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Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by dayokanu(m): 5:54pm On Jul 20, 2013
What do you have to say to this?

A Russian man who tried to rob a hair salon ended up as the victim when the female shop owner overpowered him, tied him up naked and then used him as a sex slave for three days.

Viktor Jasinski, 32, admitted to police that he had gone to the salon in Meshchovsk, Russia, with the intention of robbing it.
But the tables were turned dramatically when he found himself overcome by owner Olga Zajac, 28, who happened to be a black belt in karate.

She allegedly floored the would-be robber with a single kick.

Then, in a scene reminiscent of Quentin Tarantino's Pulp Fiction, police say Zajac dragged the semi-conscious Jasinski to a back room of the salon and tied him up with a hair dryer cable.

She allegedly stripped him naked and, for the next three days, used him as a sex slave to 'teach him a lesson' - force feeding him Viagra to keep the lesson going.


The would-be robber was eventually released, with Zajak saying he had learned his lesson.

Jasinski went straight to the police and told them of his back-room ordeal, saying that he had been held hostage, handcuffed naked to a radiator, and fed nothing but Viagra
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Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2013870/Robber-broke-hair-salon-beaten-black-belt-owner-kept-sex-slave-days--fed-Viagra.html#ixzz2ZbbslpVL
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Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 5:56pm On Jul 20, 2013
dayokanu:

A man can be held down by a woman if he is drugged or intoxicated or if there are more than one woman

I fail to see how a man, the stronger sex can be held down against his will by a woman or women, AND forced to have s.ex with them to the point where he ej@cul@tes.

If he is drugged, he won't have the strength to raise a hard on. If he was under the influence of drink, that alone should give him super human powers to throw the woman / women off him. Failing to do that only goes to show that subconsciously, he wants it.

dayokanu: And even a woman molested would still have vaginal secretions after some thrusts into her.

The glands responsible for the secretions just know there is rubbing of the cells whether willingly or rappe they would secrete

And does that equate to consent from the woman? Being held down by brute force against her will?

Besides, the female anatomy would only produce vaginal secretions if she is stimulated enough to want to have s.ex! That is one of the reasons many of these women who've been molested bleed. Simply because their body tightened up against the act, but the man, being the stronger one physically would still have his way (forcefully), simply by overpowering her.

That to me, is a clear cut case of non-consentual s/ex.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 5:59pm On Jul 20, 2013
dayokanu: What do you have to say to this?

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Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2013870/Robber-broke-hair-salon-beaten-black-belt-owner-kept-sex-slave-days--fed-Viagra.html#ixzz2ZbbslpVL
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That randy thief was simply getting his innermost fantasies played out! grin grin

I bet you, he would wet dream and relieve that experience for the rest of his days with fondness...
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 6:02pm On Jul 20, 2013
Efemena_xy:
Really?
Let's take alcohol out of the equation here as this seems to be the excuse which even men seem to ascribe too...

ok, no alcohol....


How can a normal virile man be held down against his will by a woman? I don't need to have a *** (you know what) between my legs to see the fallacy of this line of argument.

what if he was drugged to get him physically weak? what if it was a double dosage to get him weak plus a potent aphrodisiac?


And no. No sane woman about to be molested (against her will) would be responding to stimuli. What sort of stimuli are you referring to?

so you mean a woman that's about to be räped, stripped, limbs tied up so she cannot fight back and then licked thoroughly would not get wet?

you must dwell in a parallel universe.....

Efemena_xy:
That randy thief was simply getting his innermost fantasies played out! grin grin

I bet you, he would wet dream and relieve that experience for the rest of his days with fondness...

but fact remains he was räped.....
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by dayokanu(m): 6:03pm On Jul 20, 2013
Efemena_xy:

I fail to see how a man, the stronger sex can be held down against his will by a woman or women, AND forced to have s.ex with them to the point where he ej@cul@tes.

You fail to see how a man can be held down by a woman?
Some women are stronger than some men. A man drugged can be easily overpowered by a little girl. 3-4 women can easily overpower any man.

