timmfikk:

@Gabrywyl, So many people also support the idea of 3-5 years over here as well i have heard of people whom their was 9 good years, so its not a big deal shey, but also some do go for a shorter year due to the age or being so close and wealthy which do end up in divorce after 4-6 years of marriage.

Yes but not for my bf's family. Their's are short term and they expect us to get married soon which I am trying to find all types of excuses to not get married so soon if possible.
Cause for us Asians, we have to ensure that we are stable enough to support ourself, our parents, our husband/wife and our children and then we can get married. Otherwise, forget about marriage cause then we will consider ourselves to be a failure in life. Thats my family culture.

dyabman:

stupid topic so far,

If the topic is stupid to you, you dont have to give any opinions. Besides, if it really sounds that stupid, there wouldn't be more than 50 posters giving their opinions about this topic in the first place. Na waaa ohhh. . , . .See yourself ohhh brotha. . .

baby4u2:

na wa timmfikk you're in nigeria telling me what i know in america. No one calls their gilfriend mom here expect its the nigerians here and i have asked all my friends cause i was surprised and they are also surprised too. YOur the one that does not know what your saying, i didnt say boyfriend don't call their girlfriend mom in naija (still doesnt mean its sexy), i said they don't say it here, maybe you should ask your people here.

Yeap sis, I'm surprise by it myself thats why I ask cause as far as I know, mothers are the one whom born you, not have sex with you. So I dont understand how can the boyfriends call their girlfriend's mom. . . . .

@Baby4u2,

I am not talking about Nigerians in the State, i am talking about black American's do not , have a mistake about my post, try and read well, and also i am still wondering why you said i am in Nigeria and i am telling you what is happening at america, please explain what that means, because i do not seems to understand any sense in that word, you don't know me and if i am somewhere else in the world saying am in NIgeria, what about it.

@Gabrywyl,
Well i believe you can talk to him, and i mean him alone he will understand you more than his family. good luck

timmfikk:

@Gabrywyl,
Well i believe you can talk to him, and i mean him alone he will understand you more than his family. good luck

Yes Tim, have done it. He knows and understands me thats why we are working on how to suit each other's needs. Its just that I find it a hosck for him to call me his wife infront of the public without me knowing it.

is dis thread still on i tot it has been thrashed out

rampant:

is this thread still on i tot it has been thrashed out

I thought so too. . . .

rampant:

is this thread still on i tot it has been thrashed out

i wonder ooooooooo

Well, maybe because some people still love this thread.






Thanks for the support guys. I couldn't have done it without you.

@Gabrywyl, Common ma'm i think you can get used to it, you're gonna be called that name forever very soon, so why not, uhmm okay with it from now till then.

@timmfikk

pls stop confusing urself and others. You said african americans called their girlfriends mom in ur post to me, after i claimed from what others where saying here that i have never heard it before. I said maybe nigerians here do that (which i have never heard and think will never hear) and not african americans. So what was i confused about or you didnt read what i said and what you then said to me. In the end my brother if you dont want me to think you're in nigeria there is no need to put ur location on ur page atleast alot of people dont. What is my crime if i think ur in nigeria telling me what i know here when ur page clearly says ur in naija. Lets not confuse you my friend, african american's do not, i repeat do not call their girlfriends mom in america.

baby4u2:

@timmfikk

please stop confusing yourself and others. You said african americans called their girlfriends mom in your post to me, after i claimed from what others where saying here that i have never heard it before. I said maybe nigerians here do that (which i have never heard and think will never hear) and not african americans. So what was i confused about or you didnt read what i said and what you then said to me. In the end my brother if you don't want me to think you're in nigeria there is no need to put your location on your page atleast alot of people don't. What is my crime if i think your in nigeria telling me what i know here when your page clearly says your in naija. Lets not confuse you my friend, african american's do not, i repeat do not call their girlfriends mom in america.

emmm,i dont quite get u on dat pls expalin,is dat nigerians dont call their babes mom in america,or some africans dont ?

@baby4u2
AA don't say "mom". they say "ma" instead.

onyinye thank you, ma no be mom. "Hey ma" doesnt that sound sexy to you? "Hey mom", how does that sound? Ma i believe is even a form of respect and it sounds sexier in their own mouth sef. @rampant i said i've never heard a nigerian calling their girlfriend mom here but i cant generalize cause i dont know all the nigerians here so i said maybe some do. But mom is not part of the slangs that guys use for girls in america. so african american's do not call their girlfriend mom here maybe some nigerians do like i said earlier.

Alright i don't need to say much more.

Well do you know what i will do to u, good i just discover that right now, i am going to make you a hajia, then we shall see how many people who will show up.hehehehe

Rampant, i believe you said some bad statement about this thread earlier so you don't need to participate or post anymore if we are to count on your word ke.

timmfikk:

@Gabrywyl, Common ma'm i think you can get used to it, you're going to be called that name forever very soon, so why not, uhmm okay with it from now till then.

Yeap. Agree Tim.

timmfikk:

Rampant, i believe you said some bad statement about this thread earlier so you don't need to participate or post anymore if we are to count on your word ke.

Exactly!

lol 'mom'

'mom, i love you, you know that right? you make me feel so whole and right now, i just want to make sweet passionate love to you, yes mom, i do'

ibkaye:

lol 'mom'

'mom, i love you, you know that right? you make me feel so whole and right now, i just want to make sweet passionate love to you, yes mom, i do'

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!



Ok sis, that sounds like ewwwww. . . .

lol, not to the guys who enjoy calling their girlfriends 'mom'

'oh mom, i love you so much, i'm so happy you're carrying my baby, what will we name him/her?'

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!




Stop it!!!

does ur bf still call u mom? what tribe is he from?

ibkaye:

lol, not to the guys who enjoy calling their girlfriends 'mom'

'oh mom, i love you so much, i'm so happy you're carrying my baby, what will we name him/her?'

mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?

blue-sky:

mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?

hehehehehe

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blue-sky:

does your boyfriend still call u mom? what tribe is he from?

blue-sky:

mummy jnr?

does he call u mom in public gabriel?

Nope, he does not call me mom anymore and he's Edo. He used to call me mom in public before but now he calls me Iyawo everywhere. Dont know why but oh well. . . .

ibkaye:

'oh mom, do me like that again baby, you know how to make a man feel just right mom, oooh aaah'

HAHAHA! Girl. . . . Wait till your guy call you mom oh. . . .

WendyRao:

Recently My Boyfriend Used to Call me "Madam" ,
Means what ,Please?


I asked him.He Smiled/replied Madam is Big Madam,

wau, am Confused,

Madam is a word usually people would addresss a female in a respectful way. Alot of people use this word when they are calling or talking to a lady. . . Geez. I dont know how to explain but overall, its good. Nothing bad in it.

gabrywyl:

HAHAHA! Girl. . . . Wait till your guy call you mom oh. . . .

God forbid such a thing

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ibkaye:

God forbid such a thing

Dont speak too soon my dear. 

WendyRao:


Madam is a word usually people would addresss a female in a respectful way. Alot of people use this word when they are calling or talking to a lady. . . Geez. I don't know how to explain but overall, its good. Nothing bad in it.

----I know that kind of basic meaning,
But I mean For him and me,In Our Relationship whether Madam means wife ,


Want laugh, Ha,

.

No, I don't think it means wife. I don't know for him but I never heard that word to mean as wife.

Ha, Laughing,