ADVICE TO YOUNG COUPLES ..SAVE THAT MARRIAGE, BEWARE OF EVILS OF SOCIAL NETWORKING..

Dating & Relationships Facts

Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss,
meet or Be Intimate with a third party. Once
you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails
so your partner wont see them, you are
already there. Its like a cancer it develops
slowly but you will surely feel the pain when
its fully grown .
The funny thing is most of
the times, people try to find what they
already have because they don't just
appreciate what they have. Remember the
grass may look green on the other side but
what if you could just invest time and energy
by watering the one that you have. Wouldn't
the world be a better place to be today?

Can you imagine how strong your
relationship would be if you would not waste
your energy, resources and time on things
that have no future . Secret, small, hidden
relationships are like ticks they suck all the
good things out of your marriage or
relationship and makes it unstable. it will
take you more effort to repair what you
would have damaged and the sad thing is
sometimes those wounds might never heal.

Now with these so called social networks
(Facebook, Skype, Whatsapp, Gtalk, iChat and
many other platforms)- so many marriages
and relationships are being damaged behind
the scenes. Have you ever calculated the
time that you invest in these social
networks? What if that time can be used to
promote those areas that you are struggling?

Evaluate what the gain and losses that you
have at the end of the day because in every
conversation its either you are gaining or you
are losing?

Stop sexting and flirting with those people-
Yes you know them. Imagine your partner
(Husband /wife) reading the messages that
you receive, would he/she reply with a free
heart on your behalf ? If the answer is
NO, then that is an unhealthy chat / talk that
you are having Stop it before its too late.

Some mistakes will cost you for a life time
yet you could have just avoid them by just
ignoring that chick / dude who now loves you
because you have been turned into a better
'asset' by your current partner. Where were
they when you were struggling?

Please may you all get rid of all the
parasitic relationships that will always be a
treat to your relationships' healthy. Fight for
what is right and never give up on the one
you Love.

Yes l said health because you have
to know and take care of it just like your
body. Love it as you love your body, maintain
it as you maintain your skin, teeth, hair and
nails. True love means hard-work. Do not
apply if you are not prepared to take the
risks.

Stay out for a relationship if you still
want to fool around (but that has its own
price) because a relationship calls for great
deal of commitment.

Most of the young people think that they
will start being faithful when they get
married- Word of Advise (You can never
teach an old dog new tricks) That is why they
are so many broken familes because people
think they still have time to adjust.

Start practicing being true to yourself when no one
is watching because that's who you really
are. Besides its by nature that what goes
around comes around - Problems will come, but learn how to deal with them and dont run away or look for alternatives.

Do you think the person that you got out of a secret affair
will stop just because you are now with her/
him. Beware of evils of Net working.. God Bless.

What do you do if you caught your wife or husband dating His or Her Ex on Facebook ?

This is a nice piece. More power to your elbow.

Op, thanks for the words of caution..
I think it's high time I deleted these time consuming, blood draining and money wasting leeches from my fb contacts and completely unsubscribe from other sites !
Imagine, the other time I was caught btw buying my sweetheart a befitting birthday gift and buying brazillian hair for a chick! ...now, I'm done...
Im sorry Sweetheart, I'm turning a new leaf.

This is a wonderful write-up. In fact, more relationships and marriages will fail in ten years from now as a result of social network websites, and more couples would cheat on their partners via social network engagement...everyone needs to tread carefully cos this social thing seem to have more demerits than the merits we are witnessing presently.

Kudos @OP, voted up and will share it

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@OP

Why didnt you put the source you copied this good piece from,beware of plagiarism

More reasons why couples should desist from pass wording. if you know your spouse might read your alerts before you, there are things you can never be caught doing.

Good one