Force him to sex? Simple stroke his peniss he would cop an errection.


If he is drugged, he won't have the strength to raise a hard on. If he was under the influence of drink, that alone should give him super human powers to throw the woman / women off him. Failing to do that only goes to show that subconsciously, he wants it.

If a man is drugged he would still cop an erectionn.

Also alcohol weakens people it doesnt make stronger. Thats why you would lie in a gutter and not even have the strenght to get up from your vomit
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by taryour(f): 6:15pm On Jul 20, 2013
Han han. Efe, Dayo and Coogar. Oga fun yin ooo, you all are just making my day with this argument,even my pikin dey kick in my belle out of excitement. Eku ise oo.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 6:20pm On Jul 20, 2013
taryour: Han han. Efe, Dayo and Coogar. Oga fun yin ooo, you all are just making my day with this argument,even my pikin dey kick in my belle out of excitement. Eku ise oo.

Madam angry angry

No free show here! You don pay for your front row seat, ba? grin grin
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by dayokanu(m): 6:22pm On Jul 20, 2013
taryour: Han han. Efe, Dayo and Coogar. Oga fun yin ooo, you all are just making my day with this argument,even my pikin dey kick in my belle out of excitement. Eku ise oo.

Efe,

See Tayos son is also getting excited abi you wan say he too dey think of something ni?
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 6:28pm On Jul 20, 2013
coogar:

ok, no alcohol....

what if he was drugged to get him physically weak? what if it was a double dosage to get him weak plus a potent aphrodisiac?

Doesn't that sound contradictory to you? Getting to the point of being so weak, you can't lift a finger but yet able to cope a hard on?

And this physical 'weakness', is it selective? I mean, you saying it works on some part of the body and not on others? Is this not meant to be wired up to the nervous system of the human anatomy? Besides, if it's that bad, then the guy should fall into a deep, dreamless, slumber! Not have randy s.ex


coogar: so you mean a woman that's about to be räped, stripped, limbs tied up so she cannot fight back and then licked thoroughly would not get wet?

you must dwell in a parallel universe.....

No, I'm well grounded. On earth.

A rapist doesn't care to get his victim 'wet' and 'willing'. He just wants to b@ang his brains out as quickly as possible without a care for his victim. So why would he go the extra mile to start a-licking away?? Don't you know that many of these r@pists do what they do simply for the power it gives them? So why would he abandon his crassness, just to get his victim in the mood?? Where's the sense in that?


coogar:
but fact remains he was räped.....

Not if he enjoyed it.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 6:29pm On Jul 20, 2013
dayokanu:

Efe,

See Tayos son is also getting excited abi you wan say he too dey think of something ni?

Dayo! grin grin grin
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 6:37pm On Jul 20, 2013
Efemena_xy:
Doesn't that sound contradictory to you? Getting to the point of being so weak, you can't lift a finger but yet able to cope a hard on?

that's the beauty of the phallus. even when the mind/body is weak, he can be strong. this is why men can cop erectiöns while sleeping!


And this physical 'weakness', is it selective? I mean, you saying it works on some part of the body and not on others? Is this not meant to be wired up to the nervous system of the human anatomy? Besides, if it's that bad, then the guy should fall into a deep, dreamless, slumber! Not have randy s.ex

he can sleep n still have his erëction - the erectiön is what his attacker needs. all other stuff can be waived. did you not hear of the man that kept sleep-shaggïng his neighbours. in his state of sleep, he would come out of his house, enter a neighbour's room and sleeps wïth them?


No, I'm well grounded. On earth.

lol, i really don't think so...


A rapist doesn't care to get his victim 'wet' and 'willing'. He just wants to b@ang his brains out as quickly as possible without a care for his victim. So why would he go the extra mile to start a-licking away?? Don't you know that many of these r@pists do what they do simply for the power it gives them? So why would he abandon his crassness, just to get his victim in the mood?? Where's the sense in that?

yes, your MO is very correct about rapïsts but supposing there's one who isn't really about violence - he gets his kick by being subtle and blah blah blah - are you saying a woman would not respond to her stimuli??



