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Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
I am telling you Jenny Tell him to take you to Vegas Hotel choice . Bellagio Love will just full everywhere You will conceive triplets dia wallahi if care is not taken |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by biolabee(m): 5:54pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Put on my bucket list.... 1 Like |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by SisiKill1: 5:55pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Vegas it is!!!! Jenny I assumed it's just you and Hubby, right? Please VEGAS!!!!! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: Vegas it is!!!! Gbam!! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by slimyem: 6:01pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry:Well,yes as I have had quite a number of personal experiences(emphasis on the s) living in polygamous homes(relations),being friends with those from the same,have parents who grew up in the same,and have friends who are married into the same. It might be too microscopic to generalise but If I haven't seen one party(father mother or children) out of about ten polygamous homes state happiness emphatically or publicly,then I doubt if there exist any. Apart from illiterate or poor polygamous homes where the whole street is aware of their altercations,the literate/rich are more discreet with dealing with their issues.You never know unless you are an insider. |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
The man has been disturbing me. He has the American Pali and a few months ago he found it hidden in my closet and accused me of hiding it away from him . I honestly didn't even know it was there, I bet you he completely forgot he left it there. I have told him I did not hide it and he knows this but has told me he would only forgive me if I agree to travel to the states with him to appease the country of the Pali I hid. His parents are there at the moment and he wants us to leave the kids with them and travel around. I am still thinking about it abeg |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by bellong: 6:02pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
coogar: He managed the three wives perfectly well until he added three more making Six. That was the point he lost his management skills, many thanks to the scheming of the latter three |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
babyosisi: I am telling you Jenny Abeg don't shout too much, the man has been talking about adding one more to the family, if he reads this post of yours, he will drug me and I will wake up in vegas. BTW Was that how you conceived yours? Osisi confess |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by bellong: 6:05pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: The man has been disturbing me. He has always had the American Pali and a few months ago he found it hidden in my closet and accused me of hiding it away from him . I honestly didn't even know it was there, I bet you he completely forgot he'd left it there. I have told him I did not hide it and he knows this but has told me he would only forgive me if I agree to travel to the states with him to appease the country of the Pali I hid. WIth this arrangement, VEGAS is it.. However, whatever happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas... |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: Vegas it is!!!! Sisi With the way you and osisi are selling this vegas......... I am too old for the energy in Vegas |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
No I call people stu*pid because they are stu*pid. The likes of me are 100 times better than the likes of you. Who wants to be a dunce with no purpose in life than to be gnawing at women's wrappers all over the place like a rat? Who wants to be a man without testicles? By the way I thought you said you had no time today. If it's impossible for you to post in thread without name calling and attacks to people not even participating in the thread, I'm more than happy to provide you the smackdown you are looking for. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
coogar: Tell me about these places coogar,...,, |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Osisi sorry for derailing |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
coogar:Were you from a polygamous home?. If you are not, then you know nothing about it. My dad married 2 wives and unfortunately my mum is the second. I said unfortunately because I know the kind of issues we've had over the years. From trying to kill my siblings and I, calling my mum a witch and even till this day they are still plotting on how to send my mum packing. your point about money is far from it. I'm from a rich home with a lot of money to go around but there is still strife and hatred. Polygamy is no fun, eni to kan Lo mo. |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: For where,I don't even know when them kids got into my womb I just saw my stomach protruding every now and then First time I went to Vegas I was like Chineke mee!!! It is now I have seen America!!! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by lovelydoll: 6:12pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
The only time i would like to be in a polygamous marriage is if i were bisexual.Other than that i find it disgusting to the core.you fuk one wife ,and fuk another the next hour or day. He Also kisses one women and comes to kiss me next. noooo no matter what i will never go into a polygamy "marriage" it is way too intimate. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: Which energy You will love the shows The shopping ( for those who shop) The crowd The food OMG The buffets? If you gamble,the casinos There is this restaurant where they come and cut the meat out of the skewers unto your plate till you say enough!! Assorted meats Then when you return to the hotel room with the tantalizing beds you will just kill your oga |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
babyosisi: Eziokwu, Vegas ama'ka eh kwa? |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by slimyem: 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
honey86:Thank you! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
If I decide to go, my hubby will join nairaland just o thank osisi and sisi for convincing me to go with him |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by biolabee(m): 6:20pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
ileobatojo: xxxxx Go in peace.. the ink maketh not the person u are free to type,.. i dont need to compare myself with you// leave that to the Joneses... im happy with my life... all these ur rants are just what they are... |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by dayokanu(m): 6:21pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
