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Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by IZUKWU(m): 7:38pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
greatgod2012: The person who gives ultimatum in relationships is looking for an excuse from the other partner to break/cut the relationship. Shikena.i have given a lady an ultimatum before because we were in a r/ship and every time, i stay around her,she manages to anger me,i wasn't deriving any joy, happiness or fulfillment from the association and it was making me very unhappy ,after talking at length many times to no avail,i have to throw an ultimatum to her ,i knew very well ,she will not adhere to it,but i wanted out and needed her to be the cause of the break up,i never looked back. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by snthesis(m): 8:10pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ultimatums in my view is a last ditch effort in correcting sum1, its not a command per se, its a choice, and sumtyms it appears selfish. typical example is a lady dating a guy for donkey yrs yet the dude isnt ready to settle down, age aint on her side, she has numerous suitor, an ultimatum in dis case will serve to determine whr she truly stands with d dude rather than deceiving herself in hope |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by ezstino: 8:26pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
I think ultimatum could be necessary atimes in a relationship. take this scenario: you have dated your girlfriend for a longtime and now you want to settle down with her. you propose and she asks you to giv her time. she keeps you like dat without giving you her yes or no. this time I think an ultimate is necessarily. you need to demand a particular time frame you can wait for her to think about it and come out with her answer because you need to continue with your life and not to wait for her ever. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Niftyrules(m): 8:35pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
greatgod2012: The person who gives ultimatum in relationships is looking for an excuse from the other partner to break/cut the relationship. Shikena.Umh gr8 one frm u, i've been going thru each and every1s post, but u spoke ma mind. There's Nothing more than dat |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Niftyrules(m): 8:37pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
greatgod2012: The person who gives ultimatum in relationships is looking for an excuse from the other partner to break/cut the relationship. Shikena. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by nikkyshyne(f): 9:09pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
greatgod2012: The person who gives ultimatum in relationships is looking for an excuse from the other partner to break/cut the relationship. Shikena.Exactum. Hello Vivi ♥. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by vivianc(f): 9:10pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
IZUKWU: i will call your bluff. ok |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by vivianc(f): 9:20pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
nikkyshyne: Exactum. Hi baby, tried reaching you on BBM, what's up? |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by nikkyshyne(f): 9:22pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
vivian chinaza:On a little break. Don't miss me much |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by nwgoziri(m): 9:27pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
joeydozzy: ultimatum is meant for kids in a relationship.gud1...so wat else do u wnt 2 hear?@op |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Remmyy: 9:34pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Ultimatum made me a better person . . i am someone who, if i do not go to school, i am made but someone said. . look, go back to school or get dumped i did and im glad i did. . sometimes ultimatum means someone loves you so much but you are too stubborn to do what he/she wants (my view) as for me. . .it made me a better person and i thank God i have someone like that. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by vivianc(f): 9:42pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Remmyy: Ultimatum made me a better person . . Awwwww, that's touchy. Thank God for u. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
It depends! Sometimes, it's really not a way of displaying 'power', it's more like a way of expressing frustration from the other party. The kind of frustration that you might not even know the other person is feeling. U feel me? |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by smartg(m): 10:07pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: i only give ultimatium whwn am datin u, ur not a virgin, ur choppin my money, but dont wanna give me punny, i go jst tell u d real fact, if u no give me am leaving hahahahahahahaha10 likes |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by smartg(m): 10:08pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: i only give ultimatium whwn am datin u, ur not a virgin, ur choppin my money, but dont wanna give me punny, i go jst tell u d real fact, if u no give me am leaving hahahahahahahaha100 likes |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by armyofone(m): 10:12pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
@ ednut, you used to post on Nigeria world right? OP, give yours too. eg if you don't dress up now, I will leave you behind. You: Fine, I will drive myself there or good, sure go ahead if you can't wait. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:14pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: i only give ultimatium whwn am datin u, ur not a virgin, ur choppin my money, but dont wanna give me punny, i go jst tell u d real fact, if u no give me am leaving hahahahahahahahaHIM-becile no 1 smartg :HIM-becile no 2 |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by ednut1(m): 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:idowu obo thunda fire ur left yansh, guity conscience dy wori u 1 Like |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:20pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: idowu obo thunda fire ur left yansh, guity conscience dy wori uOrunmila castrate ur blawwwdy sausage. Goat! |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by ednut1(m): 10:22pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
armyofone: @ ednut,nt me |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by ednut1(m): 10:24pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:may zues soda ur obo, dog 1 Like |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:30pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: may zues soda ur obo, dogMay gollum batty r@pe u, horse! |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by armyofone(m): 10:34pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: you guys are hilarious. bloody sausage eh |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by ednut1(m): 10:43pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:otito idowu obo, fimisi le, all dose ya shoe na man giv u money nd maybe u no gv am dat black puny, na y my post pain u abi |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by vivianc(f): 10:51pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Who are those fighting on my thread? Does here look like a battlefield to you? |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Idowuogbo(f): 11:00pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
ednut1: otito idowu obo, fimisi le, all dose ya shoe na man giv u money nd maybe u no gv am dat black puny, na y my post pain u abiSharrap! U Monkey! I buy my own kits...I mean listen to ur m0ronic self, y date a lady if u eventually going to eliminate her due to d no sex rule? U a wot? U a blawwwdy HIM-becile. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by cowgurl: 12:22am On Apr 20, 2013 |
Nah, no room for ultimatums when we can actually sit and work things out. But if given, I trust myself to defile all of 'em which will eventually lead to our breaking up cept he apologizes. And yes, I also believe it mars relationship to a greater extent cept in exceptional cases though. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by Flygeriansteve: 12:54am On Apr 20, 2013 |
An ultimatum is a threat. Most ppl don't handle threats well at all much less in a relationship where ego, mutual esteem, respect etc are such big issues. They either cower to keep up or fight back. Either way, it seldom ends nice. |
Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by thegoodjoehunt(m): 2:00am On Apr 20, 2013 |
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Re: Ultimatum In Relationship; How Do You Handle It? by volcanoash(f): 3:12am On Apr 20, 2013 |
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