it depends on what causes the separation at the first instance.

For wat nw?

Try it NOT!

snthesis:
truss me, it was shined very properly, i take shining as an art

Ahh!!! That makes two of us, the more reason we should avoid our exes!

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Mr Aboki: @Topic;; Only Married Men are allowed to keep in touch with single exes..

Aboki, you sabi wetin dey!!! Take one beer for my head.

emmanuel4fire:
My friend, the truth still remains. It is very wise for a married couple to stay off his or her ex. In the short run, keeping in touch with her might mean nothing to you, but some how and some where in the long run something stupid might happen. If not you then the other will. Many see the present forgeting the long term effect and disaster it will cause.
I know of a friend who had similar issue that almost crumble her lovely home but thank God she yielded to advise and today her home is restored. Many men have been sent to their early grave because of this. I know of a village that it is forbidden. In that village if a woman sleeps with another man or have even kissing affairs by mistake with another man and sleeps with her husband the husband will be sick and if their gods is not consulted the man will die. Many men you see this days who know nothing about their tradition and are not serving God die young as a result of this. And as you know many women will not upon up to their husband after making a silly mistake. A woman from that same village in Delta state had an affair with another man and the husband died. It was when the children fell ill that she confessed ( true live story that I witnessed).
So my advise is that women should stay off their ex so as to prevent early death of their husband and likewise men stay off your ex girl.
Don't pity before you marry, marry because of love. If you love her you will guide what you have with jealousy.
Keep your ex far from you. Thanks and God bless.

this is so wrong, y shud the innocent party suffer for the crimes of the cheating partner

2ndChance:
Ahh!!! That makes two of us, the more reason we should avoid our exes!

Gbam!!!!

snthesis:
this is so wrong, y shud the innocent party suffer for the crimes of the cheating partner

It's because that's what their forefather agreed on their behalf with their gods. That's why I advise every man and woman to marry a woman you will love and trust. Don't marry because of lust and pity. If you do, and your forefathers have made such agreement with their gods in the past and you not being a child of God sleeps with her when she has cheated on you, the penalty is sickness and if nothing is done, the gods will condemn the man to death. The village I mentioned earlier on is my village. The story said happened just 2 months ago. The woman cheated on the man and the man died and the children fell ill. Though she has confessed. Thank God that I am a child of God.
Many men are victim of early death these days because they don't know what their forefathers did behind them before they were born. Like I said, and will still repeat, stay off your ex. Don't marry because of lust and pity. Marry because of love and trust.

Yes, married people should continue keeping in touch with their Ex, so that when their spouse is away or busy, the Ex can still warm the bed. This is called legalizing adultery. NONSENSE!!

2ndChance: Please avoid your ex'es like plagues o, Okafor's Law of Congodynamics is very potent

Okafor's Law of Congodynamics

C1 + P = C∞
It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C1) , it can always be shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.

In scientific circles, opinion is divided as to whether it is actually a law or just a hypothesis. There is a large body of evidence to suggest that it is a law but there are others who think it is merely a hypothesis and does not take into account other variables such as M (marital status), O (opportunity) and F (Financial status) of either one or both of the parties.

Rexphobia: Why not... If you go back to your vomit... Maybe to admire it

even dou I dnt see d reason y dey shud still be touch,it doesn't still mean dey shud be enemies....[color=#990000][/color]

you should only keep in touch with your ex if your partner is aware and is comfortable with you guys keeping in touch.....if its something you have to hide from your partner then you have to retrace your steps and tread the path carefully least you get into trouble......but personally I believe what's left in the past should stay in the past, how would you feel knowing that your partner is hooking up with their ex and having dinners with them?

My x remains my x nd nufin else shuld bind us 2geda

sally Binta: even dou I dnt see d reason y dey shud still be touch,it doesn't still mean dey shud be enemies....

not sure why to nlers, everything is black and white, they dont allow for grey.

its either your ex is bedding you or else you are enemies.

such s.tupid reasoning?

tpia@:



not sure why to nlers, everything is black and white, they dont allow for grey.

its either your ex is bedding you or else you are enemies.

such s.tupid reasoning?

or still intends to bed u

Too much nollywood,

babyosisi:

....Perhaps one should keep away from all exes tupu Latin apuo na mensa

Lol
Ur funny

I have a wife which still keeps contact with her admirer,I have warned her severally but still keep tab. what should I do? I'm so faithful to her,but if this continues,I will do otherwise.