I can't stop loving Debby,she's the girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with.

People clearly fall out of love, hence about 50% of marriages and up to 70% of co-habitations don't work.

In any case, love means different things to different people.

C.Ovo:
I can't stop loving Debby,she's the girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with.

Good luck!

ok....ma girlfrnd jst broke up wif me....and i still luv ha....i tink dats luv....somtyms wen u luv smone it is beta for u to let dem go....if letin dem go wil make dem api :'

Fishout: whatever it may be,u dont need to stoping loving ur partner bt u can put limitation to it

Gbagaun

luv is a game,in wic weak souls cannot play,it require a strong soul.so b careful b4 fallin in LUV.

s.cabit:
Love is said to be eternal! Which means that you will always love your partner forever. Then can u outgrow loving him/her? Is it possible to stop loving him/her?

why not? If she change without genuine reason,

ManOfThePeople: People clearly fall out of love, hence about 50% of marriages and up to 70% of co-habitations don't work.
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Then it wasn't love in the first place

maxisfield: I wil kip Loving mine till death do us part by the grace of God

so once death parts u both,u stop loving him.Na wa o..
Thought it extends ni o

maxisfield: I wil kip Loving mine till death do us part by the grace of God

so once death parts u both,u stop loving him.Na wa o..
Though it extends ni o

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

ROTFLMA. You can take to the street in protest,we will join u when boko haram give their life to christ. Very funny guy.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
people dont love for no damn reason, therefore if these reasons are not there any longer or change then the love will die a natural death. for example, if you love someone because they were caring/understanding/special in anyway/beautiful or rich and they lost that attribute then there would be no more reason for love to exist in that said couple.

love is only eternal if the status of this couple is also eternal. you cannot love your partner forever, regardless of their actions.

If its for a reason - "his broad chest nice eyes", "her big bakassi" - its NOT LOVE!! What you've described is more like attraction, physical or otherwise.

^^^ people fall in love for many different reasons, and none of us can sit here and say that it is wrong.... we are all different and therefore what turn someone's love feelings on, may not be what turns another person's love feeling on. but SOMETHING triggers these feeling and without them, there can be no love (aka nothing to sustain this love).

btw, attraction has its fair share to play when love is concerned....whether physical/emotional/spiritual/financial or what not. if you are not attracted in anyway with the person you love then something is DEFINTELY and SERIOUSLY wrong.

yes. its very possible to stop loving one's partner.

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Sormeh: Love can die naturally when no matter all your efforts & sacrifices to make it enjoyable, u are still seen as not doing anything.

short bt ful of words

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

U can as well gather ur friends, and hit the streets all in the name of a POINTLESS protest! U wanna protest 4 boko 2 stop bombing with what? Missiles? U don't have any positive contribution, then bounce. Its ur type that always get it wrong... Just pray you don't suffer wrongly in the arms of a wrong love...

I can't stop loving my girl so far say she loves me

Yes, when he stops loving me.

keyword: Too much talk about love. Lemme ask,can we define love without God? Can we know ♓☺w to love without learning from him? God is love. For ∕̴Ɩ person to really love another, he must have ∕̴Ɩ deep knowledge of the ways of God. Love entails accepting both the good and bad, ugly and beautiful, tolerating each other, whether the persons attitude changes or not. Honestly, I don't think love is ∕̴Ɩ shallow word. We shouldn't have ∕̴Ɩ reason to love others.its ∕̴Ɩ command. We must love

Gbam!

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

Nice ...but errrrrm Sir or madam what stops you or ur your children(if uv got any) from leading the protest ur campaigning for ?

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

Bikonu, na wetin worry the guy him dey cry about, free am! He's teaching you to love the clueless and shoeless one..stop being a hater. If there was some level of trust and love between our Leaders and us citizens, I don't think the country would have deteriorated to this level. Mind you our problems didn't start with GEJ. Show some love and Respect for the President, the OP might just listen to you and take to the streets

Yes

keyword: Too much talk about love. Lemme ask,can we define love without God? Can we know ♓☺w to love without learning from him? God is love. For ∕̴Ɩ person to really love another, he must have ∕̴Ɩ deep knowledge of the ways of God. Love entails accepting both the good and bad, ugly and beautiful, tolerating each other, whether the persons attitude changes or not. Honestly, I don't think love is ∕̴Ɩ shallow word. We shouldn't have ∕̴Ɩ reason to love others.its ∕̴Ɩ command. We must love

-First part of your reply: ("Can we define love without God ....deep knowledge of the ways of God".)
I like that. Are you familiar with St. Augustine? He talks about something similar in a chapter of his Confessions (how the ideas we have about the universe and everything in it: of animals, of perfection, of nature, etc ...comes from God and HE is the one who instills them in us, specifically, in our minds). Reading your reply just reminded me of that passage.

-Second part of your reply: ("Love entails ...We must love" ).
True. And I like that you use the word "accept", which points out the fact that love is a choice. Accepting and choosing co-exist. Love is a command, yes, but just like all the other commandments we have the choice to do them, or not. If this weren't the case, the world wouldn't be upside down as it is today.

With romantic r-ships, I know it's not easy to stop loving someone like that, especially for people who're in love. Often, something huge has to happen for one to stop loving the other and even in that case, it would take time. So it's not like it's simple to do, but you can get there eventually if you choose to.

Anyway, to answer the OP, YES, it is possible to stop loving a partner:

A few reasons:

-We've freewill (see 2nd response to keyword)
-We're finite beings
-Sh1t happens


Another reason I want to list has to do with Plato's theory of forms (for anyone who's familiar with it), but too long to go into...

Ninapha: Anything dat is 'built' can be destroyed, ammended, redesigned and or obey the law of depreciation. Love between couples is built and has the tendencies of the afore mentioned.

Its possible if given reason to. Its only God's love that is sure yet he even rebuke and chastise!

I like this reply too.

youngestfool: Sometime love fade.
True love only happen in indian movie

lol

A Philosopher said so !

PapaBrowne: This love thing has too many definitions sef.
I dont waste time trying to decipher it.
I just understand love as the relationship between a MOTHER AND A BABY.

I can't stop loving him no matter his action.

Mr man,u wll soon die of envy while my president continues 2 deliver dividends of democracy 2 nigerians.

temiosunrinde: Its so pathetic and highly lugubrious that during this critical time in the history of our nation,where boko haram keeps bombing day in day out,where capitalist form of govt of the shoeless one is leading the nation to a disaster,where the unity and peace of our nation is being threathened everytime,some group of nairand youth who are suppose to take to the street in protest and call for the resignation of the shoeless and clueless one are here sitting at a computer or bb or whatever talking about LOVE,ohhh I weep for my country

Wetin concern u.