After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice

I wonder why people do silly things and then come for advise. What passed you to lie like that? It has always been said that you should never attempt to test your partner as most times, it back fires on your head.

This is what you should do. The lies stop right where you are. Forget what his reaction might be, forget the fact that he might get so mad that he might leave you and for the Love of everything you hold dear, forget the fact that you might be enjoying this "test"

sit him down and tell him what's what. Tell him the truth and why you did it. Hold nothing back and he might forgive you but attempting to lie that the tests came vack positive is silly cos after that lie, you will have to tell another lie to cover it up.

What will you say? That you lost the baby? But you forget that that might just make him start worrying if you can carry a baby to term.

Just tell the truth and you will be free to walk away from this really silly pyramid you are building

Then go fuuu..........ck him silly and get d pregnancy by force-











aids is real o....

Shame on you for having unprotected sex. Irresponsible of you, Indulging in things you should be advising younger ones against.

You alone can advise yourself, cos you alone know what you want from him and what you intend to achieve by lying about the pregnancy.

You are playing with fire ? Don't worry it will soon consume u ..

butta: You are playing with fire ? Don't worry it will soon consume u ..

And the fact that the OP would not listen to reason is more amusing

Hi,i happen 2 av met older ladies who av been in ur type of situatn.d outcome wer bitter.
One had 2 leav her thrivng busines.home and residenc 2 another state entirely wen buble burst.
D other had 2 face d ferocious attack 4rm her inlaws.
My advice is this if he does nt want 2 marry u now now 2 start raisng a fam(leav him).
If u knw somtin abot him dat u cannt liv wit(leav him)
dnt nvolve urself in a relatnshp dat God & ur family wil not approve.
Gud luck & Jesus luv u

Yes tell him its positive nd find out if he really means well for u nd then tell him u just wanted to know his reaction after u must have heard what he has to say.quote author=Peach45]After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice[/quote]

Peach45: After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice

What sort of games are you guys playing

If He is old enough to have a baby,then he should get himself a wife,
and why the hell are you risking your life?You've got a future babe! un rotected sex is a risk(a huge one that could cost you alot)

I dont understand what your question is and what advice you need

Princeparix: OP> Are you trying to get married by all means available?
Is getting pregnant your best option?
Having unprotected sex-is it your hubby?

Trust is a system that grows gradually but can be floored so quick that you regret lying.
If i were to be that dude>>i wont take it lightly.

am nt desperate my dear n being pregnant is nt on d list now.tanks 4 d advice

Mynd_44: I wonder why people do silly things and then come for advise. What passed you to lie like that? It has always been said that you should never attempt to test your partner as most times, it back fires on your head.

This is what you should do. The lies stop right where you are. Forget what his reaction might be, forget the fact that he might get so mad that he might leave you and for the Love of everything you hold dear, forget the fact that you might be enjoying this "test"

sit him down and tell him what's what. Tell him the truth and why you did it. Hold nothing back and he might forgive you but attempting to lie that the tests came vack positive is silly cos after that lie, you will have to tell another lie to cover it up.

What will you say? That you lost the baby? But you forget that that might just make him start worrying if you can carry a baby to term.

Just tell the truth and you will be free to walk away from this really silly pyramid you are building

tank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much ,wil cal him later in d day n tel him ve seen my menses bt wil neva let him knw I was testin him

Peach45: tank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much ,wil cal him later in d day n tel him ve seen my menses bt wil neva let him knw I was testin him

Exactly my point. If you lie, you would need another one to cover that one and it keeps growing. Now you are trying to tell another one to hide this one and lawd helps you if your menses come in two weeks time while he is with you. Then you will find another lie right?

Honesty is still the right bet