I am telling you Jenny
Tell him to take you to Vegas
Hotel choice . Bellagio
Love will just full everywhere

You will conceive triplets dia wallahi if care is not taken

Every person has to be at Times Square at night once in their life time
The excitement is better than SE.x

Put on my bucket list....

Vegas it is!!!!

Jenny I assumed it's just you and Hubby, right?

Please VEGAS!!!!!

Sisi_Kill: Vegas it is!!!!

Jenny I assumed it's just you and Hubby, right?


Please VEGAS!!!!!

Gbam!!

jennykadry:

Like I said,I haven't got proof but have you.........? I don't know if it was an ACT but I have never seen a more peaceful polygamous home. Still close even after these years

Well,yes as I have had quite a number of personal experiences(emphasis on the s) living in polygamous homes(relations),being friends with those from the same,have parents who grew up in the same,and have friends who are married into the same.
It might be too microscopic to generalise but If I haven't seen one party(father mother or children) out of about ten polygamous homes state happiness emphatically or publicly,then I doubt if there exist any.

Apart from illiterate or poor polygamous homes where the whole street is aware of their altercations,the literate/rich are more discreet with dealing with their issues.You never know unless you are an insider.

The man has been disturbing me. He has the American Pali and a few months ago he found it hidden in my closet and accused me of hiding it away from him . I honestly didn't even know it was there, I bet you he completely forgot he left it there. I have told him I did not hide it and he knows this but has told me he would only forgive me if I agree to travel to the states with him to appease the country of the Pali I hid.

His parents are there at the moment and he wants us to leave the kids with them and travel around. I am still thinking about it abeg

coogar:

marrying 2 wives is not advisable....
marry one or more than two. besides, there are plenty of men with multiple-wives management skills. if you can't manage 3 wives, how would you manage a conglomerate or a country?

He managed the three wives perfectly well until he added three more making Six. That was the point he lost his management skills, many thanks to the scheming of the latter three

babyosisi: I am telling you Jenny
Tell him to take you to Vegas
Hotel choice . Bellagio
Love will just full everywhere

You will conceive triplets dia wallahi if care is not taken

Abeg don't shout too much, the man has been talking about adding one more to the family, if he reads this post of yours, he will drug me and I will wake up in vegas. BTW Was that how you conceived yours? Osisi confess

jennykadry: The man has been disturbing me. He has always had the American Pali and a few months ago he found it hidden in my closet and accused me of hiding it away from him . I honestly didn't even know it was there, I bet you he completely forgot he'd left it there. I have told him I did not hide it and he knows this but has told me he would only forgive me if I agree to travel to the states with him to appease the country of the Pali I hid.

His parents are there at the moment and he wants us to leave the kids with them and travel around. I am still thinking about it abeg

WIth this arrangement, VEGAS is it.. However, whatever happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas...

Sisi_Kill: Vegas it is!!!!

Jenny I assumed it's just you and Hubby, right?

Please VEGAS!!!!!

Sisi With the way you and osisi are selling this vegas......... I am too old for the energy in Vegas

No I call people stu*pid because they are stu*pid.

The likes of me are 100 times better than the likes of you. Who wants to be a dunce with no purpose in life than to be gnawing at women's wrappers all over the place like a rat? Who wants to be a man without testicles?

By the way I thought you said you had no time today. If it's impossible for you to post in thread without name calling and attacks to people not even participating in the thread, I'm more than happy to provide you the smackdown you are looking for.

coogar:

florida, hawaii, california
osisi + sisi might try to convince you to go to chicago, winsconsin or arkansas. don't listen to them o!

Tell me about these places coogar,...,,

Osisi sorry for derailing

coogar:

it's all in the head.....
far majority of divorces are from monogamous homes - so who are we fooling? if you have a man and a wife at home too, they would fight and say horrible stuff to each other. wives pretending to be happy is a moot point - humans are generally insatiable!

i really commend your dad - 3 wives are better than 2. actually any number is better than 2. it's only when one woman feels left out that danger is imminent. when there are more than one wife feeling left out, things are generally better.

