Hit me indeed, never

you ladies will never say the truth.The fact is that too many ladies still put up with a boyfriend that hits them,hoping he'll change.If he hits you while you are dating, he's going to hit you when you guys get married. Gba be!!!

jennykadry:

oh my gawdddddddddddddddd

hehehehehe

tpia:

No.

jennykadry:

4 Him:

lai lai, never, no way . . . too many people are obviously decieving themselves here.
There is no excuse for a man to beat his wife but face it ladies, after 3 kids will you just pack your bags and head out the door because of a slap?

Where is the room for forgiveness?

4 Him:

lai lai, never, no way . . . too many people are obviously decieving themselves here.
There is no excuse for a man to beat his wife but face it ladies, after 3 kids will you just pack your bags and head out the door because of a slap?

Where is the room for forgiveness?

The Sly:

Do you know that 92% of Nairaland Users are Hypocrites?
Check this thread. . . here All the laydies there were saying . . .The poster should marry her. . blaH blah blah B.S Tell me if any of these laydies would marry a guy who is already a father. .

Buncha hypos!!!

Explain what your lil statements has to do with this post. We're talking about abuse, you're talking about a single father. Seriously dnt get

Explain what your little statements has to do with this post. We're talking about abuse, you're talking about a single father. Seriously dnt get

tpia:

if your partner is already hitting you before marriage then he definitely wont stop after marriage. If anything, the beatings will intensify.

~Antidote~:

@topic,
while I do not condone physical abuse in any shape, form or size, I won't just pack and leave my matrimonial home if my husband lost his senses and hit me.  First of, I will hit him to hell back, and if it becomes habitual, then some drastic steps would definitely be taken.  

It somehow amazes me how MOST women will stick it out in a Verbally abusive marriage/relationship, but shy away from one where a few slaps are distributed, I would take a "loving slap" over a firey tongue any day, However, don't expect me to take the slap "lying down", [b]I am too much of a pitbull.[/b]I will be punching back, This is ONLY my 2cents and I won't come here and lie.

StephenP:

[size=13pt]Ladies, the moment your man hits you, lock the door and beat the shit out of him, call the police and pack your stuff and leave, if you can. If you can't, please don't hit him because that will only aggravate him more, instead simply skip the first step and just call the cops and leave.[/size]

StephenP:

[size=13pt]Ladies, the moment your man hits you, lock the door and beat the shit out of him, call the police and pack your stuff and leave, if you can. If you can't, please don't hit him because that will only aggravate him more, instead simply skip the first step and just call the cops and leave.[/size]

Beat a man that's twice your size?
Ever heard of this yoruba phrase, "Abara kekere fun abara nl"? meaning, big slap for small slap. A man's hand is usually twice the size of his woman and firmer. When that man hits that woman back gan, she go think thunder hit her

A knife gets the job done.

4 Him:

how does this solve the problem? unless the man is known to be a chronic abuser then you really don't need to get this drastic.

Nobody shld assume that i'm condoning wife beating, far from it. But i like to be realistic here . . . what would you achieve with 5 kids and a husband locked behind bars just for slapping you?