Not if he enjoyed it.

so if a woman enjoys sex then she cannot claim to have been räped?
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 6:54pm On Jul 20, 2013
Efemena_xy:
Doesn't that sound contradictory to you? Getting to the point of being so weak, you can't lift a finger but yet able to cope a hard on?

that's the beauty of the phallus. even when the mind/body is weak, he can be strong. this is why men can cop erectiöns while sleeping!


And this physical 'weakness', is it selective? I mean, you saying it works on some part of the body and not on others? Is this not meant to be wired up to the nervous system of the human anatomy? Besides, if it's that bad, then the guy should fall into a deep, dreamless, slumber! Not have randy s.ex

he can sleep n still have his erëction - the erectiön is what his attacker needs. all other stuff can be waived. did you not hear of the man that kept sleep-shaggïng(sexsomnia) his neighbours. in his state of sleep, he would come out of his house, enter a neighbour's room and sleeps wïth them?


No, I'm well grounded. On earth.

lol, i really don't think so...


A rapist doesn't care to get his victim 'wet' and 'willing'. He just wants to b@ang his brains out as quickly as possible without a care for his victim. So why would he go the extra mile to start a-licking away?? Don't you know that many of these r@pists do what they do simply for the power it gives them? So why would he abandon his crassness, just to get his victim in the mood?? Where's the sense in that?

yes, your MO is very correct about rapïsts but supposing there's one who isn't really about violence - he gets his kick by being subtle and blah blah blah - are you saying a woman would not respond to her stimuli??



Not if he enjoyed it.

so if a woman enjoys sex then she cannot claim to have been räped?
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 6:57pm On Jul 20, 2013
^^ Not if she was forced against her will.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 7:03pm On Jul 20, 2013
Efemena_xy: ^^ Not if she was forced against her will.

not true.....
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by taryour(f): 7:18pm On Jul 20, 2013
dayokanu:

Efe,

See Tayos son is also getting excited abi you wan say he too dey think of something ni?


Hey Dayo how you know say na boy I go have again Take your time o dayo,besides my first son too small for all this thing you dey talk oo.no let him papa catch you for this forum o,he dey watch your back oo.

Efe I don pay oo,tey tey from page zero.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 7:23pm On Jul 20, 2013
taryour:


Hey Dayo how you know say na boy I go have again Take your time o dayo,besides my first son too small for all this thing you dey talk oo.no let him papa catch you for this forum o,he dey watch your back oo.

Efe I don pay oo,tey tey from page zero.

Lol! cheesy
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jul 22, 2013
This case just made a drastic u turn. Lady has been pardoned by dubai ruler and told she is free to go after a public outcry in norway.

Can nigerians ever do that for their bro and sis in diaspora when they r unjustly treated or even in naija? We still hv a looooooong way to go.nothing like developed culture
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 3:21pm On Jul 22, 2013
^^ What about the man/men also involved in her case?

Were they pardoned too? (assuming they were even jailed in the first instance...)
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 3:35pm On Jul 22, 2013
yellowpawpaw: This case just made a drastic u turn. Lady has been pardoned by dubai ruler and told she is free to go after a public outcry in norway.

Can nigerians ever do that for their bro and sis in diaspora when they r unjustly treated or even in naija? We still hv a looooooong way to go.nothing like developed culture

bad publicity is bad business and dubai needs tourism....good for her but she lost her job in the process. she was a compulsive liar - she confessed the sëx was consensual at a point and she later changed her statement. when asked why she changed her statement, she said a dubai policeman told her to lie it was consensual so as to make the case go away - what a pathetic excuse!!!!
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 22, 2013
Efemena_xy: ^^ What about the man/men also involved in her case?

Were they pardoned too? (assuming they were even jailed in the first instance...)
To tell d truth,I don't know.saw it on cnn news brief. I pray they forgive him too.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by EfemenaXY: 3:58pm On Jul 22, 2013
^^ Yeah, just seen it.