Were you from a polygamous home?. If you are not, then you know nothing about it. My dad married 2 wives and unfortunately my mum is the second. I said unfortunately because I know the kind of issues we've had over the years. From trying to kill my siblings and I, calling my mum a witch and even till this day they are still plotting on how to send my mum packing. your point about money is far from it. I'm from a rich home with a lot of money to go around but there is still strife and hatred. Polygamy is no fun, eni to kan Lo mo.

jennykadry:

Abeg don't shout too much, the man has been talking about adding one more to the family, if he reads this post of yours, he will drug me and I will wake up in vega. BTW Was that how you conceived yours? Osisi confess

For where,I don't even know when them kids got into my womb
I just saw my stomach protruding every now and then

First time I went to Vegas I was like Chineke mee!!!
It is now I have seen America!!!

The only time i would like to be in a polygamous marriage is if i were bisexual.Other than that i find it disgusting to the core.you fuk one wife ,and fuk another the next hour or day. He Also kisses one women and comes to kiss me next.

noooo

no matter what i will never go into a polygamy "marriage" it is way too intimate.

jennykadry:

Sisi With the way you and osisi are selling this vegas......... I am too old for the energy in Vegas

Which energy


You will love the shows
The shopping ( for those who shop)
The crowd
The food OMG
The buffets?
If you gamble,the casinos

There is this restaurant where they come and cut the meat out of the skewers unto your plate till you say enough!!
Assorted meats

Then when you return to the hotel room with the tantalizing beds you will just kill your oga

babyosisi:

For where,I don't even know when them kids got into my womb
I just saw my stomach protruding every now and then

First time I went to Vegas I was like Chineke mee!!!
It is now I have seen America!!!

Eziokwu, Vegas ama'ka eh kwa?

honey86:
Were you from a polygamous home?. If you are not, then you know nothing about it. My dad married 2 wives and unfortunately my mum is the second. I said unfortunately because I know the kind of issues we've had over the years. From trying to kill my siblings and I, calling my mum a witch and even till this day they are still plotting on how to send my mum packing. your point about money is far from it. I'm from a rich home with a lot of money to go around but there is still strife and hatred. Polygamy is no fun, eni to kan Lo mo.

Thank you!

If I decide to go, my hubby will join nairaland just o thank osisi and sisi for convincing me to go with him

ileobatojo: xxxxx

Go in peace.. the ink maketh not the person
u are free to type,.. i dont need to compare myself with you// leave that to the Joneses...
im happy with my life...

all these ur rants are just what they are...

I think it depends on the mentality and culture

There are some people brought up to believe its the only way and its God ordained.

I believe their would be some Moslem and mormon ladies who would argue fervently in support of Polygamy

Fights happen even in monogamous families with some siblings never talking to each other for decades

My grandfather had 2 wives and it was my grandmom who went to their town to choose the second wife for him, She chose the young girl she could handle and wont become a problem for her and brought her to the husband

Preach Dayo, preach. I said it that religion plays a very vital role in this. Some Muslims would argue and advocate for polygamy....to them its normal

Come to think of it, my maternal grand father married 2 wives and my mum and are siblings are still close

My mum has a saying (the woman has got loads of em ) Ile Olorogun Ogba Were (polygamous home, compound of the mentally challenged).My grandfathers on both sides were polygamists.Both muslims.Both with a very unhealthy toxic rivalry amongst the kids.In my Dads case its was more like indifference.If you ask me, I think he subconciously blanked his half siblings.I even only know one and I think I have seen him once or twice.In my mums case its really annoying.Every family gathering is an opportunity to size the others up and the level of competition na another thing.

One reason I like living far away from Naija is the drama on my mums side of the family.....gosh .As I speak there is one of such gatherings happening and my younger sister conveniently 'has a meeting' so she cant attend.My bro moaned all morning about having to drive my mum there.
Am sure my maternal grandfather regretted having 5 wives cos his money would have gone alot further with less wives and kids.

jennykadry:
Tell me about these places coogar,...,,

hawaii, florida, california.....you in bikini, hubby in monokini. lots of running on the sandy beach and a nice warm weather.

honey86:
Were you from a polygamous home?. If you are not, then you know nothing about it.

i don't have to be from one to know what obtains in a polygamous setting. i know close family friends from the same setting and i am telling you not everyone of them is filled with strife!

