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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Nobody: 2:48am On Jul 30, 2013
lirusehn: hey ma man!!! As long as life neva ends. Is a most for me 2 marry a Virgin(or i rather die as a Bachelor). I aint a virgin though,buh 2 me i bliv ma past is gone. Almost 4yrs nw ave neva dated anybdy let alone buttering up a gurl so shema love me. In short bro, ma only rward inexchange 4 dis is an untouched gal. To some nway is nafin o buh daz 4 'em. But 2 me as a persn is gon' b ma greatest Achievment lera in d future. If i mistakenly get married 2 a gal dat had aedi bin disflowerd , i swear she wont love me cuz she cant have d best from me. Shout out 2 ma future wife. Plz kip ursev 4 me

Dang!
What if the girl was r@ped?

Bros... please change this mindset of yours sad
Your reward for just 4 years of chastity is a virgin who has kept herself for about 25 years... Doesn't that seem unfair sad

Your greatest achievement would be marrying a virgin shocked shocked shocked Are you from the cave?
Oh My God sad What a warped mentality!!!

I feel sorry for your future wife already sad sad sad

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by luxs(m): 2:52am On Jul 30, 2013
pple twistin the truth to suite deir lifestyle... so d God dat said we should nt fornicate was not civilise or sumtin what is bad is bad...

A gal whos nt a virgin does nt worth my bride price ,or what am i payin for,,, beta still she should be payin me ..






Mtcheeew!

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Nobody: 3:12am On Jul 30, 2013
luxs: pple twistin the truth to suite deir lifestyle... so d God dat said we should nt fornicate was not civilise or sumtin what is bad is bad...

A gal whos nt a virgin does nt worth my bride price ,or what am i payin for,,, beta still she should be payin me ..






Mtcheeew!

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Godson201333(m): 6:19am On Jul 30, 2013
Virgin or non virgin,Just pray for the best what if sh is a virgin and lack other good qualities?Virgins are always proud and thats why they find it difficult to get husband..

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:37am On Jul 30, 2013
lirusehn:


wot has my signature did 4 u.

U running outa points. Itz all bout xplanation.... U nid not sound rude sir. If u tired go and sleep . Kill ursev cuz of dat signature, for all i care. Jez reply like oda mature minds. Wuz it stated/noted in ur Quoran dat dey were not Virgins?
All about explanation. grin You signature says you are not perfect, but you want a perfect lady because you repented for 4 years?
I'm running out of points but I keep asking you questions you cannot answer. The God you serve, does he discriminate against non virgins?

Who mentioned quoran? Are you discombobulated?

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 6:48am On Jul 30, 2013
sexkillz: All about explanation. grin You signature says you are not perfect, but you want a perfect lady because you repented for 4 years?
I'm running out of points but I keep asking you questions you cannot answer. The God you serve, does he discriminate against non virgins?

Who mentioned quoran? Are you discombobulated?


same story different version. Am done wiv u brov

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 6:51am On Jul 30, 2013
Godson201333: Virgin or non virgin,Just pray for the best what if sh is a virgin and lack other good qualities?Virgins are always proud and thats why they find it difficult to get husband..


nice nice
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:53am On Jul 30, 2013
lirusehn: same story different version. Am done wiv u brov
I was done with you since the previous page. . . You just kept coming back and exposing your folly.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 6:54am On Jul 30, 2013
luxs: pple twistin the truth to suite deir lifestyle... so d God dat said we should nt fornicate was not civilise or sumtin what is bad is bad...

A gal whos nt a virgin does nt worth my bride price ,or what am i payin for,,, beta still she should be payin me ..






Mtcheeew!
i luv u bro . No homo
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 6:59am On Jul 30, 2013
I.Joan:


Dang!
What if the girl was r@ped?

Bros... please change this mindset of yours sad
Your reward for just 4 years of chastity is a virgin who has kept herself for about 25 years... Doesn't that seem unfair sad

Your greatest achievement would be marrying a virgin shocked shocked shocked Are you from the cave?
Oh My God sad What a warped mentality!!!

I feel sorry for your future wife already sad sad sad

lol. Speaking from ur own pickled heart. Need not b sorry 4 her,as her future holds d best.

