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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 15, 2013
Hunkyimage:

Iz dis one also one of 'em? (Still thinkin' out loud)

I dunno why I'm replying you even when I shouldn't but if it aint a black stick, I'm not interested, actually a black heavy stick.
I'm sure its gonna take ya a decade to understand this, good luck!
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by jiggar(m): 12:40pm On Jun 15, 2013
All those practicing such an evil act should just desist from it because, it's has nothing to do with the way GOD intended the world to be. Someone would say they have the right to do what they feel like, what nonsense. A time would come in the future and somebody would tell us that it's good to legally marry an animal and procreate with it and then such evil ways would be passed into law. I really feel bad that people don't even have the fear of GOD in them any more. GOD help us all.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Policewoman(f): 12:42pm On Jun 15, 2013
HOMOSEXUALISM IS EVIL!!! STOP THE ACT!!!
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by cyco05: 12:42pm On Jun 15, 2013
[quote author=jidegirl12]Are you Bullying them now because it doesn't seem right to you and your beliefs? Do you really know what effect this thread can cause for gays out there?? Suicide attempt maybe?

Why can't you live and let others live Nigerians?? I tire oh.

[Don't accept gays can't do a thing about it!...it just is not right! /quote]
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jun 15, 2013
jiggar: All those practicing such an evil act should just desist from it because, it's has nothing to do with the way GOD intended the world to be. Someone would say they have the right to do what they feel like, what nonsense. A time would come in the future and somebody would tell us that it's good to legally marry an animal and procreate with it and then such evil ways would be passed into law. I really feel bad that people don't even have the fear of GOD in them any more. GOD help us all.

aaah sharaaap you probably committed like 15 sins before you ate breakfast today....God made homosexuals just like he made you...

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jun 15, 2013
Mr knowitall.:


aaah sharaaap you probably committed like 15 sins before you ate breakfast today....God made homosexuals just like he made you...

Haha nice response :-)

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by onyeego(m): 12:47pm On Jun 15, 2013
I still don't understand how a man will be attracted to a follow man to the point of been intimate, its just absurd.

For those who say they were born gays, I think they should be treated for their ailment rather than encourage them to live that way, maybe their is a hormone malfunction in their system that needs to be corrected.

Any behavior that doesn't follow the natural order should be regarded as an ailment, let us discover the cause(s) and develop a cure.
If a woman gives birth to a goat; something is wrong, its left for discerning minds to know why a woman should be delivered of a goat rather than say d woman has right to give birth to a goat.

I just pray a cure is found soon.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 15, 2013
onye ego: I still don't understand how a man will be attracted to a follow man to the point of been intimate, its just absurd.

For those who say they were born gays, I think they should be treated for their ailment rather than encourage them to live that way, maybe their is a hormone malfunction in their system that needs to be corrected.

Any behavior that doesn't follow the natural order should be regarded as an ailment, let us discover the cause(s) and develop a cure.
If a woman gives birth to a goat; something is wrong, its left for discerning minds to know why a woman should be delivered of a goat rather than say d woman has right to give birth to a goat.

I just pray a cure is found soon.

*yawns*
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by theripper3: 12:51pm On Jun 15, 2013
I don't want to believe Gays were born with such natural proclivities. Even lesser animals are able to differentiate male from female, though there are cases of homosexuality in animals which is rare and quite truthfully an Aberration. There is no known gene or codon dat codes for HOMOSEXUALITY, not any I am aware of. Homosexuality is purely societal and by choice. If a large percentage of the world are to embrace HOMOSEXUALITY, then a natural process of continuity such as reproduction dwindles or comes a halt..

What I don't understand is this Gay right campaign and publicity, it's not like straight pple carry placards to protest being straight.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by surugede(m): 12:53pm On Jun 15, 2013
jidegirl12: Are you Bullying them now because it doesn't seem right to you and your beliefs? Do you really know what effect this thread can cause for gays out there?? Suicide attempt maybe?

