When a girl comes with the line "but u're ya.nshing me" to support why I must do her bidding or give in to her demand monetary or otherwise, she has indirectly ended our relationship. Being there done that. I wouldn't want to be caught with a woman who thinks like that.

Hmmm, nice and some funny Reponses there.
it takes two to have sex right! I seriously don't think it is right with the way our ladies go about thinking they are their men's responsibility. Most ladies are very lazy, all they want is to seat back relax and enjoy while the man struggles all the way till he dies leaving all for them. Little wonder death rate shows 80% men to 20% women.
Women now think its a right asking for all manner of things all because they offer men sex though some guys make them feel so yet lots a women find releasing their cash difficult.
Bottom line is that you ain't her father so let her go out, wake up 4am and return past 9pm after experiencing Lagos traffic small for a few months that way she will learn.

Raggedy_Ann:
Tell her that you don't believe she should be your responsibilty since you're not married (maybe your convictions would lead her to re-assess her own moral obligations to herself)and that you cannot give her gifts because providing for your sisters drains you completely. Let her know that you're only interested in free sex and having someone around to cook for you ocasionally.

ie I will treat u like my wife when it comes to my needs (sex and cooking) but when it comes to providing for u I'm not going to play the role of your husband

sir_gigs: Hmmm, nice and some funny Reponses there.
it takes two to have sex right! I seriously don't think it is right with the way our ladies go about thinking they are their men's responsibility.

stop having sex and she will have to stop with her demands...problem resolved

Is she an orphan? smh

@op, sex<>money= prostitution . You are in a "prostitution relationship"

mondi_cheeks: stop having sex and she will have to stop with her demands...problem resolved

So having sex with his gf equates that he has to pay some fee. Many naija girls have ashawo mentality whoring themselves out. Later they will say guys treat them like property or things. It's no brainer a typical naija girls "love" goes to the highest available bidder. Love in Nigeria died in the 80s.

12 inches!:


So having sex with his gf equates that he has to pay some fee. Many naija girls have ashawo mentality whoring themselves out. Later they will say guys treat them like property or things. It's no brainer a typical naija girls "love" goes to the highest available bidder. Love in Nigeria died in the 80s.

and Nigerian men are quite the saint By all means go back into the 80s then

Kslib:
My advice is "Continue,you're on the right track"..
Errrm,no need to worry sef cos we've already warned your girlfriend to desist from that act.. I believe her name is Miss Emerald and she created this topic below https://www.nairaland.com/1294998/boyfriend-doesnt-give-me-anything
Pls next time in other to save seun's bandwith,you guys should do a merger. You and your girlfriend should combine and create only one topic. You being the man should post ur own first then her post follows yours and then we the outsiders start judging and giving points..

lol..... you wont kill person.

@Op Could this be your girlfriend? Your posts are similar.lol

My Boyfriend Doesn't Give Me Anything - Romance (4) - Nairaland
https://www.nairaland.com/1294998/boyfriend-doesnt-give-me-anything/4#15800476

@Op Could this be your girlfriend? Because your stories are similar.lol

My Boyfriend Doesn't Give Me Anything - Romance (4) - Nairaland
https://www.nairaland.com/1294998/boyfriend-doesnt-give-me-anything/4#15800476

pc guru:

I think am getting what you mean, it'd be wrong if he's stingy now that's different but not being able to give as a result of circumstances is different,there's a line between those two. Also not to bash anyone, but as someone good with numbers its quite cheaper actually. out of boredom i've calculated my friend's ashewo expenses before.

and some ashewo go dey give you discount and some days free bonus,lol.