Mynd_44: Break it off. You don't deserve the girl as it is obvious you will only make her life miserable

uchedydy: Having read all ur posts, the insults from obviously myopic and judgmental jibronys, and some well constructed criticisms from kind hearted individuals. I must say that i am more equipped to deal with it now dan wen i started dis tread. No matter how noisy the market may seem in the day, it is as quiet as a grave yard in the nyt...no matter the number of retarded fellows on nairaland ,there are some very wonderful fellows and i want to appreciate them so much for there comments.
For those who choose to insult and call names, u are more childish than i expected, look around you and search out guys womanizing, see call girls who do s e x for money, check out broken marriages, girls who sleep with someone else on the eve of their wedding. Now,think of the wrongs u have done yourself, then u will realize the true meaning of Jesus words..'let he who is without sin cast the first stone'. We are a product of our environment, the only difference is this , we all hid it, whoever brings his out becomes the devil.
I dnt want to be particular abt the criticisms, bt i must finger out the man who said am flaunting my wealth, how did i do that wen u dnt know my name and all, or must u say sometyn nasty evn if it makes no sense...this is nt an insult bt a question meant for all to do some soul searching and judge less cos only GOD is righteous...we all have tins we are nt doing well, we are nt jst bold to bring it to public view...however , i appreciate ur comments, especially the advice, will work on dem and make my pretty fiancee as Charmy as 'Charm'...cos i now know that real beauty is skin deep,outward beauty is all abt packaging......siyabonga to y'all.

D-Explorer:

You spewing trash dude. You are a kid and from my microscopic evaluation, pardon me, you're a certified lunkhead. Only the latter makes a little sense. Do you know the pain you're about to cause that lady if you're not healed? Do you know how many pretty girls we have around? Do you realize that your attraction will always come alive at every sight of a pretty lady, hence, making you 'hate' the look of your wife? Again, is it about the pretty face, sexy legs and seducing eyes? Is that all you want in a wife? They called you a kid, you said you're 30years old, have you heard of a 30years old kid? Maybe you didn't get the point, why did it take so long and about getting married before you realised that you like pretty girls? Why would you consider a break up at that point or a divorce after your marriage because she isn't that pretty and you could be tempted? Let me help you. . .go get healing first! You see my guy, we all like beautiful things, in fact, there's always a lady out there more beautiful than our women, we just go blind on them and keep appreciating and respecting that very one we've chosen. Please, work on yourself, get that attraction to other ladies re-directed to your wife and be the man she truly deserves. . . and don't adopt your weakness as an option at every slight provocation she might cause in marriage. You can do it bro! Get me an invite

Mynd_44: Goodnight people....

dmcdad:
Your signature got me chuckling....

Mynd_44:
I no get time for long thing jorh.....just stop making mouth

ibkaye: Stop wasting her time and call the wedding off

dmcdad:
Are you implying your heart is for sale, lease, rent, borrow, or your heart is open to any partnership?

Shollypopz:
My point exactly. I wonder why people are encouraging him to go on with a marriage that its foundation is already shaky.
It's better for her to cry now, than later

Shollypopz:
My point exactly. I wonder why people are encouraging him to go on with a marriage that its foundation is already shaky.
It's better for her to cry now, than later

ibkaye:
I'd be PISSED if I were her, he didn't know she wasn't 'pretty' enough before he got with her? Walahi

Shollypopz:
My point exactly. I wonder why people are encouraging him to go on with a marriage that its foundation is already shaky.
It's better for her to cry now, than later

Mynd_44:
But it will be better she calls it quits now as the man does not deserve her

Shollypopz:
she isn't aware, lol. She's prolly running around planning her dream day not knowing her supposed soul-mate doesn't consider her pretty enough to commit to her on a long-run.

Mynd_44:
But it will be better she calls it quits now as the man does not deserve her

try69:

People are already seeing his future..hold your t.b joshuaism and let the nicca be..he jes needed encouragement and he sounds very mature to me.

Shollypopz:
Your standards are low if you consider the op very mature.

Shollypopz:
she isn't aware, lol. She's prolly running around planning her dream day not knowing her supposed soul-mate doesn't consider her pretty enough to commit to her on a long-run.

alutacontinua:

I think you're being too hard on the op. Granted, it was a lil out of place for him to spew out that crap but he was just being true to himself. I'm sure so many people might feel like this but they just bottle it up because they know people would criticize them. He;s agreed to work on his thought process and content and let's just hope it works out well for them.

ibkaye:
yes, however I'm not sure that she even knows of his 'dilemma' so he needs to tell her so she can hopefully quit

Mynd_44:
I personally don't see it as being hard if we tell the OP that his reasons for this is childish.

Do you know how long he must have been with her, she would have invested emotions and time on him and now he just realise that she is not pretty?

**spits**

alutacontinua:

I totally get where you're coming from. If you look at my first comment on this, it was also to that effect. It was a stu*pid thing for him to say but he's decided to start thinking straight, I think that should be it. If he decides to think straight, then we should all just hope there's a chance for both of them in the marital world. If we continue to nail and un-nail him here, that doesn't affect anything again, does it