Why can't you live and let others live Nigerians?? I tire oh.

did you say suicide attempt? Are they still 'attempting" they should go on and die. what they live at the moment aren't life afterall
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by jmoore(m): 12:53pm On Jun 15, 2013
Homosexuality is wrong. I don't care what they do in their closets but they are not entitled to marriage rights.
The gays should continue with their cohabitation and leave marriage out of this.

And to give them the right to adopt is a very foolish idea.

Homosexuality is a choice, a wrong choice! Yes, there are many ex-gays.

I won't be surprised when "bestial people"(men that h@ve sex with animals) will come out and start campaigning for their own "bestial rights" and one researcher will come out with a foolish research that some people are born to engage in bestiality.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by jiggar(m): 12:53pm On Jun 15, 2013
Mr knowitall.:


aaah sharaaap you probably committed like 15 sins before you ate breakfast today....God made homosexuals just like he made you...
I never insulted anybody, but you just came out to attack me. However, I am not a saint, but "I am pressing towards the goal for the prize of the upward call of GOD in Christ Jesus". I make mistakes every day, but whenever I make mistake and ask my FATHER in heaven for forgiveness, HE does forgive me. Now for someone that has already concluded that homosexualism is good and right, how does he/she ask GOD for forgiveness, when to such a person there is nothing wrong in committing such act?

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by shineeye1: 12:54pm On Jun 15, 2013
The sensibilities of majority of Nigerians is still intact unlike deranged westerners. The present generation of Nigerians have counted themselves out of the curious insanity ravaging the western world thro legislation against same sex marriages. It is up to the coming generation to uphold the morals. The proof of insanity in the west is seen in permitting homos to adopt children! What madness is worse than condenming innocent lives to a future of confusion by commiting them to the custody of sodomites?

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by andyprez(m): 12:56pm On Jun 15, 2013
I really don't blame people who support gay acts because its the world system that permits it. Someone said its their right to fight for what they believe in but forgetting its also my right to fight what I believe in also. I have met gay people in my school years & do understand that its difficult to change such act, I really do but that doesn't make it right, does it?
Have we asked ourselves what moral values are we passing to the young ones? & how far will it go?.... Today is same sex, tomorrow it may be man & animal. It may be man & object. I only pity some of our mindset
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by mitey(m): 12:57pm On Jun 15, 2013
I'm sorry OP, but most of your writeup is bullshi.t. I am a christian and will preach the gospel to you anyone opportunity I get, and the very idea of homosexuality makes me sick, as in vomit.

But I hate to see people have blind hatred for things they don't understand or don't want to understand. To me homosexuals are people who have made a wrong decision about life, just like smokers, adulterers and drug addicts, though they insist that that is how they are naturally. There are a lot of things wrong with homosexuality, and when you find them, bring them to the fore and you will have my support. But unfounded facts and wrong personal opinions, I will not permit! #ThatsAll

I grew up understanding a family to consist of a mother, father and children (and by extension, a group of people related by blood). And I understand a marriage to be the legal relationship between a man and a woman (husband and wife.
Perceptions change with generations. In our parents time it was a taboo for women to wear trousers. Does the OP not wear trousers and short dresses today that may have led to certain punishment in her mother's time?

My question is: how can these 2 people of same sex procreate?
The exact same way a couple that cannot have children by biological means procreate. Either by adoption, in-vitro fertilization etc

The same way the kids they will adopt were produced by 2 straight normal parents.
I find your statement highly offensive. It is from thinking like this that groups such as Boko Haram who find Christianity abnormal become terrorists


If homosexuality were to be the norm in the society, how would the world's population have increased this much.
Not everyone is cut to be a homosexual. Just as till today ladies still wear long gowns that 'sweep the ground' despite it being against modern trend. Some die-hards (like me, for instance) can never be homosexual. So there will always be straight people to procreate.

Moreover, God didn't create 2 men; male and female he made them.
That is what my Bible tells me, but most homos are either atheist or practice some exotic religion that support their beliefs

Sex, though pleasurable is also for procreation. Sex between a man and a woman that is!
That my dear lady is your opinion again. I don't think so many people will be homos it wasn't 'pleasurable' to them.

