dayokanu:

Yes I was there in Floyd TX for the friday event only

Stegomiah: Don't know why i so much like the family section, i always av one or two things to learn hia, d married women hia crack me up sometimes, and this thread in particular is very funny, imagine smone calling JT 'yekini' lwkmd! But seriously folks, i accept d talk about faith, and the bible stand, but we av 2 get pratical hia, even if it is by sinning, you must know ur husbands state by force oo, u don't want 2 go thru d agony of divorce, wen u av d privilege b4 hand!

@osisi, God go bless u, for bringing dis up, but if you cum find out sey d guy no fit perform and una don make wedding plans, wetin d lady go do? Secondly, au do men know that of ladies, as in a lady wey dem don remove her womb and doctors talk sey she no fit give birth again or d ones wey guyz don chop her ponmo sotey d place don wide like river niger and dem dey form no intimacy cos d guy na virgin or she don born again? I think its harder on d Men cos our own na too just feel naw!

Lmao, hope i neva commit sin oo, dis thread is funny and interesting! Lool

bettymafy:
So, touching and feeling someone's JT is not a sin. . . I'm a saint then.

dayokanu:
The hardon doesnt tell how long he lasts.
You need a hardon even for 1 minute expulsion

jidegirl12:

Great. Did the choir wore pants for ministration? Did you notice / remember ? Sorry OP .

babyosisi:

You are welcome dear
I figured we needed some break from the usual " my husband is a monster" threads and have a thread that everyone can relate to

dayokanu:

I cant remember I got there around 10pm when Oritsejafor was about to start preaching

it was the traditional at the end I saw with some babes shaking bootay in front of Daddy GO.

I wish God would give me the anointing of that man

babyosisi:


You are analyzing the situation well my broda
Even imam Maclatunji knows exactly what we are talking about

CFCfan: If your husband has a small pe.nis, Viagra is always available. He could also undergo pe.nis enlargement surgery.

freecocoa: Hmm.

jidegirl12: So while I'm waiting for Dami.....Dayo did you go to Redeem convention @Dallas last week? I need your testimony for proof for Dami.

@thread, are we now clamouring for pre-marital sex.ual/ intimacy?? I have girls and I wouldn't want them to do that.... *a teary eye doesn't make one blind oh* Life is a risk itself , not every product we buy has warranty, we can only HOPE for the best oh.

Osisi, stop corrupting people's ( youth visiting family section ) mind oh,

the fact that we did it doesn't make it right, God forgive myself, my hubby was the third guy I slept with in my life and thank God his thing dey kampe.

Many people even test drove and chose to manage with the hope of improvement.... and in long run , still nada improvement. Chastity all the way.

damiso:

Dami's lips are sealed .I am a Sunday school teacher so make i no go commit heresy.
That said I agree with you though, testing is soo overatted and as Christians(and muslim sef cos I was once one) we operate by faith or Ibadah.So we suppose just accept that God will give us the Grace to bear or solve (in case yekini is not working ).Looking back premarital s.ex comes with a whole load of emotional baggage that sometimes is not just necessary ojere.God sure knows what he was saying when he prescribed the act within holy matrimony.S.exxx is very important but its just one amongst many other components for a healthy happy marriage.

@RCCG wearing pants I thought we had agreed that choirs do wears pants even when Pastor Adeboye ministers.I dont know about North America but just wanted to let you know that your statement about NO branch ever having women wearing trousers in the choir when he ministers is not true.Watched FOL back yesterday sef and we even had some of the main FOL choir had pants on.

babyosisi:

So did you follow that same rule and waited ?

Well, as for me, initially, i was practising "no sex until wedding night" until about few weeks to our wedding(may God forgive me) and i started ruminating on this type of questions raised by the op, and i gave in, about 5/6 weeks before wedding, we believe that God had forgiven us....lol.

damiso:
No and I wish I did.My husband is not the first man I slept with and I foolishly (was not even that young sef 22) equated losing my virginity to someone as having found love .

As for me and my husband,I had just become a christian and was still growing in my faith. We did the 'do' once(he co-erced me ashewo oshi ) but I made him and myself feel so guilty afterwards that he just decided no more till we got married.And because he is a man of his word (annoyingly so if I like I do strip tease if he decides no s.ex, its no s.ex) we stuck to it.I am sure I might have been weak but maybe us living on different continents helped.And when we visited we never slept in the same house.Even in the same house (like when we went for his dads burial in Ibadan) I slept in his sisters room.

damiso:

Dami's lips are sealed .I am a Sunday school teacher so make i no go commit heresy.
That said I agree with you though, testing is soo overatted and as Christians(and muslim sef cos I was once one) we operate by faith or Ibadah.So we suppose just accept that God will give us the Grace to bear or solve (in case yekini is not working ).Looking back premarital s.ex comes with a whole load of emotional baggage that sometimes is not just necessary ojere.God sure knows what he was saying when he prescribed the act within holy matrimony.S.exxx is very important but its just one amongst many other components for a healthy happy marriage.

@RCCG wearing pants I thought we had agreed that choirs do wears pants even when Pastor Adeboye ministers.I dont know about North America but just wanted to let you know that your statement about NO branch ever having women wearing trousers in the choir when he ministers is not true.Watched FOL back yesterday sef and we even had some of the main FOL choir had pants on.

babyosisi:

Thank you my sister
I like sincere and real people living in a real world
I was celibate also for a cool 18 months or so,clutching unto my King James Bible
Then a man of God came around and we decided to marry
And we fell and rose again
Fell and rose again
Each time falling unto a bed kwa o
Fell fell fell fell and rose rose rose rose
Chei!!

jmoore: How can you test a toothbrush before buying? comparing humans to products.

How many will you test, huh?

What if after testing him or her and after the wedding an accident causes a sexu@l problem, you will divorce?

I will never test the woman I will marry, she deserves respect.

babyosisi:

Thank you my sister
I like sincere and real people living in a real world
I was celibate also for a cool 18 months or so,clutching unto my King James Bible
Then a man of God came around and we decided to marry
And we fell and rose again
Fell and rose again
Each time falling unto a bed kwa o
Fell fell fell fell and rose rose rose rose
Chei!!

armyofone: what is falling and rising again?
Coogar, can you help explain better, i'm confused.

debrief08: Me I was previously married so obviously not a virgin.
We waited because I had it in my head that all men wanted with a divorcee was hit and run, he didn't have a problem with waiting since it made me comfortable though sometimes he "tried his luck"
Anyway fastforward to after the wedding, Oh boy, that was when I learnt the beauty and awesomeness of S3x, I never knew women also got MouthAction till that day, I always believed that only men got touched and the works down under, he went down on me that night, and I had what I assumed was a mini stroke, I was confused, disoriented, I was telling him to stop because I was dying and yet felt a sweetness I never knew existed.
The crazy man gave me a smug grin as if to say "see what you don dey miss"

Efemena_xy:



Madame Debrief, you're just as crazy yourself, with your unintentional er0tic piece up there!

@ Babyosisi, it goes beyond test driving jare. One needs to make sure the JT is capable of inducing fertilization. Pikin must enter else no show.

When I think to how it was between hubby and I pre-marriage, I just smile. I really put the pressure on him, poor guy. Junior had to make an appearance by-fire-by-force else no show, even if it meant getting down to it half a dozen times a day.

Choi!! I was baaad! Told him the 'tank' must be filled up to leakage status before I go to work in the mornings and 'topped up' again when we both return home. Weekends? Marathon sessions.

So based on the premises of this thread, my own don finish be dat. Serious deliverance, fasting and prayer tinz...

coogar:

the transition from öral sex to intercöurse!