My girlfriend confessed earlier in our relationship that she was raped by their house help at age 8 and slept with her biological brother at age 12.What can I do. I really love her but my psychology is being affected recently.We are proposing marriage for April next year after dating for 2 solid year.

This is your business, deal with it. If you love her, forget about her past, otherwise move.

but you have already asked this question before and we gave you answer why you again ?https://www.nairaland.com/1339280/relationship-hurting-me


Una no go let person rest!

mecussey: This is your business, deal with it. If you love her, forget about her past, otherwise move.

Exactly

ibkaye:
Exactly

girl is that you?

princesa:

girl is that you?

yes! LONGEST of times, how are you?

ibkaye:
yes! LONGEST of times, how are you?

oh am fine! missed you loads

good old days hunh?

princesa:
oh am fine! missed you loads

good old days hunh?

you too! It sounds really corny but I definitely miss the 'good ol' days', do I have you on Facebook? Or maybe I'm thinking of someone else

ibkaye:
you too! It sounds really corny but I definitely miss the 'good ol'
days', do I have you on Facebook? Or maybe I'm thinking of someone else

yeah, i think we are friends on Facebook...yeah i remba, we are

didn't know you still chilling on NL

princesa:
yeah, i think we are friends on Facebook...yeah i remba, we are

didn't know you still chilling on NL

Lol good!

It's more a recent thing I hadn't been on for a while at some point, you too, you just vanished lol

11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.
1 Cor 13:11

All those things you mentioned were done when she was a child. If you had say all these happen last year or two years ago, it would be a different matter.
Deal with it as a man and a christian (if u are) and face the glorious future in front of you.
Get this at the back of your mind. If na so God dey take remember all our past deeds upon say we don confess and repented, u think say u for reach today?
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For her to tell you means she regretted it and can never do such anymore. You didnt fall in love with a girl who was molested at 8. You fell in love with an angel, so see her as such.
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ibkaye:
Lol good!

It's more a recent thing I hadn't been on for a while at some point, you too, you just vanished lol

yes oh, i just vanished, but now am around

Since she was able to open up and tell you her past, i think u should let go, i can post this on my fb page and blog and hear what people will say, [b]check my signature[/b]like us on fb AND VISIT OUR BLOG

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