Enegod: lack of wife material, i think

Bootylicious: How many yards of husband material are out there?

Enegod: nth like husband material..we the men can get married at any time if we find the right wife material

Enegod: nth like husband material..we the men can get married at any time if we find the right wife material

Princess zoe: really, like seriously? Am sure you have heard about one being a marriagable material (husband or wife respectively)?. My dear friend drop that untrue ideology, it will do you no good.

Mamacita007: selfishness. some of them still wanna have fun before getting married

Bootylicious: Few days ago there was a trend as to why ladies in their 30s are still single..It is only in Nigeria we see it as a big deal when a lady is single at 30+, forgetting that there are lots of single men at 30+ and above,we are all humans trying to strive and make it in life and I thank God that gone are the days were ladies solely depend on men for their needs, now we are all working towards being a supportive wife.. I have seen so many married men with happy families in their late 20s. For NLders living abroad you will affirm that most foreign guys at 27,28 have already started their own families. Few days ago a 39yrs old man asked for my hands in marriage, the first thing that came to my mind was why is he still single? It's questionable too.. men keep blaming ladies for being single and calling them all sort of names, why are you also still single at 30+ so many guys younger than you are married. I feel men marry late because at a certain age all they do is waste their energy on ladies, exploring different when they are supposed to build their careers once they are in their late 20s it strikes them they'll need to settle down and that's only when they begin to take their life seriously.. oya why are some men single at 30+

Enegod: wether a man is marriageable or not he is still gonna get married unlike the ladies..it's a man's world..deal with it!!

Jman06: Pls oo,ladies don't compare urselves 2 guys when it comes 2 marriage,biologically we knw that ther's a whole lot of difference btw d 2 sexes,@ 45 most women are already in their menopause and cease 2 reproduce while men in their 80s can still play and score goals.Talkn about why men in their 30+ are single,it's because d economy is too harsh on d menfolk nowadays,ladies these days get d jobs easily compared 2 guys who have 2 struggle so hard 2 make ends meet.There's a question i hav always wanted 2 ask;why is it that a made guy can easily stoop low and marry a girl that's less financially bouyant but made ladies even despise guys that are still struggling?If that's right,then why are we still talkn about women emancipation?pls can somebody provide answers 2 d above questions?

dmcdad:
I would have loved to answer your questions, but in a secind thought, its better to leave em for the female folks to answer...

gbaky_floor:
They waste their time on frivolity and by the time they wake up they are grand-fathers without grand-children.

I will use my dad as a case study. He built his first house, got married and had his first child before he clocked thirty. He achieved this by working tirelessly and focusing on what was important as a man: having enough income to raise a family.

Today's man spends the first 25 years of his life writing love letters, wooing girls, drinking and partying. By the time he realises his stupidity, he has clocked thirty. He spends the next five years of his life pursuing money/trying to have a steady income.

Once he hits little money at 35, he spends the next two - three years spending on younger girls for sex stupidly seeing it as punishment for the ones in the past that rejected him in his twenties.

By thirty-eight he becomes ready to marry, unfortunately he realises the girls in their early twenties do not find him young, attractive or rich enough to marry.

He goes back into the labour market to make more money while his sperm clock ticks away.

Thus, he decides to console himself with the belief he is a man and can get any woman he wants at any time. He ups it a notch by proclaiming all the women he came across aren't wife materials rather than admitting the problems come from him.

gbaky_floor:
They waste their time on frivolity and by the time they wake up they are grand-fathers without grand-children.

I will use my dad as a case study. He built his first house, got married and had his first child before he clocked thirty. He achieved this by working tirelessly and focusing on what was important as a man: having enough income to raise a family.

Today's man spends the first 25 years of his life writing love letters, wooing girls, drinking and partying. By the time he realises his stupidity, he has clocked thirty. He spends the next five years of his life pursuing money/trying to have a steady income.

Once he hits little money at 35, he spends the next two - three years spending on younger girls for sex stupidly seeing it as punishment for the ones in the past that rejected him in his twenties.

By thirty-eight he becomes ready to marry, unfortunately he realises the girls in their early twenties do not find him young, attractive or rich enough to marry.

He goes back into the labour market to make more money while his sperm clock ticks away.

Thus, he decides to console himself with the belief he is a man and can get any woman he wants at any time. He ups it a notch by proclaiming all the women he came across aren't wife materials rather than admitting the problems come from him.

Jman06: Get it in2 ur dumb head that men are not desperate about marriage like ladies are because we knw that more ladies than guys keep vigils in churches,prayn n fastn 4 mr right.

gbaky_floor:
They waste their time on frivolity and by the time they wake up they are grand-fathers without grand-children.

I will use my dad as a case study. He built his first house, got married and had his first child before he clocked thirty. He achieved this by working tirelessly and focusing on what was important as a man: having enough income to raise a family.

Today's man spends the first 25 years of his life writing love letters, wooing girls, drinking and partying. By the time he realises his stupidity, he has clocked thirty. He spends the next five years of his life pursuing money/trying to have a steady income.

Once he hits little money at 35, he spends the next two - three years spending on younger girls for sex stupidly seeing it as punishment for the ones in the past that rejected him in his twenties.

By thirty-eight he becomes ready to marry, unfortunately he realises the girls in their early twenties do not find him young, attractive or rich enough to marry.

He goes back into the labour market to make more money while his sperm clock ticks away.

Thus, he decides to console himself with the belief he is a man and can get any woman he wants at any time. He ups it a notch by proclaiming all the women he came across aren't wife materials rather than admitting the problems come from him.

Jman06: Pls oo,ladies don't compare urselves 2 guys when it comes 2 marriage,biologically we knw that ther's a whole lot of difference btw d 2 sexes,@ 45 most women are already in their menopause and cease 2 reproduce while men in their 80s can still play and score goals.Talkn about why men in their 30+ are single,it's because d economy is too harsh on d menfolk nowadays,ladies these days get d jobs easily compared 2 guys who have 2 struggle so hard 2 make ends meet.There's a question i hav always wanted 2 ask;why is it that a made guy can easily stoop low and marry a girl that's less financially bouyant but made ladies even despise guys that are still struggling?If that's right,then why are we still talkn about women emancipation?pls can somebody provide answers 2 d above questions?

vivalableue:

ok i'll take a stab at what you wrote. Well it's true that most women are trained to look for men who can take care of them. And although we cease our reproductive abilities mid-aged, we also come into our sexual peak at 40-45 (compared to 18 years for men) this is a well established medical fact. (aka look it up for yourself) About economy being hard, my friend, it neva has been easy. No situation is permanent. But if you tell that mountain to move, and have the faith to see it gone it will go. The same goes for life, a lil faith and a lot of hard work goes a long way. A good woman will be drawn to a good attitude and strong spirit in a man. So maybe if you stopped concentrating on what is hindering you and focus on the propelling factors you'll find a lady who can compliment your drive. So quit making this about what breaks a man down, a not-so-secret secret is that a life-long partnership helps you live that happy long and fulfilled life. OK so just think about it, no pressure, but contemplate what a change in perspective can mean for your life now and long-term.