He's also been pardoned. This guy was actually her colleague.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by biolabee(m): 6:29pm On Jul 22, 2013
So it was just a case of a randy girl flouting public decency laws in the middle east of all places

Hahaha

#NotSurprised
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by TV01(m): 7:09pm On Jul 22, 2013
biolabee: So it was just a case of a randy girl flouting public decency laws in the middle east of all places

Hahaha

#NotSurprised


...it was always likely to be so. Not that that would hinder our resident "sensible shoe lesbos, idiopathic misandrists, rabid feminazis and purveyors of licentiousness from coming out in full force and venting until blue in the face...And with narry a half point between them...

Shior

TV

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Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jul 22, 2013
*Ahem*


This family handout photo taken in Abu Dhabi in May 2013 shows Norwegian businesswoman Marte Deborah Dalelv, 24.
She said she had been out at a bar with her colleagues and friends, and asked a male colleague to walk her to her room when they returned at 3 a.m. to the hotel. She'd asked him to escort her because the hotel was large and confusing, and she didn't want to be wandering on her own, knowing she'd been drinking, she said.
When they reached a room, she realized it wasn't hers -- but the man then pulled her inside despite her vocal objections, according to Dalelv.

"He dragged me by my purse in, so I thought, 'OK, I just need to calm the situation down. I will finish my bottle of water, I will sit here and then I will excuse myself and say I feel fine,'" she said.
That was pretty much the last thing she said she remembers before the alleged sexual assault. "I woke up with my clothes off, sleeping on my belly, and he was raping me. I tried to get off, I tried to get him off, but he pushed me back down."
After someone knocked -- the hotel wake-up call -- she managed to get dressed and make it downstairs to the hotel reception, Dalelv said. "I called the police. That is what you do. We are trained on that from when we are very young," she said.
Some 10 or 12 male police officers arrived, but no female police officers were present, she said. Statements were taken from both Dalelv and the alleged rapist.
She was then taken to Bur Dubai police station, she said.
6 men convicted of raping Swiss tourist in India
After again giving her version of events to officers, Dalelv said, "They asked me, 'Are you sure you called the police because you just didn't like it?' I said, 'Well of course I didn't like it.' That is when I knew, I don't think they are going to believe me at all."
Dalelv says she was taken for an intimate medical exam and tested for alcohol consumption. Her belongings were taken and she was kept in jail for four days, she said, with no explanation as to why.
Dubai police and UAE government officials have not responded to repeated CNN requests for comment.
Dalelv said she managed to call her parents on the third day to tell them she had been raped and ask them to contact the Norwegian Embassy. A day later, a representative from the Norwegian consulate came to the police station and she was released -- but her passport was not returned.
A piece of paper with Arabic text was handed to her, she said. An Arabic speaker told her it listed two charges against her: one for sex outside of marriage and the other for public consumption of alcohol. Both are violations of the law in the United Arab Emirates.
It was the first time she was made aware that she faced charges, Dalelv said.
She was allowed out on bail and has been staying since at the Norwegian Seaman's Center in Dubai.
Subsequently, she said her manager advised her to tell the police it was voluntary sexual intercourse and likely the whole issue would just go away. She followed the advice and in one of the many hearings at the public prosecutor's office, she made a statement saying it was voluntary.
Dalelv was then charged with making a false statement.
"That was my biggest regret because it wasn't voluntary. I just thought it would all go away," she told CNN.


http://www.cnn.com/2013/07/20/world/meast/uae-norway-rape-controversy


But what are facts to a bunch of half wits, nincompoops and bible toting supporters of ra*pe?



Oh, and by the way, her story about being told to say it was consensual was corroborated.

But a representative of Al Mana Interiors, who Dalelv worked for, told CNN that she was not advised by her manager to say the sex was consensual but rather by a police officer, who told her that in Arabic and it was translated into English by her manager.