Marryn a virgin gon' b ma greatst achivment. So many strings attached. Ur level of udastandn matters 2 undastand dat line.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by jmoore(m): 7:06am On Jul 30, 2013
Godson201333: Virgins are always proud and thats why they find it difficult to get husband..
Mary found it difficult to get Joseph as her husband? smh
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 7:10am On Jul 30, 2013
jmoore:
Mary found it difficult to get Joseph as her husband? smh
i value d point-out.
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lexib(m): 7:37am On Jul 30, 2013
Recently, dia z a procedure cald HYMENOPLASTY... a minor cosmetic surgery dat restores d anatomical virginity... Prostitutes n pornstars do it at d end of dia careers wen dey nid to settle down... its very affordable n done evn in Nigeria... weda na natural or cosmetic virginity how u go take know virgin na virgin jor!!!
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 7:40am On Jul 30, 2013
sexkillz: I was done with you since the previous page. . . You just kept coming back and exposing your folly.

hmmmnn. Folly u said? Most u use foul words? Bro¡ Bro! Bro¿ Pls b verykiaful sir.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 7:43am On Jul 30, 2013
lexi-b:
Recently, dia z a procedure cald HYMENOPLASTY... a minor cosmetic surgery dat restores d anatomical virginity... Prostitutes n pornstars do it at d end of dia careers wen dey nid to settle down... its very affordable n done evn in Nigeria... weda na natural or cosmetic virginity how u go take know virgin na virgin jor!!!
lol. Yup i knw it does exist. Buh u cant play tricks wiv God

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by 1EyEDCyCLOPSTM: 8:25am On Jul 30, 2013
Donmichaelz: Good day my fellow nairalanders,these issue has been disturbing me so I dEcided to share it.my parent adviced me that if I should consider getting married now that my wife to be must be a virgin,.pls help me out,what is special about marrying a Virgin?


N.B(am a virgin)
She'll never know yhu are a sucker in bed lipsrsealed

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Ishilove: 8:36am On Jul 30, 2013
Any lady who is able to keep her chastity till marriage is a rare gem indeed. A rarity, as scarce as water in the desert. They should be very proud of themselves and hold on fast to it.

However, there are also virgins who are only virgins in body but virgins at heart. They cook up terrible things in the laboratory of their hearts; their minds are dirtier than the dirtiest gutters. I have associated with a couple of them so I know what I am saying.

So what am I saying?

While striving to marry virgins, do not lose sight of the fact that it takes more than sex for a marriage to work. For the fellow who said marrying a virgin will be his greatest achievement, well, it is very obvious that you need a few knocks on the head from the knuckles of life to knock some sense into your naïve head. You are not a virgin yourself, though you are celibate. What of the other women out there who aren't virgins too but are also celibate, just like you? They have repented and their past is washed away by the redemptive power of God's grace and love.

To you the fellow who says she should be paying for marrying her: when you sleep with your virgin wife on your wedding night, she is no longer a virgin. Okay, what next? Does she possess the qualities of a good wife that will bring you happiness at home? What does she have going for her besides her virginity? Is she of a good character? Does she come from a good family background? Is she of sound mind? Is she psychologically equipped to handle marriage and its huge responsibilities?

You need to ask salient questions before getting married. If in your quest to marry a virgin, you end up marrying a virgin alumona (python), OYO is your case.

So back to what I was saying...

Your focus should not be on praying to meet a woman who's life is a testament of righteous living, a woman who will be the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh, a friend, sister, lover, home maker, spiritual partner etc. While praying, you can ask God to add virginity into the mix. If He grants you your request, all well and good; you have been immeasurably blessed. If not, you are still blessed.

BUT, don't let your mentality be I MUST must marry a virgin!! I MUST MARRY A VIRGIN!!! There are virgins out there who are worse than deadly snakes. Rather, your focus should be on ending up with a partner with whom you will fulfill your destiny with, not one who will destroy your life.

That is not to say we should swallow the spirit of fornication and glory in it!! angry

So THAT is what I am saying... wink

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by jmoore(m): 8:45am On Jul 30, 2013
well spoken @ishilove
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 8:51am On Jul 30, 2013
Ishilove: Any lady who is able to keep her chastity till marriage is a rare gem indeed. A rarity, as scarce as water in the desert. They should be very proud of themselves and hold on fast to it.

However, there are also virgins who are only virgins in body but virgins at heart. They cook up terrible things in the laboratory of their hearts; their minds are dirtier than the dirtiest gutters. I have associated with a couple of them so I know what I am saying.

