utumunta: I will smile and welcome him, and when he is leaving, she should just pack her things and follow him! I will not disrespect my marriage by inviting my ex into my home and expect my wife to know better!

poshdiva: The question is this...what is your business with your EX? Your EX is in your past! Let him or her remain there. Why bring them into your life again?
We have nothing to discuss abeg! Don't come and complicate my life for me. When we break up it doesn't mean we become enemies but we aren't friends to the extent that you will call me regularly or be invited to my husband's house. If we meet again, Hello; Hi would be okay. Ex's spell trouble and bring trouble

poshdiva: The question is this...what is your business with your EX? Your EX is in your past! Let him or her remain there. Why bring them into your life again?
We have nothing to discuss abeg! Don't come and complicate my life for me. When we break up it doesn't mean we become enemies but we aren't friends to the extent that you will call me regularly or be invited to my husband's house. If we meet again, Hello; Hi would be okay. Ex's spell trouble and bring trouble

megareal: What's the biggie there? Being threatened by a man who doesn't share the same continent with you is the height of insecurity. At least the guy had the courtesy to wait to meet and he was travelling somewhere else immediately. Truthfully, the woman had nothing to hide and her Hubby reacting negatively may raise some red flags in her mind and get her to start comparing. Best case scenario is to be nice and cool while talking with the guy. Its even a better time to draw your wife close and stroke her arm while subtly establishing territorial dominance. But most Naija guys don't realise the easiest way to get a woman's respect and loyalty is to not act threatened when confronted by a rival.

megareal: What's the biggie there? Being threatened by a man who doesn't share the same continent with you is the height of insecurity. At least the guy had the courtesy to wait to meet and he was travelling somewhere else immediately. Truthfully, the woman had nothing to hide and her Hubby reacting negatively may raise some red flags in her mind and get her to start comparing. Best case scenario is to be nice and cool while talking with the guy. Its even a better time to draw your wife close and stroke her arm while subtly establishing territorial dominance. But most Naija guys don't realise the easiest way to get a woman's respect and loyalty is to not act threatened when confronted by a rival.

Dovahkiin:

ode for ur mind na alpha male u be , if u like leave ur wife around her ex while u pee around ur house to mark your territory

mekaboy: Your wifes ex boyfriend who has been out of the country for long, came into your city and decided to visit. You where at work and came back, heard your wife gisting and laughing in the palour with drinks.

You came in, and your wife says, honey, guess who came into town to see us. You remember chucks my ex I told you about. He came into the country and stopped by to see us, he said he will be traveling another state today and decided to stop by.I told him you will soon be back from work so he decided to wait and see u.


Will like to know your reaction.

U really av to be shittng me...now seriously..which kind friendship goat dey do with yam....i seee blood ever where...abeg no dey reason dat kina thing.

joeydozzy: the guy has respect in the first place to wait for me to come home. my reaction will be "hey, welcome, how long are you staying?"