My dad married 2 wives and unfortunately my mum is the second. I said unfortunately because I know the kind of issues we've had over the years. From trying to kill my siblings and I, calling my mum a witch and even till this day they are still plotting on how to send my mum packing. your point about money is far from it. I'm from a rich home with a lot of money to go around but there is still strife and hatred. Polygamy is no fun, eni to kan Lo mo.

marrying 2 wives is more problematic than marrying 6. one party would always feel unloved and the human behaviour towards situations that make them feel like they are suffering alone can be aggressive.

when you discover there's light everywhere on your street but your own house, you become restless - why me? however, when there's no light for everyone for months, you are more comfy because you know you are not the only one suffering....

that's the difference between marrying 2 wives and marrying 8 wives. solomon would have been more comfortable with his 300 wives than a man that married 2 wives. that's the way human perception is wired! general suffering is accepted - lone suffering isn't!

jennykadry:

Sisi With the way you and osisi are selling this vegas......... I am too old for the energy in Vegas

Vegas this time of year? Be ready to come back fully cooked. It would be hot as hell over there. But there's definitely lots of fun to be had. But it's jam packed with people non stop. The hotels look like a rave with the sheer volume of people. If you're looking for something more intimate and romantic maybe florida? or hawaii (never been because of the distance, I always feels like if I'm going to fly 8 hrs I might as well go international)

If you're looking for alcohol induced conception of triplets, then, its vegas oh! Lol!

lovelydoll: The only time i would like to be in a polygamous marriage is if i were bisexual.Other than that i find it disgusting to the core.you fuk one wife ,and fuk another the next hour or day. He Also kisses one women and comes to kiss me next.

Lol! So true about the disgusting factor.

biolabee:

Go in peace.. the ink maketh not the person
u are free to type,.. i dont need to compare myself with you// leave that to the Joneses...
im happy with my life...

all these ur rants are just what they are...

Why so muted? Did I strike a nerve? Hope you're not crying? I thought you were being the brave blabbermouth sent to NL to take on the flaming feminazi's? You were yapping non stop before so why so quiet now?

By the way, I was going in peace until you started calling me names. I will continue to go my way in peace till the next time I find you calling me names again for no credible reason.

What's your point.... Why don't you answer on the topic so we can discuss on polygamy
The likes of you can never intimidate me.. moreover you dont know me and likewise me you..

Your problem is that you have a superiority complex and in your lust for equality make laughable comments.
I grant that you are smart but you really have a chip on your shoulders


Why don't you take up your issues with your creator that deemed you a woman
Woman.. Let's have an issues based discussion

@on the feminists, theyvve made their point they will leave the marriage. So no further points
Theres a feminism thread.. u are welcome to join in https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general-

ileobatojo:
xxxxx

Why didn't you discuss polygamy instead of deliberately starting shyte with people? If you wanted an issues based discussion, why didn't you do just that, discuss the issues and responses on ground like every other sane person on the thread was doing? Why didn't you post your own opinion and move on? Why didn't you go about your business instead of minding other people's business for them?

ileobatojo: Why didn't you discuss polygamy instead of deliberately starting shyte with people? If you wanted an issues based discussion, why didn't you do just that, discuss the issues and responses on ground like every other sane person on the thread was doing? Why didn't you post your own opinion and move on? Why didn't you go about your business instead of minding other people's business for them?

My dear ileoba u r the one looking for a fight where there was none
My point was clear and if u have objectively read as u claim you are

Polygamy is unfashionable due to economic realities not because of religion or strenght of xtianity
So if the women themsleves are empowered as they are
Will they still have an issue with it

As for you the reality is that the genders are not equal but different
If u are prowl around looking for your warped version of equality
Good luck on that OYO

That was then, it was easy and the norm in those days. Ladies today and polygamy? I doubt it. They will be getting the own grove on somewhere.

dayokanu: I think it depends on the mentality and culture

There are some people brought up to believe its the only way and its God ordained.

I believe their would be some Moslem and mormon ladies who would argue fervently in support of Polygamy

Fights happen even in monogamous families with some siblings never talking to each other for decades

My grandfather had 2 wives and it was my grandmom who went to their town to choose the second wife for him, She chose the young girl she could handle and wont become a problem for her and brought her to the husband