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Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by StephenP(m): 12:49am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Jackal.:[size=13pt] So what if they are extreme? It doesn't change the fact that it happened and still happens. Go to any Nigerian newspaper website and read their reports. Everyday, there is always a story about domestic violence, and most of them are men beating up their wives, or bathing them in acid or even killing them. What I cited wasn't extreme at all.[/size] |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Jackal1(m): 12:51am On Apr 30, 2008 |
@ Pahtahkee, So how would u fight a woman's aggression? DIALOGUE?? A lass once poured a full glass of wine on me face in a posh restaurant one night. My offence: I was staring at anutha woman. . . . . .Can u fucking believe that? I was so embarrassed, not because of the flush of cold drink but the fact that all eyez were on me. . . . . . As a Chacal, i stormed out of the room and got meself dried up somewhere with ma heart in me mouth and plotting on what to do. Reaching a decision, i went back in. . . . . sat me ass on the chair, moved closer to the chic and delivered a well-wrapped slap. Got off me seat, went to the counter, paid and stormed out of the building. THAT TO ME WAS CLASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If u are stuck with a woman who is stupid enough to disgrace herself in public, u are well in your rights to disgrace her too. An eye for an eye! @ StephenP You cannot mix the 2 worlds. . . . . . .Leave Nigerian setting in Nigera and the western world for the western world. We can all talk about domestic violence in Nigeria and blame the men but have u really considered what these women do in the background. . . They get diabolical, take pictures, pubic hair and their husband's undies to a herbalist. . . . An extreme measure has to be deployed for extreme cases . . . . . .These things even up. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 12:51am On Apr 30, 2008 |
debosky: Emi! debosky, me? Am the one with the drama? next to you, my episodes dnt sale! And BtW kick rocks, you can't get this anywaz! |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by LadyT(f): 12:54am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Really Debo so I have drama episodes do I!!!! |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Radiant(f): 12:54am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Jackal.: Why do I have a feeling you're the psychopath here? Ain't no deception with a real woman! Why would I deceive a man? For him to marry me? You got to be talking about the sister I never had. I DO NOT FEAR MEN!!! Y'all are as good as the shrubs. If you grow too tall we cut ya and if you insist then ya must be uprooted completely. "It's not rocket science" as y'all always say. It's just a matter of knowing who you are and what you want. Ain't no man navigating my life because it's my flaming life! Y'all can go and hang with your rules and regulamyass |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by bawomolo(m): 12:55am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Cadet: ha ha, abeg oh, i hope i never cross your path. cadet the dominatrix Reaching a decision, i went back in. . . . . sat me ass on the chair, moved closer to the chic and delivered a well-wrapped slap. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by ztyle(m): 12:55am On Apr 30, 2008 |
@Jenny kai no bi small debate oh, See post as e plenty me self don read tire, BTW wetin make u no come house today? i see the offletter wey u drop 4 me, well i dey house dey wait 4 u, try show make we yarn. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by bawomolo(m): 12:56am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Emi! debosky, me? Am the one with the drama? next to you, my episodes dnt sale! And BtW kick rocks, you can't get this anywaz! that's right tell him, it's mines debo . i hope u ladies aren't really so agressive towards men. take am easy o. life is not that hard |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 12:56am On Apr 30, 2008 |
bawomolo:Lucky you, I bite! bawomolo:you need help |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 12:57am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Where's mr tyrant? am missing his post na |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by pahtahkee: 12:59am On Apr 30, 2008 |
@ Jackal, Who gives a Bleep about dialogue with a woman! A woman who happens to be a beast does not deserve any form of dialogue. Trust me, there are better ways to deal with a woman than burn out those calories of energy on her. You were lucky she didn't tear out your TM Lewin 200 Pounds Shirt with her claws thereon You do be singing This Is Home that night. But seriously, there are some women who deserves to be beaten when they utterly misbehave. But it would be wrong to continually melt out the same kind of punishment to a woman incessantly. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by debosky(m): 1:00am On Apr 30, 2008 |
I can't have this? someone must've told you I was interested - read my lips I don't do drama I get enough of that from the TV but Rad I might consider. . .I do like me a feisty mama |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Radiant(f): 1:01am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Oh Debo darlin, here you are. You heard me call ya name didn't ya? Still with that crazy idea of a village champion, huh? Jackal!!! go see a doctor! |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by LadyT(f): 1:01am On Apr 30, 2008 |
