Well, I suppose you may first would want to know he is the right guy, so that your efforts are not in vain.. But certainly, there are certain things you do that will facilitate the process of Mr. Right's conviction...enzymes I call them!

1. Look your best: You don't have to be a beauty queen to win over a man. Whatever style you think looks great on you naturally, use it. Guys tend to look at the natural beauty more as the one to fall in love with than the one that's made-up for an hour to look a certain way. But no one ever said styling your hair a different way or doing your nails hurt. Guys like a put-together girl. But you don't need to go over the top!

2. Confidence is key: A serious guy wants a woman who can handle responsibility. You don't necessarily have to gloat about this...if you are responsible, you will definately know and live it. You'd be mildly confident and not overboard.

3. Be romantic: Reply missed calls, compose a message, give a compliment...a word of encouragement, oblige to an outing, buy a gift, compose a poem...remember important dates. It doesn't matter who the guy is, every guy will appreciate this a great deal. It just has a way of focusing a man's attention on you.

4. Don't ever ask the guy out: Whatever you do, no matter your convictions, make sure you don't hurt the male ego by asking a guy out. The average guy will like you less for it. All you have to do is create the right circumstance. Also make him feel like there is a good chance you will say "yes". Remember that too much certainty is a bad thing, as is too much obscurity.


5. Make it about you and him: Even in a public setting, or amongst a group of friends, make sure that your focus of attention is on him, and that you make him feel comfortable talking to you. Never make him feel like you are judging him, especially by the success of others.


6. Build his ego. This step is key, and this is the one that makes the guy "suddenly realize" how great you are. Don't outwardly compliment him, that's too obvious. Instead, try to make him believe that in your eyes he's perfect (i.e. the smartest, the strongest, etc.). This isn't an actual thing you say, it's more of an attitude that you give off when you're around him as opposed to other men. This will make him see how special you are for thinking he is special.


7. DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS: Period. Guys scare off easy, and for those who don't, they won't appreciate you handing out your charm to whatever guy passes the corner. He wants to feel like you've reserved that part of yourself just for him and that he is the only one who gets to see it.


8. Be interested in his world: If there are things that he is interested in that you are not, try to partake in them or discuss them with him at least once before mentioning to him that you're not really interested in them. The very fact that you were willing to partake in something that he liked that you didn't will make him see you as committed, considerate, and caring. The fact that you are willing to open yourself up to even the parts of him that you don't necessarily like will allow him to see how special YOU are to him. And at this point, you're almost there.

9. Be neither cheap nor cold: Avoid extremes...Don't pick up the phone on the first ring, be busy on certain "date-nights" and etc....but don't be cold either, don't make it seem as though you have lost interest. Simply, make yourself a bit less "acquirable" than usual, only for a short while.


10. Be open: Be open to and about a lot of things. Be open to correction (he'd soon realize you are not that perfect afterall) and be open about your challenges...don't be afraid to open up about your problems at work, with your family, friends etc. The superwoman thing just won't work...neither will playing the victim and being overtly so dependent on advice. Be available for a good conversation...be calm enough to talk things through and not argue out everything.

Finally, don't lose yourself in the process of trying to make anyone fall in love with you. The truth is that the right person will love you without your constant attempts to win them over.

http://www.tutubranch.com/2013/06/tips-right-woman.html

Hmmmm.... God right up.

thinka2: Well, I suppose you may first would want to know he is the right guy, so that your efforts are not in vain.. But certainly, there are certain things you do that will facilitate the process of Mr. Right's conviction...enzymes I call them!

1. Look your best: You don't have to be a beauty queen to win over a man. Whatever style you think looks great on you naturally, use it. Guys tend to look at the natural beauty more as the one to fall in love with than the one that's made-up for an hour to look a certain way. But no one ever said styling your hair a different way or doing your nails hurt. Guys like a put-together girl. But you don't need to go over the top!

2. Confidence is key: A serious guy wants a woman who can handle responsibility. You don't necessarily have to gloat about this...if you are responsible, you will definately know and live it. You'd be mildly confident and not overboard.

3. Be romantic: Reply missed calls, compose a message, give a compliment...a word of encouragement, oblige to an outing, buy a gift, compose a poem...remember important dates. It doesn't matter who the guy is, every guy will appreciate this a great deal. It just has a way of focusing a man's attention on you.

4. Don't ever ask the guy out: Whatever you do, no matter your convictions, make sure you don't hurt the male ego by asking a guy out. The average guy will like you less for it. All you have to do is create the right circumstance. Also make him feel like there is a good chance you will say "yes". Remember that too much certainty is a bad thing, as is too much obscurity.


5. Make it about you and him: Even in a public setting, or amongst a group of friends, make sure that your focus of attention is on him, and that you make him feel comfortable talking to you. Never make him feel like you are judging him, especially by the success of others.


6. Build his ego. This step is key, and this is the one that makes the guy "suddenly realize" how great you are. Don't outwardly compliment him, that's too obvious. Instead, try to make him believe that in your eyes he's perfect (i.e. the smartest, the strongest, etc.). This isn't an actual thing you say, it's more of an attitude that you give off when you're around him as opposed to other men. This will make him see how special you are for thinking he is special.


7. DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS: Period. Guys scare off easy, and for those who don't, they won't appreciate you handing out your charm to whatever guy passes the corner. He wants to feel like you've reserved that part of yourself just for him and that he is the only one who gets to see it.


8. Be interested in his world: If there are things that he is interested in that you are not, try to partake in them or discuss them with him at least once before mentioning to him that you're not really interested in them. The very fact that you were willing to partake in something that he liked that you didn't will make him see you as committed, considerate, and caring. The fact that you are willing to open yourself up to even the parts of him that you don't necessarily like will allow him to see how special YOU are to him. And at this point, you're almost there.

9. Be neither cheap nor cold: Avoid extremes...Don't pick up the phone on the first ring, be busy on certain "date-nights" and etc....but don't be cold either, don't make it seem as though you have lost interest. Simply, make yourself a bit less "acquirable" than usual, only for a short while.


10. Be open: Be open to and about a lot of things. Be open to correction (he'd soon realize you are not that perfect afterall) and be open about your challenges...don't be afraid to open up about your problems at work, with your family, friends etc. The superwoman thing just won't work...neither will playing the victim and being overtly so dependent on advice. Be available for a good conversation...be calm enough to talk things through and not argue out everything.

Finally, don't lose yourself in the process of trying to make anyone fall in love with you. The truth is that the right person will love you without your constant attempts to win them over.

http://www.tutubranch.com/2013/06/tips-right-woman.html

Geez being in a relationship is now like. Preparing for exams I say be urself what will be will be. No wonder many marriages are crashing when people keep hiding their true colours all in the name of getting Mr Right