Your birthday is just few days away to your wedding and your wife would be forgot to tell you happy birthday at least! What can you deduce from this!....for me I think she's too occupied with so many things!..? Fellow Nlanders, whatz ur view on this?

Just forget to wish her HBD to, you would love the way she would react. It really works like magic.

Hehehe....her BD is still far! I won't wanna repay her that way sha...but I can imagine how she"ll feel

Well just accept it as a sign of end time.

Ok jokes apart, it hurts when someone you love the most forgets a special day as your bithday and for ladies like me I could conclude he doesn't love me enough, but just like you said wedding plans could be a reason why she forgot. Just let it go.

Birthdays are not that important to some pple. Blame it on up-bringing or mindset or something.

I've forgotten my own personal birthday before only to remember 2 days after . So, if I forget someone's birthday and he loses sleep over it by thinking I don't care, he's making a mistake. Likewise, if anybody forgets my birthday, it's really no biggie. It's your damn business.

I try to remember pple's birthdays but if I forget by chance, he should 'sorry'!.

@ OP,u said it all.she is preoccupied with the wedding preparations.

@nne3870.. Sure, no hard feelings! Aint suprised!

Dude, I think it'll be better if you told her. You know, in that way guys have of sounding hurt when they aren't? Properly done, you could milk a grrrrreat appology from her!!!
It'll strengthen your relationship and make you look the bigger man. If she's got even an ounce of brains, she'll love and respect you more for it. And I'm sure she's got a whole lot more than an ounce.

alutacontinua: Birthdays are not that important to some pple. Blame it on up-bringing or mindset or something.

I've forgotten my own personal birthday before only to remember 2 days after . So, if I forget someone's birthday and he loses sleep over it by thinking I don't care, he's making a mistake. Likewise, if anybody forgets my birthday, it's really no biggie. It's your damn business.

I try to remember pple's birthdays but if I forget by chance, he should 'sorry'!.

u 4get ur bday ke?i dnt bliev jo..

nne3870: Well just accept it as a sign of end time.

Ok jokes apart, it hurts when someone you love the most forgets a special day as your bithday and for ladies like me I could conclude he doesn't love me enough, but just like you said wedding plans could be a reason why she forgot. Just let it go.

i forgot my baby's birthday once,yet I love her to pieces,i was so bust dat period though

nne3870: Well just accept it as a sign of end time.

Ok jokes apart, it hurts when someone you love the most forgets a special day as your bithday and for ladies like me I could conclude he doesn't love me enough, but just like you said wedding plans could be a reason why she forgot. Just let it go.

i forgot my baby's birthday once,yet I love her to pieces,i was so busy dat period though

It doesn't mean it's a tragedy. I've also forgotten my birthday a few times. The reminder on such occasions were 12:00am texts and calls..usually from family and friends.

If it hurts you that much, then your EQ must be really high. At least, in comparison with mine.

Odunharry:
u 4get ur bday ke?i dnt bliev jo..

It's true...it's been a few years now sha...don't think it can happen again.
I just don't fancy that day that much...

Hmmmm.......I don't think she really loves me then.

@melojames....what if she's very busy and got lots to sort out at the moment?

She might just be too pre-occupied with the wedding thing... Although that's never a genuine reason not to take cognizance of your birthday, yet I would not want you to read further meaning to it.

She probably got too carried away.

alutacontinua:

It's true...it's been a few years now sha...don't think it can happen again.
I just don't fancy that day that much...

ok..

street-soldier:
@melojames....what if she's very busy and got lots to sort out at the moment?

No matter how busy she is, days before the fiance's bday, she's supposed to have planned for it.

melojames:

No matter how busy she is, days before the fiance's bday, she's supposed to have planned for it.

I quite agree with you, but the excuse still remains tight schedules at work and maybe trying to sort out with who will stand in for her while away on leave!...am sure she'll feel sorry for the mess-up

I go leave all d wahala wey man dey face, dey think of birthday? Nonsense!