WAIT!!!!!!!! EVERYBODY WAIT!!! Look if you marry a typical Nigerian guy Radiant my darling you aint cutting no shrubs. Look before screaming and shouting the odds what kind of guy are you marrying? Most guys will see themselves as head of the household. If a woman marries a guy like that don't start snapping neck when he wants to flex his muscles and put his foot down and scream he is boss. I'm not saying some men are not just plain bastards who beat women up. But others have such big egos a modern woman would be the wrong woman she would have too much to say. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:02am On Apr 30, 2008 |
debosky:Now that's what I like to hear. Wish bawomolo could do the same |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:03am On Apr 30, 2008 |
LadyT: abi o. Some men are just plain bastards, period |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by StephenP(m): 1:05am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Cadet:[size=13pt]LOL! Is he the one |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:05am On Apr 30, 2008 |
StephenP:Don't mind him, he doesn't know am engaged You yourself, you're lucky you're fine, unless I would have told you to stop following me around |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by jgirl3: 1:05am On Apr 30, 2008 |
What da hell? I so agree with you lady T LadyT: |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by bawomolo(m): 1:07am On Apr 30, 2008 |
it's not stalking if there's no restraining order. am safe |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:10am On Apr 30, 2008 |
bawomolo:I can ask one from seun, you know |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by LadyT(f): 1:11am On Apr 30, 2008 |
@Morenike |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Radiant(f): 1:12am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Lady T, thanks dear. God knows what I can take and what I can't. I'm not one who worships men or even marriage. There's so much in life to be enjoyed than patching up with a raging lunatic all the time. Only a stupid woman would do that. I'm not saying there won't be tough arguments that may lead to a man wanting to slap/hit but hang on, you can simply break something around you if you can't control yourself. Anyway, I don't know about other women but certainly I won't condone beating for whatever reason. Only horses are beaten and I ain't one. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by StephenP(m): 1:14am On Apr 30, 2008 |
[size=13pt]LadyT, I agree with you to some extent. But some women deliberately make it so hard for their men to live in peace. Did you see "Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married?" Remember that woman that would constantly argue with her husband for no reason? Some women are actually like that. I think everyone needs to work themselves; the guys should know everything does not have to end physically and women should know when to calm down and hold their tongue for peace's sake.[/size] |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:14am On Apr 30, 2008 |
LadyT: StephenP: That movie was so sad! kai! |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by debosky(m): 1:15am On Apr 30, 2008 |
compatibility folks! that is the name of the game - marry a man/gal that suits your temperament, not some crazy chick who'll go burn your TM's and scratch your Lamborghini over a fight or something @ Rad what about S&M beatings? are those allowed |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by jgirl3: 1:15am On Apr 30, 2008 |
StephenP:Men too can be intolerable. No one is perfect. They all need to work it out without throwing blows, as hard as it might seem. |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Jackal1(m): 1:16am On Apr 30, 2008 |
@ Pahtahkee, U dont geddit, do u? When i hobbled back in. . . . .I didn't show any expression of anger or disapproval. Me was smiling and i think that got her relaxed so she was not expecting the bullet. . . . I slapped her so fast anyone watching us might have missed the action. . . . .She didnt have any time for a reprisal attack. By the time she realised she's been slapped. . . . . I was already outta the building!!!!!!! No one messes wiv ma ego and goes unhurt, not even Radiant. @ Radiant, U can sue me ass. . . . . . Wayne Rooney slapped his gurlfriend in a nightclub one night . . . . In her book, she said that is how she expects a man to act. . . . The ability to control a woman when she is losing it. . . PRICELESS!!!!! |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Cadet(f): 1:17am On Apr 30, 2008 |
debosky:Obo, so you're worrying about lamborghini when you should be worried about solving the fight? |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by debosky(m): 1:20am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Lamborghini is more valuable than any fight. . .do you know how many diamond earrings that can buy? Now tell me what fight won't a pair of 2 carat diamond studs solve? |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by bawomolo(m): 1:20am On Apr 30, 2008 |
Cadet: shh who?? Wayne Rooney slapped his girlfriend in a nightclub one night . . . . |
Re: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by Radiant(f): 1:20am On Apr 30, 2008 |
StephenP: LOL. . .I agree with you but Mr will you marry someone you don't know like Debo intends to? A woman doesn't become a monster overnight neither does a man become an ass overnight. The problem is always a case of denial. We never want to see the signs on the wall all in the name of "love". kiss ma bum! |
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