*From the same article.*
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 7:35pm On Jul 22, 2013
ileobatojo: *Ahem*
But what are facts to a bunch of half wits, nincompoops and bible toting supporters of ra*pe?

she got so drunk not to know the way to her room in a hotel and asked a colleague to escort her? you must be super-thick to believe these jargons. at least, every hotel in that country has about 20 security staff @ the lobby providing any sort of help for the guests - even if you want your handbag carried for you.....she ignored those and asked a male to take her into a room?


Oh, and by the way, her story about being told to say it was consensual was corroborated.
*From the same article.*

another hogwash - why would a woman so sure she was räped suddenly decide to lie the sex was consensual? if you get räped, under what circumstance would you ever agree to change your statement "just to make the case go away"?? rapë is a very emotionally damaging issue so i doubt any woman would take such advice from a police officer.....

it's funny, the western media as usual did not even quote the alleged attacker to hear his own side of the story. all the quotes we keep seeing are from the same faction of the pathological liar.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jul 22, 2013
coogar:

she got so drunk not to know the way to her room in a hotel and asked a colleague to escort her? you must be super-thick to believe these jargons. at least, every hotel in that country has about 20 security staff @ the lobby providing any sort of help for the guests - even if you want your handbag carried for you.....she ignored those and asked a male to take her into a room?


The fact that you have claim not to believe it doesn't automatically make it untrue. I'm not sure what's so unbelievable about asking a 'friend' to escort you to your room for your safety. Unless you have specific facts disproving it, I'm not interested in your senseless speculation.


coogar:

another hogwash - why would a woman so sure she was räped suddenly decide to lie the sex was consensual? if you get räped, under what circumstance would you ever agree to change your statement "just to make the case go away"??

Oh, only a hundred million reasons... Like being under duress as a result of being arrested for no credible reason in a foreign country with no knowledge of their laws, wanting to make it all go away so she can return safely back to her home? The knowledge that everything she understands about the police and the law do not work the same way she knows in this country leading her to believe the advice by people supposedly knowledgeable about how things work?

Of course you've never heard of plea deals, settling out of court or even cases of coerced confessions. And if you have, your brain apparently cannot process the similarities between them and what happened here.

rapë is a very emotionally damaging issue so i doubt any woman would take such advice from a police officer.....

Guess what else is also a very emotionally damaging issue, being stuck in a biased, ridiculous justice system in a country far away from home with no clear idea of how it's all going to end.... Being arrested for days without charges, with all your documents confiscated, no one believing your traumatic story of molestation...
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 8:15pm On Jul 22, 2013
ileobatojo:
The fact that you have claim not to believe it doesn't automatically make it untrue. I'm not sure what's so unbelievable about asking a 'friend' to escort you to your room for your safety. Unless you have specific facts disproving it, I'm not interested in your senseless speculation.

it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see the loopholes in her story. she's in a hotel - there are staff that could have helped her at the reception. did she not know she wasn't supposed to lead a man into a room? why did she not ask this help from a fellow woman?

get out of here with your tunnelvision...


Oh, only a hundred million reasons... Like being under duress as a result of being arrested for no credible reason in a foreign country with no knowledge of their laws, wanting to make it all go away so she can return safely back to her home?

under duress? the same woman that was asked if calling the police was the right thing and she answered yes? i am not too sure your attention span is coping with her tale of lies....


The knowledge that everything she understands about the police and the law do not work the same way she knows in this country leading her to believe the advice by people supposedly knowledgeable about how things work?

then she must have been born foolish - every man and his dog know the laws in dubai. no association with the opposite sex is allowed in a hotelroom. she's not new in the country so all those pathetic excuses can only wash with you....


Of course you've never heard of plea deals, settling out of court or even cases of coerced confessions. And if you have, your brain apparently cannot process the similarities between them and what happened here.

plea deals in a räpe case? she was the case! what's she dealing with? it's a simple yes or no matter, not a complex case. was she rapëd or not? why would she agree to change her statement. only the accused is actually open to any plea deals - he's the one that can actually change pleas guilty/not guilty and not the plaintiff.


