D-reloaded:

Isnt the "aesthetics" of a person the first thing you see though? If a man sees a woman and isnt immediately attracted to her, why would it even get to the point of a relationship.

It was when they were IN a relationship that she realized the dude ate like a pig as oposed to when you meet someone and you see that they LOOKS like a pig so it wouldnt even get to the point of marriage in the firts place

You'd be surprised how many men start complaining about their partner's looks after they've been dating for quite a while. You just wait until your brother or friends come with far more beautiful women, you'll start looking at your partner with more critical eyes.
Reminds me of a friend in college who dumped his gf of over 3 yrs because she had become too fat . . . this girl had been big ever since we were in secondary school . . . cute . . . everything u'd want in a chic.
But he dumped her as soon as he saw a "yellow pawpaw". things happen o.

Sheniqua must have noticed the eating habits before but she was probably blinded by "love" and the bible.

It has happened again

Topic don e haj

Anyways, the day my brother brought home a gal that wasnt easy on the eyes

even my dad had to say "Atleast if you have to treasure something, it should be goodlooking enough"

sound like my dad

4 Him:

Reminds me of a friend in college who dumped his girlfriend of over 3 years because she had become too fat . . . this girl had been big ever since we were in secondary school . . . cute . . . everything u'd want in a chic.
But he dumped her as soon as he saw a "yellow pawpaw". things happen o.

After 3 years? That's a shame.

Gamine:

It has happened again

Topic don e haj

Anyways, the day my brother brought home a girl that wasnt easy on the eyes

even my dad had to say "Atleast if you have to treasure something, it should be goodlooking enough"

really funny!

Yellow pawpaw haha.

“The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who
walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been before.

Creativity in living is not without its attendant difficulties, for peculiarity breeds contempt. And the
unfortunate thing about being ahead of your time is that when people finally realize you
were right, they’ll say it was obvious all along.

You have two choices in life: You can dissolve into the mainstream, or you can be distinct.
To be distinct is to be different. To be different, you must strive to be what no one
else but you can be.

D-reloaded:

After 3 years? That's a shame.

man, it was real bad. that girl cried like i'd never seen a woman cry before. The yellow pawpaw relationship didnt last more than a yr, very rude little thing.

Gamine:

“The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who
walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been before.

Creativity in living is not without its attendant difficulties, for peculiarity breeds contempt. And the
unfortunate thing about being ahead of your time is that when people finally realize you
were right, they’ll say it was obvious all along.

You have two choices in life: You can dissolve into the mainstream, or you can be distinct.
To be distinct is to be different. To be different, you must strive to be what no one
else but you can be.

long meaningless theory. You are indirectly influenced by those around you.
Face it, if your brother brings home a cute chic u'd look at ur own again and wonder silently if u could not have done better.
A couple of yrs ago, my gf used to be the barometer for my close friends . . . after we started dating everyone else started looking for light skinned girls . . .

4 Him:

long meaningless theory. You are indirectly influenced by those around you.
Face it, if your brother brings home a cute chic u'd look at your own again and wonder silently if u could not have done better.
A couple of years ago, my girlfriend used to be the barometer for my close friends . . . after we started dating everyone else started looking for light skinned girls . . .

attests to the strength of ur character doesn't it?

HR.hotness:

attests to the strength of your character doesn't it?

whatever that means.
Leaving an opinion on NL says absolutely nothing about my personality in real life.

Thnkfully only one person in my house cn bring home a Girl

if anyone else does, then deliverance for that person o!

Anyways, this topic has been hijacked

Back to the Single woman,

If she has made a choice, which all this boils to.

making choices,

But not being too open minded that your brains fall out

People should just treat such with the respect deserved or undeserved

4 Him:

whatever that means.
Leaving an opinion on Nairaland says absolutely nothing about my personality in real life.

rrrriiiiiiggggghhhtttt!!!

gotcha,,,,

HR.hotness:

I probably would hav done the same thing
I'm notoriously impatient with people with poor manners

Thank you.
I thought I was shallow.
Good to know many ladies draw a line when it comes to a man without manners.
I can manage an ugly man or even a short and ugly man,it's not his fault
but someone who doesn't know how to behave in public is an absolute "don't"

@ TOH, honestly I thought love would be enough
It got to a point where I just couldn't handle the whole thing.
I couldn't marry a man I resented.
I didn't even have the courage to tell him why I fell out of love.
There were other things but the whole resentment stemmed from this issue.

so you told him you were resenting him?

@Post
dnt mind those women in a relationship jare. Nothing wrong with being single! Let's even be single till we're 45, haba!! efiwasile

Cadet:

@Post
dnt mind those women in a relationship jare. Nothing wrong with being single! Let's even be single till we're 45, haba!! efiwasile

Exactly. I feel sorry for the men that think without them I am incomplete.

Rebellious:

Exactly. I feel sorry for the men that think without them I am incomplete.

Dnt mind them, the men just want a lil sth sth

@Rebellious
welcome back jare. I think you left someone behind. StephenP dey ask for your YIM

Rebellious:

Exactly. I feel sorry for the men that think without them I am incomplete.

no mind them . . .its all in their heads!

Rebellious:

Exactly. I feel sorry for the men that think without them I am incomplete.

the truth is no one truly cares. Like others have said, it is a matter of choice. I wouldnt be feeling sorry for men if i were you, a woman is very replaceable.

D-reloaded:

so you told him you were resenting him?

I didn't use those words,No

4 Him:

a woman is very replaceable.

So are men

4 Him:

the truth is no one truly cares. Like others have said, it is a matter of choice. I wouldnt be feeling sorry for men if i were you, a woman is very replaceable.

OSANOBUA!!

Cadet:

Dnt mind them, the men just want a little sth sth

@Rebellious
welcome back jare. I think you left someone behind. StephenP dey ask for your YIM

Oh. Sexy as he is why didn't he ask me himself?

Busta:

no mind them . . .its all in their heads!

Girl you got that right.

4 Him:

the truth is no one truly cares. Like others have said, it is a matter of choice. I wouldnt be feeling sorry for men if i were you, a woman is very replaceable.

Men too are replaceable. They all want the same thing anyway so it's easy to swap.

@rebellious
ask him when he gets online

Rebellious:

Men too are replaceable. They all want the same thing anyway so it's easy to swap.

the average guy always has at least 2 women for back-up incase you start getting too big for ur boots.

Cadet:

@rebellious
ask him when he gets online

I'll let him ask me.

4 Him:

the average guy always has at least 2 women for back-up incase you start getting too big for your boots.

And you think we women don't? Hasn't Sex and The City taught you anything?

4 Him:

the average guy always has at least 2 women for back-up incase you start getting too big for your boots.

same goes for an average women.
wat a man can do, a woman can do better!

@ 4Him  you think women don't have back ups and undercover lovers ready to be revealed when the price is right.
Think again

Rebellious:

And you think we women don't? Hasn't Sex and The City taught you anything?

Only women waste time with such sitcoms.
Women can have 63 back-ups if they so wish, no one is bothered. When a guy needs a chic he always knows how to get one.

Rebellious:

I'll let him ask me.

lol!! that's the way to do it!

@david
give up, men are easily replaced.

Those women who are neither telling you yes or no,who you couldn't classify as girlfriends even though they seem to be showing you "green light" are women with options.
You may be the 5th in line

4 Him:

Only women waste time with such sitcoms.
Women can have 63 back-ups if they so wish, no one is bothered. When a guy needs a chic he always knows how to get one.

When a woman wants a guy (we really don't need you guys the way you guys need us), all we have to do is give them the eye.