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jidegirl12:
My Dear Gays, I love y'all very much and just want you to know you're on priority list in any western country .God loves you more

jidegirl12: Are you Bullying them now because it doesn't seem right to you and your beliefs? Do you really know what effect this thread can cause for gays out there?? Suicide attempt maybe?

Why can't you live and let others live Nigerians?? I tire oh.

I grew up understanding a family to consist of a mother, father and children (and by extension, a group of people related by blood). And I understand a marriage to be the legal relationship between a man and a woman (and wife.
husband

The society is now teaching me to accept a family to comprise of 2 parents of same sex as father and mother or 2 parents of different sex as father and mother.

My question is: how can these 2 people of same sex procreate?

If homosexuality were to be the norm in the society, how would the world's population have increased this much. Moreover, God didn't create 2 men; male and female he made them.

Sex, though pleasurable is also for procreation. Sex between a man and a woman that is!

What happens to our family system if we continue to encourage homosexuality?

Research has shown that kids raised by homosexual parents encounter more problems than those raised by heterosexual parents.

There is also the health hazard. It has also been noted that there are more homosexual and bisexual men diagnosed with HIV in a community largely populated by heterosexuals.

Our kids have the right to a proper understanding of what homosexuality is. The fundamental difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality should be distinguished.

Homosexuality will kill the family system if not checked. This, I believe is what the government is doing by criminalizing homosexuality.

ddeola: Homosexuality is a sign of mental imbalance

Tgirl4real: I grew up understanding a family to consist of a mother, father and children (and by extension, a group of people related by blood). And I understand a marriage to be the legal relationship between a man and a woman (husband and wife.

The society is now teaching me to accept a family to comprise of 2 parents of same sex as father and mother or 2 parents of different sex as father and mother. Marriage can now be a union between 2 males or 2 females.

Tgirl4real:
My question is: how can these 2 people of same sex procreate?

Did I hear someone say "they can adopt"?

Why adoption I ask again if homosexuality is meant to be innate?

Tgirl4real: Homosexuality cannot lay claim to its biological purpose. 2 homosexuals were given birth to by a woman who was impregnated by a man. The same way the kids they will adopt were produced by 2 straight normal parents.

If homosexuality were to be the norm in the society, how would the world's population have increased this much. Moreover, God didn't create 2 men; male and female he made them.

Sex, though pleasurable is also for procreation. Sex between a man and a woman that is!

What happens to our family system if we continue to encourage homosexuality?

Tgirl4real:
Research has shown that kids raised by homosexual parents encounter more problems than those raised by heterosexual parents.

Tgirl4real:
There is also the health hazard. It has also been noted that there are more homosexual and bisexual men diagnosed with HIV in a community largely populated by heterosexuals.

Tgirl4real:
Our kids have the right to a proper understanding of what homosexuality is. The fundamental difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality should be distinguished.

Tgirl4real:
Homosexuality will kill the family system if not checked. This, I believe is what the government is doing by criminalizing homosexuality.

Tgirl4real: It's not just a matter of what is right to me, it's about how it imparts on the society at large. That is why I have refrained from making this religious.

Secondly, no one is saying they should not live, but our innocent children have the right to a proper understanding of what this is . . .Let them know it is a choice and not what they can't help.

jmoore:

God loves r@pist too.
God loves murderers too.
God loves those who engage in bestiality too.

smh

Mr knowitall.:


Interesting....and how would you tread this mental disease?

masonkz:

Rapists are harming ppl who didn't ask for it.
Murders are killing people who didn't ask for it.
People are having sex with animals that didn't ask for it.

Satisfied?
Smh.

ozo_emeka:

Possibly can not be a choice when I've seen children as young as 4 displaying flamboyant tendencies - WHO "taught" them that? So throughout history your fore fathers who practiced homosexuality in Nigeria as part of their culture (and mind you had NEVER seen " oyinbo' before) who taught them? [b]Your facts are based on empty emotional rants. [/b]If you had a disclaimer that these are YOUR thoughts, fine, not pass on your thoughts as LAW and FACT - that is deadly - that is what Hitler and the likes do - move their thoughts as the WORD.

freecocoa: I'm honestly still at crossroads as regards homosexuality, true a man and woman was created therefore it is only logical that sex should be between a male and female.

I strongly want to believe that no one was born gay but how is that to be cos even with all the stigmatization, people still remain gay, I'm not sure anyone loves being looked down on and ridiculed which many gays face, some even risk being mobbed and killed in some places yet that hasn't stopped them, which leaves me asking why?

andyprez: I really don't blame people who support gay acts because its the world system that permits it. Someone said its their right to fight for what they believe in but forgetting its also my right to fight what I believe in also. I have met gay people in my school years & do understand that its difficult to change such act, I really do but that doesn't make it right, does it?
Have we asked ourselves what moral values are we passing to the young ones? & how far will it go?.... Today is same sex, tomorrow it may be man & animal. It may be man & object. I only pity some of our mindset

jidegirl12: Are you Bullying them now because it doesn't seem right to you and your beliefs? Do you really know what effect this thread can cause for gays out there?? Suicide attempt maybe?

