elamx: Hell No. cause the implications is more than what we guess or know at the moment.

berem: Too bad! My ex actually made my man what he is today! we are still friends because we separated without any quarrel. it was a mutual agreement that we call it quitsWhy should i then hate him?

yuzedo: if dey have big brezz, big nyash + ice cream lap, helllllll yeaaaa!!!

adconline:
Great advice for emotional wrecks who lack interpersonal skills. Marriage is not the end of life, there are still networks, alliances and friendships to be built and relied on. BTW, if you married all ur exes, by now, you would have had like 6-10 partners.

ddippset: just like taryour said, hellll noooo! a lot of people are talking bout how you should control emotions! that's why they are emotions, very hard to control. keeping in touch with an ex whom you shared a bed with is disrespectful to you partner. the mind frame of many guys is like this- you, your wife, and her ex will definitely meet up sometimes and he will always look at her and be like, men i once tapped that asz. that's how maost guys think. spare your loved, lovely and lovely husband that mental humiliation which could get vocal someday!

Crixina: where have you been?

dodgeing u. But now am bark. Sooooo wuz yo numba?

Kanwulia: I am an EXPERT in hoarding exes! I KEEP IN CLLLLLLLLLLLLOSE CONTACT WITH LIKE 10 EXES!!! .

Doctor ex. . .I get am!
PDP ex. . . I get am!
Accountant ex. . . I get am!
Pilot ex. . . I get am!
Custom official ex. . .I get am!
Pharmacy ex. . . I get am!
Professor ex. . .I get am!
They can never interfere with my married life! BUT RENDER GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD SERVICES IN AND OUT OF BED FOR FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!MUTUALLY TOO. . . GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD COMAPNIONS WHEN WE ARE ALL BORED WITH MARRIAGE. . .A QUICK WEEKEND GET-AWAY CAN BE EXHILARATING!!!!


The lady is a NOVICE!

As a married woman, what is she doing with a SINGLE ex that has 'a crib' abi na 'bunk-bed'?

I can NEVER try that! That na SERRRRRIOUS DEMOTION!!!!

Ladies!!!!! IT'S IYANYAAAAAN time!!! SHINE YA EYES O!!!!

If you wan eat BUSH-MEAT!!!! Abeg chop one with FLESH!!!!' AS A MARRRIED WOMAN OR MAN, never KEEP IN TOUCH WITH SINGLE EXES.

They have ABSOLUTELY nothing to offer!!!

I mean ABSOLUTELY NOOOOOTHING!!!

Seeing 2 of my exes next month! BOTH MARRIED!!!!

Levels please!!!! Mtcheeeeeeew!!!!

sanb: For me; that's a Hell to the NO. There's a reason why they're now you ex...i.e. in the past....if things were right, then you should've been married....

Try to keep your ex's away from your present and future relationship; especially if you're now married....to eliminate any attraction coming back; which could inevitably create problems in your current relationship....

Truckpusher: Always keep your exes closeooo....ayaf warned these boys to ensure that all relationship ends well for both parties.

You guys have no idea what it means to crash punnyless in a cold weather when your ex is just a stone throw away from you

emmanuel4fire:
This is one of the best advise I have seen so far on this thread. What you know at the moment may be different from the tail end. When you are tied to your spouse it's better you don't bring the past in. For women who are married please do totally away with your ex. When you see him at a distance just say "hi" without looking at his face. No meetings at any cool spot even if you work in same company. If you do that and you are caught not once nor twice, your man might not be happy and might develop jealousy and even cheat on you especially if he has warn you several times. It can destroy your marriage within a twinkle of an eye. Even ladies courting it's not advisable.
For men same applies. It's even worse for men because when it comes to sex and sexual emotion women has greater control than a man. "No" man cannot see his ex's uvulla and bomber in the silent and dark room and hold himself except the man is impotent. Even an importent man will kiss if he cant perform. Even a pastor will fall.
So my advise is that you stay off your ex whether on bb pinging, phone calls or whatever especially when you are married. Lust can crop in anytime when you are with him or her in that silent and cool spot.

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The General Overseer, Pastor Lazarus Muoka will be ministering in the power of the Holy Spirit.

The Lame will walk, the deaf will hear, the dumb will speak, the blind will see, yoke of barrenness or delay in marriage will break,yoke of sin will break,HIV will be healed...all sicknesses will receive technical knockout...you will be delivered from evil spirit attack upon your life. The God of the Chosen (the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob) will visit you. Come all and be blessed.
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yuzedo:
dodgeing u. But now am bark. Sooooo wuz yo numba?

snthesis: should married persons i.e the wife or husband keep in touch with exes
on the flip side keepin in touch with an ex is usually to compare with the choice made i.e scorn the person assuming the person isnt better off when you left him/her, but in the case where the person is excelling a sense of regret might set in, and if the person is a bad guy/girl, the tendency to cheat will come in.

case in point, thanx to Watzapp, my ex and i started chatting seriously, catch is she's married and wants to pay a visit to my crib- i feel its totally wrong, but this wud never have crept up if she didnt keep in touch.
there is no perfect relationship, and potential infidelity lies in wait, when a partner is unhappy and comparing the choice made with another individual with whom he/she has had past sexual engagement.

should married persons i.e the wife or husband keep in touch with exes? should married partners ban all form of communication with exes?