I think it depends on the mentality and culture There are some people brought up to believe its the only way and its God ordained. I believe their would be some Moslem and mormon ladies who would argue fervently in support of Polygamy Fights happen even in monogamous families with some siblings never talking to each other for decades My grandfather had 2 wives and it was my grandmom who went to their town to choose the second wife for him, She chose the young girl she could handle and wont become a problem for her and brought her to the husband |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Preach Dayo, preach. I said it that religion plays a very vital role in this. Some Muslims would argue and advocate for polygamy....to them its normal Come to think of it, my maternal grand father married 2 wives and my mum and are siblings are still close |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by damiso(f): 6:30pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
My mum has a saying (the woman has got loads of em ) Ile Olorogun Ogba Were (polygamous home, compound of the mentally challenged).My grandfathers on both sides were polygamists.Both muslims.Both with a very unhealthy toxic rivalry amongst the kids.In my Dads case its was more like indifference.If you ask me, I think he subconciously blanked his half siblings.I even only know one and I think I have seen him once or twice.In my mums case its really annoying.Every family gathering is an opportunity to size the others up and the level of competition na another thing. One reason I like living far away from Naija is the drama on my mums side of the family.....gosh .As I speak there is one of such gatherings happening and my younger sister conveniently 'has a meeting' so she cant attend.My bro moaned all morning about having to drive my mum there. Am sure my maternal grandfather regretted having 5 wives cos his money would have gone alot further with less wives and kids. |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by coogar: 6:39pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: hawaii, florida, california.....you in bikini, hubby in monokini. lots of running on the sandy beach and a nice warm weather. honey86: i don't have to be from one to know what obtains in a polygamous setting. i know close family friends from the same setting and i am telling you not everyone of them is filled with strife!
marrying 2 wives is more problematic than marrying 6. one party would always feel unloved and the human behaviour towards situations that make them feel like they are suffering alone can be aggressive. when you discover there's light everywhere on your street but your own house, you become restless - why me? however, when there's no light for everyone for months, you are more comfy because you know you are not the only one suffering.... that's the difference between marrying 2 wives and marrying 8 wives. solomon would have been more comfortable with his 300 wives than a man that married 2 wives. that's the way human perception is wired! general suffering is accepted - lone suffering isn't! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: Vegas this time of year? Be ready to come back fully cooked. It would be hot as hell over there. But there's definitely lots of fun to be had. But it's jam packed with people non stop. The hotels look like a rave with the sheer volume of people. If you're looking for something more intimate and romantic maybe florida? or hawaii (never been because of the distance, I always feels like if I'm going to fly 8 hrs I might as well go international) If you're looking for alcohol induced conception of triplets, then, its vegas oh! Lol! |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
lovelydoll: The only time i would like to be in a polygamous marriage is if i were bisexual.Other than that i find it disgusting to the core.you fuk one wife ,and fuk another the next hour or day. He Also kisses one women and comes to kiss me next. Lol! So true about the disgusting factor. |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
biolabee: Why so muted? Did I strike a nerve? Hope you're not crying? I thought you were being the brave blabbermouth sent to NL to take on the flaming feminazi's? You were yapping non stop before so why so quiet now? By the way, I was going in peace until you started calling me names. I will continue to go my way in peace till the next time I find you calling me names again for no credible reason. |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by biolabee(m): 7:39pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
What's your point.... Why don't you answer on the topic so we can discuss on polygamy The likes of you can never intimidate me.. moreover you dont know me and likewise me you.. Your problem is that you have a superiority complex and in your lust for equality make laughable comments. I grant that you are smart but you really have a chip on your shoulders Why don't you take up your issues with your creator that deemed you a woman Woman.. Let's have an issues based discussion @on the feminists, theyvve made their point they will leave the marriage. So no further points Theres a feminism thread.. u are welcome to join in https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general- ileobatojo: |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
Why didn't you discuss polygamy instead of deliberately starting shyte with people? If you wanted an issues based discussion, why didn't you do just that, discuss the issues and responses on ground like every other sane person on the thread was doing? Why didn't you post your own opinion and move on? Why didn't you go about your business instead of minding other people's business for them? |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by biolabee(m): 8:17pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Why didn't you discuss polygamy instead of deliberately starting shyte with people? If you wanted an issues based discussion, why didn't you do just that, discuss the issues and responses on ground like every other sane person on the thread was doing? Why didn't you post your own opinion and move on? Why didn't you go about your business instead of minding other people's business for them? My dear ileoba u r the one looking for a fight where there was none My point was clear and if u have objectively read as u claim you are Polygamy is unfashionable due to economic realities not because of religion or strenght of xtianity So if the women themsleves are empowered as they are Will they still have an issue with it As for you the reality is that the genders are not equal but different If u are prowl around looking for your warped version of equality Good luck on that OYO |
Re: Is There A Happy Polygamous Home? by armyofone(m): 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2013 |
That was then, it was easy and the norm in those days. Ladies today and polygamy? I doubt it. They will be getting the own grove on somewhere. dayokanu: I think it depends on the mentality and culture 1 Like |
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