My sister I no agree with this one o
It's like saying women who are hit, they pushed the man to it.
A man cheats because of lack of self control it has absolutely nothing to do with the woman.

sheniqua:

now you're talking sweetheart
Your hubby probably grins when you catch him lost in a silly gaze looking at a girl passing by with double DD's and dollypatton cleavage.
All men do it,even pastors and Imams
They are men
It's in their DNA

But when he crosses that line and acts on those feelings, that's where I draw the line.
You can look but you cannot touch.

Your husband lucky o

He knows if he cheats, you will be prepared to shoulder the blame for his malfeasance

jennykadry:

have u ever tot of d probability that maybe u aint doing something right that is y he brought a woman into your matrimonial bed(God forbid its not your portion ,im only giving examples)

Abeg lets be truthful to ourselves,d fact that most men cheat doesnt make them a womanizer,some of them that cheat ,its d woman that pushes them to do it,and wenever they taste d forbidden fruit,na so we women go dey shout ,dey cry,dey curse d man,mean while na our fault, abeg forget all this matter jare

trooe i hope say u no be d type wey go dey go cry to pastor to pray make God restore your marriage,all of una wey dey make mouth so

sheniqua:

Men are like wild animals.
Everything to them is a conquest and it takes discipline and maturity for them to get off that mode.
Girls don't sit around talking about men that have "chopped" them
If anything they minimize the number so people won't call them ashawo
men on the other hand have an 80 leaves exercise book with names, time and frequency.
The talk about it and even hype the numbers to impress their friends.
That is the "manly" thing to do, conquering women.
so a man cheats because the "conquering" spirit is not put under subjection

jennykadry:

and what about those men that their wives starve sexually,all in d name of shakara,or maybe because they quarelled and d woman is denying him his rights,i know of a friend that starved her husband for 2months and 16 days,all in d name of punishing him d hard way so that he wont annoy or offend her again,tell me if that man goes outside who blame fall on?body na wood,make we talk like human beings wt blood flowing through our veins

I don't agree with her method but the man ought to find out the real problem not run off to another woman.

Could she be unhappy?
Is he selfish?
does he make fun of her sexually?
There's absolutely no reason to go outside,he ought to get to the root of the matter

sheniqua:

Men are like wild animals.
Everything to them is a conquest and it takes discipline and maturity for them to get off that mode.
Girls don't sit around talking about men that have "chopped" them
If anything they minimize the number so people won't call them ashawo
men on the other hand have an 80 leaves exercise book with names, time and frequency.
The talk about it and even hype the numbers to impress their friends.
That is the "manly" thing to do, conquering women.
so a man cheats because the "conquering" spirit is not put under subjection

lmfao so true, what woman will want to be labled as an ashewo. The guys notebooks is called the black book, wonder why they keep track of the names, or maybe for future emergences. Men can brag, kai i guess it their term as the "men's world"

The woman sef be wood.
2 months and 16 days?
when some people can't last more than 2 days straight Lips sealed Lips sealed
How did she manage?
The man doesn't have proper skills
can't stay mad that long no matter what.
I need all my marital benefits

Jenny, that your friend is a foolish woman.

jennykadry:

ride on my sis nothing do u

but honestly this woman really did this thing,even when she was telling me,i asked her if she had some other man helping her out sexually.she said no,even when she yarn me d story make i no lie i doubt from day one,but i later believed judging from d fact that i don know her for ages,right from primary school days,and shes capable of doing that and even more

now you're talking
she simply left the man and was satisfying her desires elsewhere and pretending to be angry.
Poor man

ztyle:

@Cadet
. . . . As stated above, so go figure it out

The woman sef be wood.
2 months and 16 days?
[b]when some people can't last more than 2 days straight 
How did she manage?[/b]The man doesn't have proper skills
can't stay mad that long no matter what.
I need all my marital benefits

ztyle:

@CaDet Question: . . . on Pending since u can't use your head.

Jenny, that your friend is a foolish woman