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Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
eldee: 1. They know of course. 2. In that case, you can't blame these women because as you have said when an illiterate is given an opportunity he'll misuse it. Why not make sure your wife is properly educated before you bring her here? if she eventually comes and takes on the bad side of the country, you can't blame anybody but yourself. Get this right! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
@uche2nna and sly see ya heads,bad boys,na only to dey fight una sabi for dis forum them no go fight so una referee work no dey needed naw ; |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Uche2nna(m): 9:01pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
amber_ella: There U go again drawing baseless conclusions |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by eldee(m): 9:05pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
michelin89:Why, if I may ask, do you assume I'm married? As I said, it's backward thinking men that practice this, my point is, you can't blame them. As I said before, when she comes here, there's a constant battle between her ethics and the exposure to the new environment. You can't control those factors An educated lady in Nigeria sees divorce as an abomination, compare them to the ones here. The norms are different, they get to meet different people, they get new ideas into their heads, and there's no soceity to correct them That's the difference. . . |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Texcee(f): 9:09pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
@nalijah I think you should change your title to "Why don't some Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad" I'm sure you have met Nigerian men with their wives in the states. It'll be like me asking - Why don't American black men recognize and take care of their children or be a father to their children. I have been in the U.S. for over 10 years and I have met too many black people whose fathers did not have any role to play whatsoever in their upbringing. I'm sure you can probably relate to this. |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by studio43(m): 9:22pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
@poster, abi u want make she begin dey see your long thing as inferior compared to that of the white men? forget story |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by debosky(m): 9:25pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
@ Uche I tire for amber oh. it is THE reason they are in no hurry to reunite? What about the kids in school? the wife's job and all that? What about the cost of a home for them to live in the US? No all those reasons are not important at all, it is simply having sex that is stopping them. One would think that men in Nigeria cannot cheat - a country where they can marry as many as they please. I guess it is IMPOSSIBLE for them to cheat in Nigeria hence the need to run to America to be able to sleep with any woman they want. I wonder how you reach these silly conclusions. |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
eldee: My "you" is generic. I can't be using the impersonal passive form all the time. 1. I'll blame them when they insist on living with their ignorance. it can't be a valid justification. 2. There are some rules that are objective and believe me no woman gains anything from destroying her marriage. I am sure making an unhappy home is not in the agenda of any wife if she hasn't herself decided to put an end to it. Tell me don't you think that those women who take on the bad sides had already decided back home to call quits as soon as they had arrived abroad? Why do you think all do what they do because of ignorance? A lot of these wives might have different plans which don't include staying married to that man when she gets there. 3. I'll rather say it's the contrary. An educated woman knows more than considering an unfruitful marriage worth her life. Unless she derives some benefits from staying with an unworthy husband and is already getting what she wants elsewhere, i don't see any educated women throwing her life away in the name of marriage. 4. Who tells you that the Americans haven't got a society? Where there are men, there is always a society. Just because they don't share your values doesn't make them less than any African society. And if I am to express my opinion, I'll say I prefer the western society simply because they don't fake. Ours is made mainly of appearance and only on the surface do strong moral standards transpire. The deeper we go the more we see that corruption and delinquency has eaten us up. Nothing so special about hypocrisy! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by buzyDiva(f): 9:35pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
debosky: sharrrrraaaaaapppppppppppppppppp jo!! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
debosky: They know say, if na America dem dey, the woman nor go wait make relatives come settle the matter. Nor be west we dey talk about? She go buzz am! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by RThESlyR: 9:47pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
buzyDiva:You too shaaarap! and stop making noise! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by nalijah07(f): 10:25pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
@ Texcee I knew I'd get one. Thanks for proving me right!! |
Re: Why Dont Nigerian Men Bring Their Wives Abroad? by squirrel20(f): 5:25pm On Jun 11, 2008 |
debosky: You are very correct |
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