, there's never a 100%

Cos I've not met the gal that I'll willingly ditch chelsea's match just 2 be wiv her...

Tashamania:

Just say you are "choosy"
I wonder the kind of gurl you are looking for that makes you think they are scarce. Remember, there's never a 100%

My dear, u don't get it. I don't date for the fun of it but to make out something good in our union. Since I look out for something reasonable, its only normal that I get someone that really suit me and not just any kinda girl..

Moreso, I only crave for qualities I know I have, although sometimes when i tell people the kinda attributes I look out for, people say they are too much and as such, I aint gonna find a girl with such. But the thing is, I only seek for things i know I already have and nothing more. That would invariably mean that my qualities are too much, that is judging by people's response.

Anywayz, if I can sure as heck find someone with the core features or values i crave for, then that'd be great and then I can help out in making the person grow in other areas. But, even to have someone with just the basics aint easy.

I hope u do see right through me...

dlex21: Cos I've not met the gal that I'll willingly ditch chelsea's match just 2 be wiv her...

Lolzz... Wahala dey ooo

Tashamania:

Just say you are "choosy"
I wonder the kind of gurl you are looking for that makes you think they are scarce. Remember, there's never a 100%

Besides, I am never looking out for a 100% kinda gurl because in reality there is none.

Just someone with the right mind and...

dmcdad:
My dear, u don't get it. I don't date for the fun of it but to make out something good in our union. Since I look out for something reasonable, its only normal that I get someone that really suit me and not just any kinda girl..

Moreso, I only crave for qualities I know I have, although sometimes when i tell people the kinda attributes I look out for, people say they are too much and as such, I aint gonna find a girl with such. But the thing is, I only seek for things i know I already have and nothing more. That would invariably mean that my qualities are too much, that is judging by people's response.

Anywayz, if I can sure as heck find someone with the core features or values i crave for, then that'd be great and then I can help out in making the person grow in other areas. But, even to have someone with just the basics aint easy.

I hope u do see right through me...

You crave for qualities you ALREADY have in girl? Already have?
Sounds like greed to me. Nobody can be like you, you are you. And why do I get this feeling that such marriage would be so boring and one-sided? . I think its okay if we have a little mixing here.
Anyways, since you say the 'Core' qualities again and not all, I'll not crucify you and hell yeah what everyone looks out for. Nobody needs a 100% and nobody can get it. But if you do, then trust me, it is questionable.

dmcdad:
Besides, I am never looking out for a 100% kinda gurl because in reality there is none.

Just someone with the right mind and...

The break in transmission in the 'bolded didn't allow me get the full message

Waiting for the love of my life to come back ,unfortunately this love will never come back.....but, i'll wait.

Tashamania:


You crave for qualities you ALREADY have in girl? Already have?
Sounds like greed to me. Nobody can be like you, you are you. And why do I get this feeling that such marriage would be so boring and one-sided? . I think its okay if we have a little mixing here.
Anyways, since you say the 'Core' qualities again and not all, I'll not crucify you and hell yeah what everyone looks out for. Nobody needs a 100% and nobody can get it. But if you do, then trust me, it is questionable.

Hmmm... To see it as greed would mean you never understood what i meant and as such had a misconception or rather a misinterpretation.

well, Let me justify my previous post.

You know, I always tell people not to always look out for what they dont have, in the sense that, very many people want a decent guy/girl whereas they themselves aint such. Some look out for a very intelligent partner or whatever it might be, but in reality they themselves lack such a quality. Now its not as if its bad to crave for something you don't have, the thing there is, a lot of people make it the core feature they crave for and are not ready themselves to be what they crave for in others... And, what happens with the saying; you attract what you are?? That is you attract your type. Now, in countering what I said, it would mean that you are not in support of that saying.

Anywayz, like I stated, there are core features a girl must share to make things work. There is no one i would be comfortable with someone who does things contra bonos more. There is no way I can deal with someone whom is not honest. There is virtually no way I could cope with someone that is not homely and down to earth. So, you see! These are just some amongst others

There are many more... These attributes are things I hold in high regard. So, what I stated in my previous post stands...

Truckpusher: Waiting for the love of my life to come back ,unfortunately this love will never come back.....but, i'll wait.

Even if u have to wait till eternity

Lol

Tashamania:

The break in transmission in the 'bolded didn't allow me get the full message

Cause I didn't want you to. You can take a shot in the dark of you like...

Scared to love again. So scared to be caught in the loop of a vicious cycle.

Amya: Scared to love again. So scared to be caught in the loop of a vicious cycle.

What are you scared of if I may ask?

dmcdad:
Hmmm... To see it as greed would mean you never understood what i meant and as such had a misconception or rather a misinterpretation.

well, Let me justify my previous post.

You know, I always tell people not to always look out for what they dont have, in the sense that, very many people want a decent guy/girl whereas they themselves aint such. Some look out for a very intelligent partner or whatever it might be, but in reality they themselves lack such a quality. Now its not as if its bad to crave for something you don't have, the thing there is, a lot of people make it the core feature they crave for and are not ready themselves to be what they crave for in others... And, what happens with the saying; you attract what you are?? That is you attract your type. Now, in countering what I said, it would mean that you are not in support of that saying.

Anywayz, like I stated, there are core features a girl must share to make things work. There is no one i would be comfortable with someone who does things contra bonos more. There is no way I can deal with someone whom is not honest. There is virtually no way I could cope with someone that is not homely and down to earth. So, you see! These are just some amongst others

There are many more... These attributes are things I hold in high regard. So, what I stated in my previous post stands...

Oh I get it now, crave for what you have. Got it!
You also made your post clearer when you said there are other things a girl should share to make things work and not necessarily only what you would want.

Tashamania:

Oh I get it now, crave for what you have. Got it!
You also made your post clearer when you said there are other things a girl should share to make things work and not necessarily only what you would want.

Yes! And moreso, I don't mind a girl who has virtually none of what i am looking for... But, one fundamental thing is one who is humble and ready to learn at all times.. She might be a nonentity, but her willingness in learning and accepting corrections would definitely make-up for her...

I hope you catch my drift...

dmcdad:
Yes! And moreso, I don't mind a girl who has virtually none of what i am looking for... But, one fundamental thing is one who is humble and ready to learn at all times.. She might be a nonentity, but her willingness in learning and accepting corrections would definitely make-up for her...

I hope you catch my drift...

Now, you are talking!
Getting a girl with all your kinda qualities isn't always the best. You could have your own flaws too and getting someone different from you will be beneficial in that aspect in that she sees those flaws and helps to amend them. That's what makes a marriage/relationship grow stronger

Amya: Scared to love again. So scared to be caught in the loop of a vicious cycle.

dmcdad:
What are you scared of if I may ask?

Just what it means. Putting myself, my emotions and mental well being out there is just too much of a risk.

Amya:

Just what it means. Putting myself, my emotions and mental well being out there is just too much of a risk.

Awww...

Amya:

Just what it means. Putting myself, my emotions and mental well being out there is just too much of a risk.

I see...