Why can't you live and let others live Nigerians?? I tire oh.

Mr knowitall.:


dont get mad at me...you just seem so aggressive in your attack on homosexual....often times those kinda people are closet homosexuals.....if you are not just say you not or else am going to have to assume you are homosexual....

dnawah: pls i dey sell rope and rat poison.compare the effect with wat they will suffer in hell.call a spade a spade.

4 Play:

Polygamy is an even more insidious institution as it legitimises gender inequality and promotes discordant family relationships as well as sub-optimal childcare compared to monogamous marriages. Yet, polygamy remains legal in Nigeria with 70 years old man legally able to marry a 13 year old girl as a fourth wife.



Unless you are a closet homosexual or have suppressed tendencies, these families do not affect you. Homosexuality is not a virus and remains a minor s-exual preference even in countries that tolerate it.




How does a barren woman or an impotent man procreate? By logical implication, society should prohibit such people marrying.



The world's population will continue to increase as homosexuality will always remain a minor preference in a population. There is no iota of evidence that homosexuality increases with acceptance.


Yes, so the barren and impotent cannot have s-ex. An illogical position to adopt.


Acceptance promotes honesty at the expense of denial and dishonesty which is what we currently have where closet homosexuals, owing from fear arising from societal disapproval, marry whilst continuing their homosexual relationships in secret. Indeed, the family system is strengthened where an honest and realistic approach is adopted. Driving homosexuals underground serves no just cause.



The body of research is hardly conclusive. See for instance: Siegel and Perrin’s report also cites three studies done in the United States and Europe—two involving lesbian mothers and the third one involving men and women whose adult children reported they’d had a parent involved in a same-sex relationship. Those studies similarly found no difference in outcomes for the children as compared with children of heterosexual parents.[url] http://www.bu.edu/today/2013/gay-parents-as-good-as-straight-ones/[/url]


Black have far higher rates of HIV than non-Blacks but no one in this forum, including you, will accept this as a basis for discrimination against Blacks.

In reality, acceptance of homosexuality will aid the confinement of STD epidemics arising from gay s-ex within the gay community. The present situation with the hostility towards homosexuality means that many homosexuals maintain public s-exual relationships with the opposite s-ex whilst maintaining private ones with the same sex. The equivalent of the ''low down'' brothers in the US. Again, discrimination is counter-productive and literally unhealthy for society as a whole.



Again, no evidence that homosexuality spreads. You have two choices; accept reality or practice discrimination which drives homosexuality underground with the inevitable counter-productive effects.

El Guapo:

How Standards have fallen.

Civilization brought along many demons, they're taking their tolls on the younger Ones and most esp the Western world.

I think its too late to device the reprimend Option, they cant stop It - Gayness have come to Stay, Just like Corruption, Wars, Poverty, Scandals, Atheism etc have come to Stay.

Endtime beckons!

ozo_emeka:

I grew up understanding justice to be equality and fairness, the society is now teaching me to accept that justice is when a rich man can pay his way out of trouble and poor man stays there. Society will not teach you anything, you agree with what you want to agree with, stop blaming.

The reasons for marriage are myriad, reproduction being one of them. In ancient greece and rome the men got married for the sole purpose of procreation but had MALE lovers for romance.


Fun fact for you - did you know that when slavery was predominant, the slave masters taught their slaves Ephesians 6:5 as a means of justifying their claims to slavery. Some preachers and priests were TEACHING their congregation this "TRUTH" and letting them know it was the WORD OF GOD they were obeying when they STAYED with their slave masters. How about if we continued on that path? Will you be a free girl capable of typing online in YOUR time? Also Exodus 21:2-11 , 20-21 ;
1 Timothy 6:1-2 ; Luke 12:47-48 So the mere fact that you are FREE from your slavemasters will be considered VIOLATING the rules? Huh? Interesting isn't it? The slaves who did want their freedom and ran away were also considered SICK and DISGUSTING. Doctors diagnosed them with an illness called Drapetomania (NY Times http://www.nytimes.com/2000/01/15/arts/bigotry-as-mental-illness-or-just-another-norm.html?pagewanted=all&src=pm)[/url] Did you ALSO know that when Women expressed their concern with their husbands they were brandished as Proverbs 27:15 and referred to a DOCTOR? The term for the disease was diagnosed as "Female Hysteria" - YES, you were considered SICK if you held a dialogue with your husband. You were supposed to SHUT UP and repeat orders blindly and absolutely. The church supported it with Colossians 3:18, 1 Peter 3:1, Ephesians 5:22, 1 Tim 2:12 . Do you want to know the cure? Women were sent to churches and doctors and the cure was the doctor inserting an object inside the women to stimulate org@sm and it was said to cure her! Unbelievable? Believe it, this was fact up until the late 19th century. The vibr@tor ? Was a medical instrument STRICTLY for doctors till the 20th century when it has become a s@x toy.



