Since i started dating, i have been seeing one girl that i really love and respect so much, she has really helped me tremedously and our relationship is going smoothly but lately i have been thinking what it would feel like dating other girls, are all girls the same? Are some more fun than others? I slap myself whenever this taughts fliter in cause i still love my girlfriend and would never want to hurt her after all this years. But the urge is growing stronger, i was made to understand that a majority of guys go through this phase, how do you think i should handle it?

Slap yourself harder, in fact knock yourself out, if that don't work, tell your girl to smack it out of you

It is called ojukokoro syndrome . . . Stolen water is sweet and all that

If you truly love ur girl Ya gots to keep the urge in check. . . Once you act on it, there won't be a comeback

Ro, ki o to se

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If I am with a
woman, I am only with that woman. I
have respect for her and do not cheat.
If i feel i am going to cheat i won't get in
a relationship.

Enegod: If I am with a
woman, I am only with that woman. I
have respect for her and do not cheat.
If i feel i am going to cheat i won't get in
a relationship.

of course, we should all have respect and love for our partners...but the question is when you date one person for half a decade, don't you at times get a feeling like what will other girls seem like. It's just part of life. The curiosity to try other things but yet and attachment to existing things.

Be proactive.
Get somethimg that'll kip u in check..an anchor if u like. for me, I made a promise t my girl I wnt cheat on her n I Make sure every girl I meet knws I ve one n dont intend double dating. I also ve our pix in d most conspicous place @home t serve as an extra deterrent.
As much as possible, dont fantasize abt nothing. it will only weaken ur resolve.
Faithfulness aint beans but u can choose t b amongst d select few.
All d best..

This is non-issue. Guys don't need to think on this.

Nak any time and keep ur girl, ok


What if she gets to know Simple, just apologize she'll understand

jhydebaba: This is non-issue. Guys don't need to think on this.

Nak any time and keep ur girl, ok


What if she gets to know Simple, just apologize she'll understand

that's cruel.

Also facing d same.. I also love my girl.. but its not easy