Guess what else is also a very emotionally damaging issue, being stuck in a biased, ridiculous justice system in a country far away from home with no clear idea of how it's all going to end.... Being arrested for days without charges, with all your documents confiscated, no one believing your traumatic story of molestation...

she should get out of their country - they did not want women of her calibre there. western women go everywhere and use ignorance as an excuse to desecrate the place. i am happy she was sacked - there are thousands of jobs in oslo waiting for her where she can ask her director to escort her home after a night of binge-drinking!!!
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 22, 2013
coogar:

it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see the loopholes in her story. she's in a hotel - there are staff that could have helped her at the reception. [b]did she not know she wasn't supposed to lead a man into a room? [/b]why did she not ask this help from a fellow woman?

How do you expect her to know that? So anytime you visit a tourist country, you study all their laws? I have been to Dubai and I did not know all these laws. So yes, it's definitely plausible that she did not know these laws. Also, often times, most of their laws are waived for foreign visitors so why should she have been bothering her head about them? If she had not gotten raped, she would never have had any dealings with the police.

Anybody could have helped her to her room, she chose one, who happened to be someone she knew and trusted.

coogar:
under duress? the same woman that was asked if calling the police was the right thing and she answered yes? i am not too sure your attention span is coping with her tale of lies....

Of course she said yes, she had a rape to report. Or are you saying she knew she had 'broken their laws' and she was going to get imprisoned and she still went ahead and called the police? How does that mean she was not under duress when she got arrested for no credible reason after reporting she was raped?


coogar:

plea deals in a räpe case? she was the case! what's she dealing with? it's a simple yes or no matter, not a complex case. was she rapëd or not? why would she agree to change her statement. only the accused is actually open to any plea deals - he's the one that can actually change pleas guilty/not guilty and not the plaintiff.

What rape case? There was never a rape case taken up by the authorities. She was the accused here because she had been arrested and jailed! If she had not become the accused, what was she doing in jail?

coogar:
she should get out of their country - they did not want women of her calibre there. western women go everywhere and use ignorance as an excuse to desecrate the place. i am happy she was sacked - there are thousands of jobs in oslo waiting for her where she can ask her director to escort her home after a night of binge-drinking!!!

I have no problem with her getting sacked for going against their company policy.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 8:59pm On Jul 22, 2013
ileobatojo:
How do you expect her to know that? So anytime you visit a tourist country, you study all their laws? I have been to Dubai and I did not know all these laws. So yes, it's definitely plausible that she did not know these laws. Also, often times, most of their laws are waived for foreign visitors so why should she have been bothering her head about them? If she had not gotten raped, she would never have had any dealings with the police.

how won't she know? she's not a newbie in dubai. she's just playing possum after being caught! she did not get räped. the sex was consensual....she's one of those female criminals who get the kicks from putting their bed partners in trouble after the alcohol in their system subsides.


Anybody could have helped her to her room, she chose one, who happened to be someone she knew and trusted.

she chose the opposite sex in an islamic country where drinking alcohol without a license is a crime and being holed in the same room with an opposite sex is a crime.

yeah right!!!


Of course she said yes, she had a rape to report. Or are you saying she knew she had 'broken their laws' and she was going to get imprisoned and she still went ahead and called the police? How does that mean she was not under duress when she got arrested for no credible reason after reporting she was raped?

before the police arrival, she was asked by the hotel staff if calling the cops was the right decision. she said yes!!! hotel staff wasn't stupid, the staff knew she would be processed for alcohol & sëx outside marriage.......

when the test results came out, there was alcohol in her system and she was arrested again. then she claimed she was told to change her statement by an official...why would anyone seeking justice back down after taking the oath to speak the truth?


What rape case? There was never a rape case taken up by the authorities. She was the accused here because she had been arrested and jailed! If she had not become the accused, what was she doing in jail?

they were both guilty of sëx outside marriage - she was guilty of perjury and drinking alcohol without a license. those are serious charges in dubai!