REALLY? Research from where? Your head? Because according to these few very reputable sources like:
1. The body for psychological research and social sciences: http://www.psychology.org.au/Assets/Files/LGBT-Families-Lit-Review.pdf
2. http://www.cpa.ca/cpasite/userfiles/Documents/Marriage%20of%20Same-Sex%20Couples%20Position%20Statement%20-%20October%202006%20(1).pdf
3. And a US court of appeals UNITED STATES COURT OF APPEALS FOR THE NINTH CIRCUIT KRISTIN PERRY, et al.,
Plaintiffs-Appellees, v. ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER, et al., http://cdn.ca9.uscourts.gov/datastore/general/2010/10/27/amicus29.pdf
4. Pawelski JG, Perrin EC, Foy JM, et al. (July 2006). "The effects of marriage, civil union, and domestic partnership laws on the health and well-being of children". Pediatrics 118 (1): 349–64.

5. Journal of Marriage and Family "How Does the Gender of Parents Matter?" Timothy J. Biblarz1,*, Judith Stacey2
Article first published online: 20 JAN 2010 http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2009.00678.x/full


The claims of yours are VERY bogus and DEADLY. Your claims lead people to murder innocent CHILDREN and PEOPLE all on the grounds of hate crimes



Again, you and your misguided information. This is FALSE. Lay evidence to your claim. HOMOSEXUALITY does NOT cause diseases, it is not the CAUSATIVE factor in anyone having diseases. Raw sex is, as a female will get syphilis etc from the same. The ancient greeks and as far back as your forefathers in Africa practiced homosexuality - none of them got HIV. HIV was invented discovered in the 1980s.


The facts should be CLEARLY distinguished from emotional sentiments and rants like these of yours that have no proof in concrete reasoning, sound logic or factual claims.



Get your facts straight and try again.

chuksoyo21: I wonder why this topic is repeatedly displayed. This is an issue that nature, christianity and islam frawns at. And i doubt if any culture on earth practices it.
Homosexualists are on their path to destruction. God condemned it through moses in leviticus 18:22. Homosexuallity or same sex intimacy is an abomination. I cant call animalistic tendency exhibited by man becuz animals frawns at it, why then should human indulge in it? Even as lucid and homosapien as man is he cant discern the difference btwn good and bad. May God help them to find the true path before it is too late!
It is too bad!
God have mercy!

Reuben.Abati:


[size=18pt]The devil will punish you for your blatant display of hypocrisy here.

IDIOTA[/size].

Shollypopz: Only when it shows potential damage to the society should measures be taken to curtail it. Most homosexual partners want kids anyway. They either get surrogates or adopt. Legalizing homosexuality will actually help numerous homeless and abandoned kids. And God knows too many kwashiorkor-fly-ridden-kids in Africa need adoption. Heterosexuals love to give birth to babies they can't take care of anyway

"Research has shown that kids raised in homosexual homes encounter more problems"?? What fvcking research??!! I would need that link pls. Marriage between homosexuals isn't even legalized in Nigeria yet??
WHat country was this research carried in??

I think what you mean here is population and society. You mean increase in marriage between homosexuals can affect population and society negatively. You kept on saying family system, what is a family system?? The society/religion/culture brought about the recent family system: man+wife=kids. This family system can be tweaked to man+man=adopted kids, woman+woman=get a single man to impregnate you and get a kid

ozo_emeka:

Homsoexuality has been around for a long time. It did not just "show up". The media and internet has just made things EASIER to discover. Ask your parents or older people who went to secondary school in nigeria, Im sure some of them have stories of that one boy who acted like a female, or tales of boys "fucking each other" and being caught.

IF homosexuality were a choice, man I think some people will shape up to avoid getting killed. Why do they try to run away from nigeria? Why are some of the MOST attractive people in the world gay - clearly women is NOT their issue. They have myriad of female fans and can get ANY when they feel like, YET the man would say he is gay - CHOICE ke? Think again

Pyrrho:
See a psychiatrist, psychologist or someone with wooden canes to flog out the abnormality. Atleast its trying.

Reuben.Abati:


[size=18pt]The devil will punish you for your blatant display of hypocrisy here.

IDIOTA[/size].

chuksoyo21: I wonder why this topic is repeatedly displayed. This is an issue that nature, christianity and islam frawns at. And i doubt if any culture on earth practices it.
Homosexualists are on their path to destruction. God condemned it through moses in leviticus 18:22. Homosexuallity or same sex intimacy is an abomination. I cant call it animalistic tendency exhibited by man becuz animals frawns at it, why then should human indulge in it? Even as lucid and homosapien as man is he cant discern the difference btwn good and bad. May God help them to find the true path before it is too late!
It is too bad!
God have mercy!

Tgirl4real: I grew up understanding a family to consist of a mother, father and children (and by extension, a group of people related by blood). And I understand a marriage to be the legal relationship between a man and a woman (husband and wife.


If homosexuality were to be the norm in the society, how would the world's population have increased this much. Moreover, God didn't create 2 men; male and female he made them.