What happens to our family system if we continue to encourage homosexuality?
I can't answer that one, but my Bible again tells me that in the last days iniquity shall abound. A lot of people kicked against the sale of porn when it first came in: watch it in your homes, but don't show our children. But today, go to any video CD seller under the bridge, what they display in the front in broad day light is hardcore porn. You can't fight evil, simple fact, you can only postpone and delay it! My Bible tells me so.

Research has shown that kids raised by homosexual parents encounter more problems than those raised by heterosexual parents.
We will very much like to see this research and then provide you with thousands more that says different.

There is also the health hazard. It has also been noted that there are more homosexual and bisexual men diagnosed with HIV in a community largely populated by heterosexuals.
This again is your own opinion. Many people suggested that HIV came as a result of homosexuality, but it is unfounded. Anyways, in the last ten years, this information has been proven to be simply wrong.

Homosexuality will kill the family system if not checked. This, I believe is what the government is doing by criminalizing homosexuality.
Again your opinion, your conclusion.
Who gave birth to homos? Heterosexual parents. Now how can you prove that homosexual parents will kill the family system when it is straight people that are giving birth to them?
And no, the government is not concerned about the family system. They are only concerned about preserving our cultural values which I happen to agree with.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by pazienza(m): 12:58pm On Jun 15, 2013
Horus: A man should not be intimidated by a gay or a lesbian. By that I mean, those people who set out to preach “fire and brimstone,” the beating and harassing of homosexuals and lesbians, in most cases are people that fear for a dormant personality that might come forth from themselves.
If you are sure about your manhood or womanhood, then you should have no fear of socializing or befriending a person with different intimate preferences than you. The very fear is a confession that if you were to socialize with a gay or lesbian you’re afraid you might become a gay or a lesbian.

So true.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jun 15, 2013
jiggar: I never insulted anybody, but you just came out to attack me. However, I am not a saint, but "I am pressing towards the goal for the prize of the upward call of GOD in Christ Jesus". I make mistakes every day, but whenever I make mistake and ask my FATHER in heaven for forgiveness, HE does forgive me. Now for someone that has already concluded that homosexualism is good and right, how does he/she ask GOD for forgiveness, when to such a person there is nothing wrong in committing such act?

I dont understand homosexually either...but one thing i do know is thats its none of my business what two grown adults

decide to do in their own bedroom. Just worry about your own relationship with your God and make sure you enter heaven

and you'll be fine...Jesus said love God and love they neighbor...he didnt say love they neighbor unless they are gay,

black, white, Yoruba, or Igbo
...he just said love they neighbor....basic human rights should be granted to all humans

regardless of who they like to have sex with....

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by claremont(m): 1:04pm On Jun 15, 2013
Tgirl4real:
Research has shown that kids raised by homosexual parents encounter more problems than those raised by heterosexual parents.
It would have been useful if you had quoted the pieces of research you used in coming to this conclusion. An abundance of research supports the view that children borne from homosexual parents augur just as well, if not better, than those borne in heterosexual relationships.

Gay Parents and their Children: A Review of Research and Practical Implications (http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/j.1556-6676.1986.tb01182.x/abstract)
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Homosexual Parenting: Do Children have to be raised by Strainght Parents (http://www.academia.edu/2029488/Homosexual_Parenting_Do_Children_Have_To_Be_Raised_by_Straight_Parents)

The fact of the matter is that homosexuality is not a new thing, it has been in existence for a long time. I don't see why so much furore is now being generated over an issue that doesn't and shouldn't really concern people who are supposedly straight.
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Hunkyimage(m): 1:05pm On Jun 15, 2013
Amaaskia:

I dunno why I'm replying you even when I shouldn't but if it aint a black stick, I'm not interested, actually a black heavy stick.
I'm sure its gonna take ya a decade to understand this, good luck!

Lolzzz,reminds me of Lex Steele...
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jun 15, 2013
@ OP, ur arguments sounds like a secondary school debate. Anyway, I like woman too much to be homo-anything but sapien-sapien.
If you want a more compelling argument it should be more foundamentally oriented like that presented by the pro-gays.
But as for me, other guys can Bleep themselves if they like, God dey look you. Since I can't change the principles of our laws just to favour my opinion, I can still tell my opinion, "homosexualists are an abnormality which should be treated like any other human mental disease."

