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"8 Signs You're A Horrible GIRL To Date" by Nobody: 7:38pm On Aug 05, 2013
No one is perfect and there are no doubts about that. But when it comes to dating, there are women out there who really don’t fit the mold when it comes to being a good girlfriend. While some men will openly speak out about it, others will keep it to themselves . So here are 8 signs that you’re the girlfriend making your man's life miserable.

1: Too Expensive To Take-Care-Of

You can only be wined and dined at upscale restaurants. Money makes you happy and all eyes have to be on you, no matter where you go. Men don’t really like high maintenance women much, as your excessive demands may be taking a toll on him.

2: You Complain Too Much

We all complain, but there are some women out there who complain entirely too much. There is nothing more annoying and frustrating than having to listen to a girl do nothing but whine and antagonize. If you are a huge complainer, your man may not say it, but you’re definitely digging yourself a hole.

3: Trying To Change A Man

Your man will be who he is, just as you will be who you are. While relationships require change from all parties involved, this change should happen naturally not forcibly. If you are a woman who tries to change the person she is dating, then you’re definitely not doing yourself any justice. There is no sense in trying to change someone, especially the person you’re dating.

4: You're Never Wrong

Whenever anything goes downhill or completely wrong, you always point the finger at someone else, including your man, even if the blame is solely on you. Constantly pointing the finger and always brushing off responsibilities onto the other is a good way to slowly but surely push a man away.

5: You're Too Controlling

You have a lot of say in what he does on a daily basis, including when he sees his friends and family members. Dating a controlling woman is extremely hard for any man, and it can definitely be an ending factor. Though you two are dating, there’s no need to feel the need to have full control over each others’ lives.

6: Not Supportive

If your man had a bad day at work or is going through a stressful time in life, and you aren't the one to be his shoulder to lean on. Instead, you tell him to man up and to move on. When times get tough, even the manliest of men want a shoulder to lean on. If you don’t offer that, your man will probably seek for it elsewhere.

7: Open Criticism

Constructive and useful criticism is often welcomed by most people. However, if you’re the type of woman who will openly and publicly criticize your man, just know that you’re doing more harm than good.

8: You Don't Get Along With Others

When the two of you hang out with other people, your guy always has to worry about whether or not you will get into an argument with someone or not. You don’t play well with others and you’re not one to hide that fact. Having to constantly go out in public with the fear that you may start trouble is definitely not a good feeling for your man.

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Re: "8 Signs You're A Horrible GIRL To Date" by profstar(m): 7:48pm On Aug 05, 2013
It's not only girls, men too should watch out for this in their lives

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Re: "8 Signs You're A Horrible GIRL To Date" by Enegod(m): 8:06pm On Aug 05, 2013
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Re: "8 Signs You're A Horrible GIRL To Date" by Nobody: 11:26pm On Aug 05, 2013
8: You Don't Get Along With Others

When the two of you hang out with other people, your guy always has to worry about whether or not you will get into an argument with someone or not. You don’t play well with others and you’re not one to hide that fact. Having to constantly go out in public with the fear that you may start trouble is definitely not a good feeling for your man.
No. 8 doesn't apply to me cos I can't date a tout!

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