@flygerian...lol

She forgot and you just have to Be yourself.Buh just make sure you do the-same to her whenever its her bday.

Now lemme know who wins among ya!

Some pple forget their own bday, such pple could actually forget others too.
Above all, it is only those with settled mind that will remember dates. I pray God grant us peace in our lives.

Phranciz: Just forget to wish her HBD to, you would love the way she would react. It really works like magic.

@op, forgive her, dont pay evil with evil. Ur future is bright, I believe u foresee her a good wife before planning to marry her. If wedding planning could be a job, then it could be worrisome.

@exponential....well said, thanks for ur words, am holding nothing against her!

Exponental: Some pple forget their own bday, such pple could actually forget others too.
Above all, it is only those with settled mind that will remember dates. I pray God grant us peace in our lives.

True talk broda. Sail on!

Wen man pikin go dey hustle day and night dey think of how i go take beta my life, naim one yeye tin go dey for kona dey vex say i no rememba her BD. She dey mad for head! Omo, make da gal no let me swaer for am o!

Flygerian.:

True talk broda. Sail on!

Wen man pikin go dey hustle day and night dey think of how i go take beta my life, naim one yeye tin go dey for kona dey vex say i no rememba her BD. She dey mad for head! Omo, make da gal no let me swaer for am o!

Guy easy now... Na fight? Lol

dmcdad:
Guy easy now... Na fight? Lol

Omo guy no vex jare! Just that some girls can be so so annoying with such nonsense. And the worst part of it b say d ediot no go bring idea on how to take beta ur life so things go dey ok for una. Na to dey ping dey send pix of dier dirty breas n nyash to oda guys for BB naim dem sabi.

Flygerian.:

Omo guy no vex jare! Just that some girls can be so so annoying with such nonsense. And the worst part of it b say d ediot no go bring idea on how to take beta ur life so things go dey ok for una. Na to dey ping dey send pix of dier dirty breas n nyash to oda guys for BB naim dem sabi.

Lol... Exactly one of the things wey make me break up with one of my ex. I discover say I don transform this gurl life beyond expectation. The problem be say, to be sincere with you, I no gain anything from her. At least even though na make she just dey encourage me in my daily endeavours that one for dey okay. But this girl no dey add anything to my life at all, plus that, you come dey get some kind parole with people because say I be kind person wey no dey give person close marking not knowing say me nothing I no fit know. So when i check am for every angle, I see say the girl no worth someone like me.

Generally, most of em dey highly annoying and no fit add anything to better your life. I love my life like this wey I dey single more than to dey with most of these chicks.

dmcdad:
Lol... Exactly one of the things wey make me break up with one of my ex. I discover say I don transform this gurl life beyond expectation. The problem be say, to be sincere with you, I no gain anything from her. At least even though na make she just dey encourage me in my daily endeavours that one for dey okay. But this girl no dey add anything to my life at all, plus that, you come dey get some kind parole with people because say I be kind person wey no dey give person close marking not knowing say me nothing I no fit know. So when i check am for every angle, I see say the girl no worth someone like me.

Na so oo! Dump her lame azz and move on, they'r NOT worth it.

dmcdad:
Generally, most of em dey highly annoying and no fit add anything to better your life.

At all!! All what they v to offer is their left over pu-c for one to continue where their ex bf stopped. Aside that, NOTHING! Ah! Men dey suffer o!

dmcdad:
I love my life like this wey I dey single more than to dey with most of these chicks.

Ah dey tell u! Enough flexing without bothering. Living life to the fullest.

alutacontinua: Birthdays are not that important to some pple. Blame it on up-bringing or mindset or something.

I've forgotten my own personal birthday before only to remember 2 days after . So, if I forget someone's birthday and he loses sleep over it by thinking I don't care, he's making a mistake. Likewise, if anybody forgets my birthday, it's really no biggie. It's your damn business.

I try to remember pple's birthdays but if I forget by chance, he should 'sorry'!.

But if its important to your partner then they should remember