wow, wht d hell!
i don't even knw abt dis
so i dunno wht 2 say
kolov's ass is gettin kicked real soon!

lol. so much 4 understanding.

wats up in here

fine in here

@ toy
i don't think so lol
u cn totally go i ain't standing in ur way
just pray kolov mks it thru after i'm done wiv him

yeeeeeeeepaaaaaaaa, Kolov i am prayng for u where i am now. kai oh boy from d way gem dey talk, it seems like its only God's grace dat can save u.

neways i dont collect gifts from guys carelessly especially when i kno they want me and i don't. guys are snicky they always want something in return, they might not let u kno what they want but trust it will come back to bitecha.

try me rhodalyn

@Topic, anyways, ma answer'z still der, yeah ryte

Hell Yeah, There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with collecting gifts from guyz you dont want or fancy, I do it all da time!!

My father told me to never go to any man outside the family for anything. There are no free rides. A man doesn't give money and stuff for nothing. He wants some ass.

lol

willingly i will collect :p :p :p

Hell Yeah, There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with collecting gifts from guys you don't want or fancy, I do it all da time!!

even when you know his intentions? that to me seem like a 419 act

BigSis:

My father told me to never go to any man outside the family for anything. There are no free rides. A man doesn't give money and stuff for nothing. He wants some ass.

This is the basic truth. Your father is wise for being truthful to you, and you are smart for believing him. Only a small fraction of the male population would give gifts to a girl just for giving's sake.

If the girl has made it clear that she wont date you but u still go ahead to buy her gift dhe no do wrong. But most times they know they wont date you and yet they go ahead to make demands .

NO, i never have and never will. if he wants more from me than i am willing to give then i dont do such things.

4 real there is nothing wrong in collecting gift from a guy, 4 d fact u know there is no string attached to it, abeg omo go ahead and collect it o jare

so far its clear to the guy that the babe no ready to date him and he still bring gifts,if na me i go collect o

4 me i think it would be wrong for a lady 2 accept a gift 4rm a guy she knows she will not date cos by accepting it n saying i wont date u, she's just saying emm let me think abt it _{una sabi women n shakara now}

A guy comes n chat u up, telling u he wants 2 date u n all dat n u know u dont like him enough 2 date him, yet wen he come with a gift to thaw da ice 2 ur heart u accepted it knowing u wont date him , then u dont hv a conscience cos the simple truth is dat u r leading him on.4 d guy he is saying _{he who fights n run away must live 2 fight anoda day}
God gave the woman da rite 2 say no, if u exercise dat rite every daft man will understand.
and they say ask a woman twice just in case da first one na shakara
no be dat soft no, no wey men dey think say na yes da definte NO go do da trick make we c if after dat one e go still dey carry gift come

yes.

nope, but then it's kindda impossible to refuse when he offers u on your B-day when you're reciving gifts from everyone else . . . and even adds : " oh, it's just an ordinary B-day gift bla bla bla" , how do u refuse that one?


but normally I don't, it doesn't make sense to accept a gift from someone u don't want, it's almost as good as tellin em you're intressted.

. , , , . But let's wait till my popsi stops filling my pocket first lol, but naah, --- uncomfortable

the occasion can influence the collection, if its a buffday gift,then i got no issue.
but if outta of the blues, then its a don't do.

No

This is hilarious!!!!

How does taking a gift from a man equates to leading him ON?
Nigerians never cease to amaze me. . . . . .So if i give a 5-year-old baby girl a gift, it means i wanna date her?
These are 2 different issues. . . . . . . A guy chatting a babe up and giving her a gift are 2 different issues.
Taking such gift doesnt translate to accepting to be in a relationship with him.
End of.

Maybe you should ask Nigerian men that make you feel you are indebted to them because you took a gift from them. Once beaten twice shy.

I am a full-blooded Nigerian and i dont reason along that line.

A gift is what it is, a gift.
The girl in question did not ask for it, so the man giving is giving from his own free will.
How does that equate to acceptance?

If you collect anything at all from a man who's sorta asking you out, you automatically owe him your body.
They will make sure to hold that gift over your head as if the gift s the sole reason why the girl is living.
Till today, i can't bring myself to accept gifts from guys just as friends.

@ j-girl,

You again? I am a tad disappointed.

So everytime a gurl collects a gift from a geezer, she owes him her body.
Blimey, it seems i have been short-changed.
I shoulda put over 1000 chics to the sword cos i buy em gifts??
What planet are u lasses from?

My African people. . . . .Pls wake up!!
This aint 1600. . . .dammit!

Taking gifts is nothing. . . . .Thats why i like some of my female friends sha. . . .They are very smart!!!

Thank you j-girl Don't mind jackal. He's not at the receiving end of this madness.

I am a full-blooded Nigerian and i don't reason along that line.

A gift is what it is, a gift.
The girl in question did not ask for it, so the man giving is giving from his own free will.
How does that equate to acceptance?

Educate your brothers that think so .

What do you mean by me again?

We are from the planet of reality.
How many naija guys here can honestly say that they will take a woman out to dinner or lunch without expecting something in return?
It doesn't happen. Naija guys, no matter how rich, are not that generous.
They buy you meatpie - they expect you in their bed sometime. . . . .
They buy you a car, they expect the same.
As long as a gift is given by a man, he thinks of you as owing him.

I suggest you go back and get your money's worth.

@ Sly - don't say that! You know how your brains work.

@ Still - are you minding them? They're just trying to sound 'modern'. It's an innate thing for them.