p.guyokec:
Because the world is spoilt seeing a virgin is as difficult as seeing God.
I remember b4 when you marry a girl you are sure she is a virgin
but now even questioning a girl you intend to marry she picks offence. All because of pornography. It is also the main reason of teen pregnancies. All because we nigerians want to copy what the whites are doin y can't we copy dem and stop jungle justice. And stop fraud inspect wining things y can

sexkillz: It's pathetic to think that people have reduced comparing virginity to cars, and in a dismal comparison.

Virginity is, and remains a matter of choice.

I expect someone to also tell me that a brand new Kia Rio is better than a fairly used BMW 3 series - The Ultimate driving machine. . . The car all other medium sedans want to be like when they grow up.

I find it appalling that in 2013 where a lot of virgins perpetuate and participate in all other forms of sex except penetrative, that some one will open his mouth and say he is basing marriage, a contract till death do you part, ON virginity.

Why there is a discrimination, I honestly do not know.

In the bible, there was a prostitute who saved some spies from Israel. God rewarded that prostitute and spared her life. She was no virgin.

Mary, the mother of Jesus was a virgin.

The name of the prostitute was Rahab. She is an ancestress of Jesus Christ.

Did God discriminate?

Some people need a mental revamp and re-evaluation. . .

sexkillz: pI find it appalling that in 2013 where a lot of virgins perpetuate and participate in all other forms of sex except penetrative, that some one will open his mouth and say he is basing marriage, a contract till death do you part, ON virginity.
D more d world worsens d more bera it bcomz on some peoplez part. Des things happenin diz dayz has bin happening ryt from tym (even ryt frm times of Jesus) and yet virgins still do exist wch means we wont stop seeing virgins untill life ends. So marriage bin based on virginity will neva stop thus, it aint an unachieveable dream/decision

lirusehn: nice point yuv got bro. In response 2 d quoted verses. I adviz u read tru d previous comments sir

alutacontinua: @lirusehn, you need to re-define your priorities, I must tell you.
There are virgins out in this day and age who are worse than the devil themselves. Just like we have non-virgins that are very virtuous and VICE VERSA. I'm just tryna tell you to quit being this petty and look out for something faaaarrrr more important. How about the so-called virgins who have done every other thing, save the penetration? What do you say about such? It just doesn't make no sense saying 'you must marry a virgin, or you wouldn't give her your 100% love'...who even says that again nowadays? And to say you're not even a virgin yourself. SMH!

@op, marrying a virgin is good but it's not the most important thing to look out for. Marry a virtuous lady who loves and respects you, cares about you, is honest to you and what have you? Ain't nothing that big of a deal about a hymen, abeg!

alutacontinua: @lirusehn, you need to re-define your priorities, I must tell you.
There are virgins out in this day and age who are worse than the devil themselves. Just like we have non-virgins that are very virtuous and VICE VERSA. I'm just tryna tell you to quit being this petty and look out for something faaaarrrr more important. How about the so-called virgins who have done every other thing, save the penetration? What do you say about such? It just doesn't make no sense saying 'you must marry a virgin, or you wouldn't give her your 100% love'...who even says that again nowadays? And to say you're not even a virgin yourself. SMH!

@op, marrying a virgin is good but it's not the most important thing to look out for. Marry a virtuous lady who loves and respects you, cares about you, is honest to you and what have you? Ain't nothing that big of a deal about a hymen, abeg!

lirusehn: much fankz ma. So honoured. Even if dey start selling pills 2 make ***** fully sealed. I swear i wont make d wrong choice. Remb i said ave abstained from s*x. Somtin prompted 2 dis. I stopd living ma previous life so as to creat an unbroken intimacy btween me and God. So by so doing am sure God gon' giv un2 me d real/perfect one #chuckles

lirusehn: much fankz ma. So honoured. Even if dey start selling pills 2 make ***** fully sealed. I swear i wont make d wrong choice. Remb i said ave abstained from s*x. Somtin prompted 2 dis. I stopd living ma previous life so as to creat an unbroken intimacy btween me and God. So by so doing am sure God gon' giv un2 me d real/perfect one #chuckles

lirusehn: much fankz ma. So honoured. Even if dey start selling pills 2 make ***** fully sealed. I swear i wont make d wrong choice. Remb i said ave abstained from s*x. Somtin prompted 2 dis. I stopd living ma previous life so as to creat an unbroken intimacy btween me and God. So by so doing am sure God gon' giv un2 me d real/perfect one #chuckles

jmoore:


There is a selfishness on your own part. If you are a virgin then that is understandable but you are not .

alutacontinua:

Even if he is a virgin, that's his choice. Why would someone keep virginity simply because you wanna marry a virgin too? What kind of mentality is that?

alutacontinua:

Even if he is a virgin, that's his choice. Why would someone keep virginity simply because you wanna marry a virgin too? What kind of mentality is that?

yawns!!

u still dey on this matter

u really get time

sexkillz: What comments? The nonsensical ones about brand new cars?


Is virginity a matter of choice or not?

jmoore:


There is selfishness on your own part. If you are a virgin then that is understandable but you are not .

alutacontinua:

So, what happens if you meet a lady who is all what you want in a woman and you both love each other, but her hymen has been tampered with?

jmoore:
Every decision we take is all about choice.

The main reason for being a virgin is all about chastity, I don't know where you got your own reason from

lirusehn: datz wia ma choice lies. We cant eva meet. And i cant eva fall for people as such

alutacontinua:

I be lyk say you don dey sleep.
If someone decides to keep his/her virginity, there could be various reasons for it. Why should/would it be because you have to marry a virgin too? Going by your other post, that was what you meant, init? To marry a virgin, you should also be a virgin. Where do you get that kind of mentality from?

My point: If you're a virgin, congratulations! But that doesn't mean you should start going on a search for a virgin cos you're also a virgin. Worrisdat

lirusehn: i support wot Jmoore said. Its all in d nameto be in d state of bin chaste. Total purity. And sinz u cud made ursev pure den u deserv ur type as partner. Nt 4 any oda reason.

alutacontinua:

I think I now have a glimpse into why some ladies lie about their virginity status.
Not justifying the action, though.

jmoore: quoting out of context

sexkillz: Does the God you claim to have an "unbroken intimacy" with, discriminate against non virgins or anyone?

lirusehn: he didnt discriminate cuz he intended saving dem not to settle down wiv dem.

lirusehn: lol. Nosensical u said? No no no. Dnt sound harsh.


Nt even doz two. Like dev modified d post. Cant longa see it.

In responz 2 d quoted actions from d bible. God didnt discriminate dos prostitutes simply cuz he came 2 save dem all not to make dem his wife. And i fink Jesus who neva got married on earth has got nafin 2 do wit dis topic sir.

lirusehn: he didnt discriminate cuz he intended saving dem not to settle down wiv dem.

ogugua88:

So God settled with virgins? A dim confusicated.

sexkillz: God came where? Is God the same as Jesus? If you argue that they are the same, why did Jesus say that the "Father" is greater than he is? And who is the "Father"?


Jesus never got married. Don't think he has nothing to do with the topic. He is a direct descendant of Rahab, a prostitute. He mingled with sinners, he did not discriminate. what did Jesus say about the adulteress who was about to be stoned to death?

sexkillz: ^Just read your signature again and smh.

Did Jesus also come to save Rahab, his ancestress, the prostitute? Was his great great great grandmother a virgin when his great great great grandfather married her?

Make sure of the MORE important things.