Dear Nairalanders,
Myself and wife to be were discussing today and she asked if i can carry her hand bag while walking together, i replied No, but if she's weak or sick i can help her but if not make she carry her bag herself o, so the Question is Guys can u help your wife or Girlfriend to carry her bag ?

Depends

What's there?
I for one don't lyk someone carrying my bag for me. Even if he offers, i'll probably decline but it's no big deal to do it as a guy. U guys just read meanings into little inconsequential things.

No way!! Why should I carry her handbag when I didn't ask her to come come along with it in the first place.
Besides, I don't wanna draw unnecessary attention to myself so I'll just stay with my 'NO'!

Hmn...

It depends on the type of bag.

Wife?
Sick?
Too many luggage? YES.

For any other reason? NO

Dn't ask me to show if I love you, cuz you gonnu be heart broking

What's difficult in doing that? Yet they wud wash her pants behind closed doors

I dey craze? I no fit

haitto99: I dey craze? I no fit

WHY?

Of course i can. But anyway it depends on how much i know the lady. If it is first time date, boy if you touch that bag or purse she is gonna call you 'criminal'.
But with time i can comfortably do that, also whenever i am walking with my sisters, elder or younger, i carry 'em bags.

lynpetra: What's difficult in doing that? Yet they wud wash her pants behind closed doors

shut up! The bag thingy ain't a big deal for me at all but i can never wash undies! Even if she is sick(rather pay for it to be washed)

thegenius84: Dear Nairalanders,
Myself and wife to be were discussing today and she asked if i can carry her hand bag while walking together, i replied No, but if she's weak or sick i can help her but if not make she carry her bag herself o, so the Question is Guys can u help your wife or Girlfriend to carry her bag ?

old school. I do it all the time.
If she doesn't carry a bag, i do hold her purse!
Isn't it so sexy on it's own?

Jeez! Why do we make a mountain outta a mole hill? Is that really a big deal? Personally I don't see anything wrong with it, it's even kinda romantic. Yet, that doesn't mean its automatically becomes the man's job or something.

But seriously, I don't know why people read excess meaning to everything that comes to the fore...

Carrying a bag is part of a lady's dressing, so she should carry it herself, but I can help if need be, no big deal.

maxwello.yg:
Of course i can. But anyway it depends on how much i know the lady. If it is first time date, boy if you touch that bag or purse she is gonna call you 'criminal'.
But with time i can comfortably do that, also whenever i am walking with my sisters, elder or younger, i carry 'em bags.

You are a gentleman :-)

alutacontinua:

WHY?

this is africa nt d western worid

Sure, why not. No big deal.

haitto99: this is africa nt d western worid

So, which law states dt u shld nt carry her bag in africa?

maxwello.yg:

shut up! The bag thingy ain't a big deal for me at all but i can never wash undies! Even if she is sick(rather pay for it to be washed)

Shut down!