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Ishilove: 1:07pm On Jun 15, 2013
Shollypopz: Only when it shows potential damage to the society should measures be taken to curtail it. Most homosexual partners want kids anyway. They either get surrogates or adopt. Legalizing homosexuality will actually help numerous homeless and abandoned kids. And God knows too many kwashiorkor-fly-ridden-kids in Africa need adoption. Heterosexuals love to give birth to babies they can't take care of anyway undecided

You mean increase in marriage between homosexuals can affect population and society negatively. You kept on saying family system, what is a family system?? The society/religion/culture brought about the recent family system: man+wife=kids. This family system can be tweaked to man+man=adopted kids, woman+woman=get a single man to impregnate you and get a kid grin
It doesn't get more fvcked up than this. Morals have gone down the drain. undecided sad

Abomination upon abominations are now the order of the day. That which used to be an abomination has become a celebration, otherwise folks will not be campaigning for the legalisation of homosexual marriages.

While I support that gays should not be harmed, I can't stress enough the importance of prayers and deliverance for this group of people. A lot of people have homosexual tendencies but they repress them. When I was younger, I used to find myself checking out fellow women in an almost lustful manner. I say 'almost' because I never let it get out of hand. I hardened my heart and perished the thoughts. I asked my God to uproot that demon that wanted to turn my affections into something twisted and unnatural , and He granted my request.

Some might argue that they can't help themselves and they have finally accepted and embraced their homosexuality, but I earnestly declare that is a very bullshit argument. If I had given free rein to those tendencies I noticed earlier, I would have by now prolly become a full blown lesbo, or at least bi-sexual. And to the mini Freuds in the building who may say I was conditioned by society to repress what society views as wrong, I must insist that they are also spewing bullshit. As Tgirl pointed out, Man was created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve or Eve and Helen. Homosexuality in most cases is a choice. I made a choice not to become one. You can choose to accept it, or you can choose to fight it tooth, nail and blood.

In my point of view, homosexuality is a perversion which can be dealt with through prayers and deliverance.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 15, 2013
Pyrrho: "homosexualists are an abnormality which should be treated like any other human mental disease."

Interesting....and how would you tread this mental disease?

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 15, 2013
Ishilove:

In my point of view, homosexuality is a perversion which can be dealt with through prayers and deliverance.

There is a huge church called RCCG, and they hold monthly prayer meetings in their camp in Lagos which millions of

Nigerians attend....They pray for God to end corruption in Nigeria, poverty, unemployment, and bad governance has it

worked? Human rights and religion have nothing in common

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by freecocoa(f): 1:14pm On Jun 15, 2013
I'm honestly still at crossroads as regards homosexuality, true a man and woman was created therefore it is only logical that sex should be between a male and female.

I strongly want to believe that no one was born gay but how is that to be cos even with all the stigmatization, people still remain gay, I'm not sure anyone loves being looked down on and ridiculed which many gays face, some even risk being mobbed and killed in some places yet that hasn't stopped them, which leaves me asking why?

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by duni04(m): 1:21pm On Jun 15, 2013
onye ego: I still don't understand how a man will be attracted to a follow man to the point of been intimate, its just absurd.

For those who say they were born gays, I think they should be treated for their ailment rather than encourage them to live that way, maybe their is a hormone malfunction in their system that needs to be corrected.

Any behavior that doesn't follow the natural order should be regarded as an ailment, let us discover the cause(s) and develop a cure.
If a woman gives birth to a goat; something is wrong, its left for discerning minds to know why a woman should be delivered of a goat rather than say d woman has right to give birth to a goat.

I just pray a cure is found soon.
Please define natural order. Have you been able to scientifically establish, personally or quoting from any research, if homosexuality is natural or a lifestyle choice? Does your own definition or concept of natural order mean anything that disgusts or irritates you or anything you don't understand? Comments like this make me ashamed of the color of my skin, ignorance is just so pervasive in our part of the world. God help us!