I have no problem with her getting sacked for going against their company policy.

are you sure? think about it before you making this decision. are you sure this isn't another ploy to oppress women? ileoba, are you getting soft all of a sudden? this is a sizeable chunk of beef to bite....... grin cheesy
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jul 22, 2013
coogar:

before the police arrival, she was asked by the hotel staff if calling the cops was the right decision. she said yes!!! hotel staff wasn't stupid, the staff knew she would be processed for alcohol & sëx outside marriage.......

The hotel staff knew the bogus laws and that women who are raped get no justice; she did not know, which is why she went ahead and asked for the police.

coogar:

are you sure? think about it before you making this decision. are you sure this isn't another ploy to oppress women? ileoba, are you getting soft all is of a sudden? this is a sizeable chunk of beef to bite....... grin cheesy

What the heck are you talking about? Unlike you, I'm a rational human being. Her company did not fire her for getting raped did they, unlike the police that jailed her for getting raped. They fired both of them for drinking alcohol at a staff conference resulting in trouble with the police and for not communicating with them while the case was going on. They are under no obligation to keep her job waiting for her if she was to remain in jail for 16 months. It is not their own job to investigate the case, all they know is that she was drinking on company time and ended up in jail. It is the jobs of the re*tarded justice system in Dubai to prosecute appropriately. If she wants to go enter into a legal battle with her company based on her innocence in the police matter, she should take her evidence and go and fight it. Until then, I have no problem with her being fired.
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by coogar: 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2013
ileobatojo:
The hotel staff knew the bogus laws and that women who are raped get no justice; she did not know, which is why she went ahead and asked for the police.

she knew what the laws are - she's an employee in dubai. she drank to the point of not being sure she could find her way back to her room - the beginning of her irresponsibility. she then asked a sudanese man to escort her back to her room(another crime). she then had consensual sex, woke up and she was ashamed of what she had done and then screamed foul play!


in her statement, she said she went into the room with the man with the hope of drinking water before she would take her leave. she then claimed that was the last thing she remembered. how can any responsible woman drink that much and forget what transpired? then the real smoking gun was the fact that she changed statements....

"i was rapëd" became "i wasn't raped" and changed back to "i was rapëd" and you can stand there and hold the brief for this promiscuous lethargic devil of a woman? seriously, there has to be a point where arguing for the sake of it becomes irritating. ileoba, this woman lied she was räped....you cannot convince me otherwise!


What the heck are you talking about? Unlike you, I'm a rational human being. Her company did not fire her for getting raped did they, unlike the police that jailed her for getting raped.

because she had committed a crime for putting herself in that situation in the first place. i remember a british dude that got jailed too. he had picked up a call-girl and she cleaned him out of his money. the stüpid man called the cops to report the theft but she got jailed for having sëx outside marriage.

that's their law, visitors should respect it!


They fired both of them for drinking alcohol at a staff conference resulting in trouble with the police and for not communicating with them while the case was going on. They are under no obligation to keep her job waiting for her if she was to remain in jail for 16 months. It is not their own job to investigate the case, all they know is that she was drinking on company time and ended up in jail. It is the jobs of the re*tarded justice system in Dubai to prosecute appropriately. If she wants to go enter into a legal battle with her company based on her innocence in the police matter, she should take her evidence and go and fight it. Until then, I have no problem with her being fired.

buhahahaha - who would have thought ileoba can be turned to argue objectively like this? i feel like a proud father watching her daughter getting admitted into havard. keep it up, witchdoctor!!!
Re: Woman Jailed For Getting Raped by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jul 22, 2013
She was an employee in Qatar, not Dubai.

I never said she was not irresponsible. However, that is no excuse for her to be raped.

You are basing your assumption that she had consensual sex on the fact that she was drink and asked to be escorted to her room. Therefore anything that happens after that is fair game. Basically, that means its something you can do?


She changed her story because her fears and desperation led her to take the advice to change it.


I have always been objective. The fact that you're pained when I call out idiocy doesn't change my objectivity.

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