So what am I saying?

While striving to marry virgins, do not lose sight of the fact that it takes more than sex for a marriage to work. For the fellow who said marrying a virgin will be his greatest achievement, well, it is very obvious that you need a few knocks on the head from the knuckles of life to knock some sense into your naïve head. You are not a virgin yourself, though you are celibate. What of the other women out there who aren't virgins too but are also celibate, just like you? They have repented and their past is washed away by the redemptive power of God's grace and love.

To you the fellow who says she should be paying for marrying her: when you sleep with your virgin wife on your wedding night, she is no longer a virgin. Okay, what next? Does she possess the qualities of a good wife that will bring you happiness at home? What does she have going for her besides her virginity? Is she of a good character? Does she come from a good family background? Is she of sound mind? Is she psychologically equipped to handle marriage and its huge responsibilities?

You need to ask salient questions before getting married. If in your quest to marry a virgin, you end up marrying a virgin alumona (python), OYO is your case.

So back to what I was saying...

Your focus should not be on praying to meet a woman who's life is a testament of righteous living, a woman who will be the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh, a friend, sister, lover, home maker, spiritual partner etc. While praying, you can ask God to add virginity into the mix. If He grants you your request, all well and good; you have been immeasurably blessed. If not, you are still blessed.

BUT, don't let your mentality be I MUST must marry a virgin!! I MUST MARRY A VIRGIN!!! There are virgins out there who are worse than deadly snakes. Rather, your focus should be on ending up with a partner with whom you will fulfill your destiny with, not one who will destroy your life.

That is not to say we should swallow the spirit of fornication and glory in it!! angry

So THAT is what I am saying... wink
hmmmnn too many for my likings,I got all ur points though. goin tru d prvious comment gon' xplain some stated point of urz. 2 b sin cere i appreciate dis part
Ishilove: a woman who will be the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh, a friend, sister, lover, home maker, spiritual partner etc. While praying, you can ask God to add virginity into the mix. If He grants you your request, all well and good; you have been immeasurably blessed. If not, you are still blessed
sinz u also bliv we can ask frm God and it might b granted. I fink am okay wivit. God gon' perfect it all and if shezz d bone of ma bone she wud surely meet ma xpectations

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by peetayo: 9:42am On Jul 30, 2013
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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Speakdatruth: 9:51am On Jul 30, 2013
marryin a virgin z borin
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Speakdatruth: 9:56am On Jul 30, 2013
Ishilove: Any lady who is able to keep her chastity till marriage is a rare gem indeed. A rarity, as scarce as water in the desert. They should be very proud of themselves and hold on fast to it.

However, there are also virgins who are only virgins in body but virgins at heart. They cook up terrible things in the laboratory of their hearts; their minds are dirtier than the dirtiest gutters. I have associated with a couple of them so I know what I am saying.

So what am I saying?

While striving to marry virgins, do not lose sight of the fact that it takes more than sex for a marriage to work. For the fellow who said marrying a virgin will be his greatest achievement, well, it is very obvious that you need a few knocks on the head from the knuckles of life to knock some sense into your naïve head. You are not a virgin yourself, though you are celibate. What of the other women out there who aren't virgins too but are also celibate, just like you? They have repented and their past is washed away by the redemptive power of God's grace and love.

To you the fellow who says she should be paying for marrying her: when you sleep with your virgin wife on your wedding night, she is no longer a virgin. Okay, what next? Does she possess the qualities of a good wife that will bring you happiness at home? What does she have going for her besides her virginity? Is she of a good character? Does she come from a good family background? Is she of sound mind? Is she psychologically equipped to handle marriage and its huge responsibilities?

You need to ask salient questions before getting married. If in your quest to marry a virgin, you end up marrying a virgin alumona (python), OYO is your case.

So back to what I was saying...

Your focus should not be on praying to meet a woman who's life is a testament of righteous living, a woman who will be the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh, a friend, sister, lover, home maker, spiritual partner etc. While praying, you can ask God to add virginity into the mix. If He grants you your request, all well and good; you have been immeasurably blessed. If not, you are still blessed.

BUT, don't let your mentality be I MUST must marry a virgin!! I MUST MARRY A VIRGIN!!! There are virgins out there who are worse than deadly snakes. Rather, your focus should be on ending up with a partner with whom you will fulfill your destiny with, not one who will destroy your life.