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by georgecso(m): 1:21pm On Jun 15, 2013
Its is not normal to be a lesbian of gay. Its unnatural and anti-God for that matter. Those who indulge in this abnormal practices don't really derive joy or happiness in the real sense. May God have mercy! There is a strong evil demon or spirit behind this...
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by phonetics: 1:22pm On Jun 15, 2013
Cori_corde: Let's try to be open-minded and understand homosexuality. One doesn't choose to be homosexual, they just are, just like one doesn't choose to be hetero or bisexual. I mean, there's no 'gay gene' is there?

Besides, is it not heterosexual people that keep having homosexual children?

Who knows? It could be God's way of controlling population. With the rate at which the world's population is growing now, we could use a couple of gay people.

God has NEVER created an homosexual person. NEVER! It is either BY CHOICE or BY DEMONIC ACTIVITY(especially from Birth or Youth). We christians don't hate Homosexuals, but HOMOSEXUALITY(The Sin). When Homosexuals Repent, Accept Jesus, and undergo a DELIVERANCE SESSION, the demons will be cast out and they WILL be Free. They then need to Renew their Mind by the Word of God. This is the Permanent Solution for Homosexuality-For those who are interested in being Free!
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by SPSpecial(m): 1:24pm On Jun 15, 2013
You see guys, what i know is the best you can do is to keep away from what we see as bad act.
Am sure and i know that one faithful day, those that are into homosexsacrilege will start regreting and runing out of d illogical act, confessing, when GOD and the heavens begin flogging their buttocks and life.
We should just pray to God not to punish us along with them.......... where the unrighteous are suffering we the righteous should not partake in it. (AMEN)
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by WuzilistiQ(m): 1:25pm On Jun 15, 2013
Homosexualism should not be promoted,that has been my biggest fear, how can you tell me that it is natural and that one needs to go close to them to understand them. What will I do with the notion of it being their nature? People that go around the neighborhood to canvas kids to become homosexuals by enticing them with material things, this is a big sin against humanity, I feel so ashamed of the international community for backing the act of same sex union, they give them the support because 99% of their wealth is drawn from this sect. Of persons in their society. The international community don't show interest in any place they won't gain from, so we know how trickish they have been for centuries.if you re born into the world with this nature, do your thing with those in your league, don't corrupt others, and if your legalizing your union please don't look for kids no matter the way you try to paint it to look common, it is not a balanced combination to be a child in between same sex,it lack complete bonding of a family...please the idea of promoting the gay community to kids is the act of evil.
Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 15, 2013
phonetics:

God has NEVER created an homosexual person. NEVER! It is either BY CHOICE or BY DEMONIC ACTIVITY(especially from Birth or Youth). We christians don't hate Homosexuals, but HOMOSEXUALITY(The Sin). When Homosexuals Repent, Accept Jesus, and undergo a DELIVERANCE SESSION, the demons will be cast out and they WILL be Free. They then need to Renew their Mind by the Word of God. This is the Permanent Solution for Homosexuality-For those who are interested in being Free!


shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked so this is the solution to all Nigeria's problem? why have you been keeping it a secret? so this is how

the U.S, U.K, CANADA, GERMANY, FRANCE, and why the Chinese and Indians are now becoming world power? They just repented,

accepted Jesus, and underwent deliverance session? WOW

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jun 15, 2013
So far as you're straight and can marry, of what threat are the gay ones, who are in the minority, posing to you?

Be worried about the numerous bastards that are born everyday out of wedlock, teenage pregnancy and all unwanted babies et al, and stop worrying about the kids that gays won't have.

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Re: Homosexuality And Its Adverse Effects On The Family by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jun 15, 2013
First class undiluted ignorance..... My eyes have seen I tell y'all , what else is there to explain to a country full of hungry and angry mobs shocked shocked

My Dear Gays, I love y'all very much tongue cool and just want you to know you're on priority list in any western country .God loves you more kiss


Mr Knowitall ..... You try oh....I no get pawa!! Not for these ignorant lot..mba!!!

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