Sugardiva: Congratulations on ur wedding. I don't mean to scare u but after reading ur updates I got to thinking. How can a Nigerian do a wedding in just 19 days? How many of his family members were in attendance? Nigerians usually do a big ceremony wit friends n family in attendance. Since he just moved to the states I was expecting he would come back to nigeria to do the wedding. Why would he choose to do a wedding with majority of his family absent?
Secondly have u spoken to this sister of his? He sounded like its important she give her blessing before he could officially propose or something which is wierd for a hausa man. I hope it is not a first wife. IMO u rilli should hv taken that trip to Nigeria before tying the knot.
Well I hope my misgivings are unfounded and u hv a happy married life.

All his family and friends in the states was there he wants to go home this summer for a wedding...the sister is his sister she is married and we talk... We have finally hit the culture difference issues living together...and there are many.