That is not to say we should swallow the spirit of fornication and glory in it!! angry

So THAT is what I am saying... wink
amen sumbori
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 10:14am On Jul 30, 2013
[quote author=peetayo][/quote] lol. D tym hasnt yet come
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 10:15am On Jul 30, 2013
Speakdatruth: marryin a virgin z borin

not too boring though
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by deshclones(m): 10:36am On Jul 30, 2013
lirusehn: he didnt discriminate cuz he intended saving dem not to settle down wiv dem.

Dang...word brother...this is the whole undiluted truth....

I hate it when people compare others with Christ...Christ is the son of God...we are all son of men..mere mortal so we ca never reason or behave alike...

Marrying a virgin is a personal choice..i have slept with 2 virgins and to be honest it sucks...they lay too much emphasis on their virginity and want you to worship them all the time because they gave you the privilege of bursting the stuff...com'on...to date virgin no easy sha,its hard work..its like training a 5 year old dog...am indifferent jare i pray for a good woman..virgin or not desh no send..i have tasted two so nothing is new again.
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by lirusehn(m): 10:45am On Jul 30, 2013
deshclones:

Dang...word brother...this is the whole undiluted truth....

I hate it when people compare others with Christ...Christ is the son of God...we are all son of men..mere mortal so we ca never reason or behave alike...

Marrying a virgin is a personal choice..i have slept with 2 virgins and to be honest it sucks...they lay too much emphasis on their virginity and want you to worship them all the time because they gave you the privilege of bursting the stuff...com'on...to date virgin no easy sha,its hard work..its like training a 5 year old dog...am indifferent jare i pray for a good woman..virgin or not desh no send..i have tasted two so nothing is new again.
hmmnn. U 2 Virgins. Omo no b here o. I swear i go like dagah one of ur people dis dayz. Lol
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Luckygurl(f): 11:14am On Jul 30, 2013
What's all d hype abt female virginity sef, why not male and female virginity. Gurls don suffer 4 dis world.

D last I checked, there is nothing old fashioned abt a girl respecting her body and remaining a virgin till marriage. In as much as being a virgin doesn't make U a better wife than d non-virgins nor does it gurantee a happy long lasting marriage, but why give away such a precious thing, outside a loving commitment lyk marriage. #my humble opinion#

Also we all have to give acct for the way we lived our lives here on earth.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Donmichaelz(m): 3:00pm On Jul 30, 2013
Lucky gurl: What's all d hype abt female virginity sef, why not male and female virginity. Gurls don suffer 4 dis world.

D last I checked, there is nothing old fashioned abt a girl respecting her body and remaining a virgin till marriage. In as much as being a virgin doesn't make U a better wife than d non-virgins nor does it gurantee a happy long lasting marriage, but why give away such a precious thing, outside a loving commitment lyk marriage. #my humble opinion#

Also we all have to give acct for the way we lived our lives here on earth.
self justification,if you are nt a virgin you can't have a peaceful home,simple.Virginity is d pride of a woman it is more important than u think,if u av lost urs don't hide from d truth,U are a second class girl u deserve a second hand man.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 30, 2013
Donmichaelz: self justification,if you are nt a virgin you can't have a peaceful home,simple.Virginity is d pride of a woman it is more important than u think,if u av lost urs don't hide from d truth,U are a second class girl u deserve a second hand man.

Lmaoooo. Biko, what is the pride of a man?

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Donmichaelz(m): 3:25pm On Jul 30, 2013
ogugua88:

Lmaoooo. Biko, what is the pride of a man?
his PENIS
Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Luckygurl(f): 3:40pm On Jul 30, 2013
Donmichaelz: self justification,if you are nt a virgin you can't have a peaceful home,simple.Virginity is d pride of a woman it is more important than u think,if u av lost urs don't hide from d truth,U are a second class girl u deserve a second hand man.
perhaps U really need to go through what I wrote up dere instead of being soo myopic.

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Re: What Is So Special In Marrying A Virgin? by Luckygurl(f): 3:49pm On Jul 30, 2013
Besides when did virginity become d criteria 4 a happy marriage. In as much as I'm not in support of premarital sex, Chances of having a successful marriage is totally independent on d state of virginity of d parties involved, Although this might differ 4 sum folks anyway.

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