katchy:


when some people say sucessful women have issues, i just baffle. the truth is that when u have attained a class, there are certain things u want and that is respect, love, care, being focused and a goal getter. Now when a sucessful woman asks for this you say she is westernised, rude arrogant etc. So you would have prefered she graduates from secondary school and waits for your broke ass to marry her give her eternal orders and cheat on her with those sucessful women abi? Marriage I beleive is an eterna friendship which boils down to a lot of respect from both parties. If you respect your friends why don't you respect your woman and she respect u too. It is only inferiority complex that make men scare away from women who want to acheive greatness in life. Me i go for greatness and hig standards and no man will make me loose my tracks.

sum men gat inferior complex that they don't want a lady that is way successful than he is PERIOD

Frankies

bluespice:

the truth is, depending on which part of the world you find yourself,
an educated and successful black woman is sometimes an intimidating specter to men.
mainly because with the more degrees and achievements she's had in her life time and the age they come with,
there are fewer available (in terms of emotional availability, matching up to her high standards, etc) men for her.

na2day?:

the question should be, are the ladies willing to marry sum1 who makes less than they are making and still be willing to honor the man?

Siena:

Some successful sisters aren't married, yes. Have you actually thought of the fact some ladies don't want to get married? Being unmarried is not a disease, it doesn't detract from anyone, male or female.

In short, marriage isn't for everyone.

[PyRo]:

probably not. they would argue that the man is not man enough for them, let alone to command them.

georgeiyke009:

@all: 1st n foremost women+success+money=dynamite. psychologically dy cant handle all ds wtout it gettn into dr head,so guyz shill. dy r simply actn tru to dr nature. notn wrong in being successful as a woman but point is most of them ain't meant to b married to cuz dy cant stay under a mans roof.no big deal.guyz dz calibre of women r gud to date n party wt.wifee:naa. better to dig your own grave n bury urself.at least u r sure of d dimensions,

Siena:

Some successful sisters aren't married, yes. Have you actually thought of the fact some ladies don't want to get married? Being unmarried is not a disease, it doesn't detract from anyone, male or female.

In short, marriage isn't for everyone.

[PyRo]:

Yet these women they continue to venture out here whining about men being evil, when they're equally horrendous.

katchy:


when some people say sucessful women have issues, i just baffle. the truth is that when u have attained a class, there are certain things u want and that is respect, love, care, being focused and a goal getter. Now when a sucessful woman asks for this you say she is westernised, rude arrogant etc. So you would have prefered she graduates from secondary school and waits for your broke backside to marry her give her eternal orders and cheat on her with those sucessful women abi? Marriage I beleive is an eterna friendship which boils down to a lot of respect from both parties. If you respect your friends why dont you respect your woman and she respect u too. It is only inferiority complex that make men scare away from women who want to acheive greatness in life. Me i go for greatness and hig standards and no man will make me loose my tracks.