Why todays pastors interfering in relationship by hypnotizing some ladies telling them is man is not compatible spiritually for her.pls is't a duty of a pastor to find husband or guy for a lady and our ladies are not helping matter follow ur heart why must ur pastor know ur guy ,by telling u to bring him to church.please pastors in house face ur Calling leave a relationship issues,
I lost my love by this seers pastors this is my last warning to a pastor that jinx my relationship again

Why blame the pastors? They must survive na.

Blame the airheads who are not mature and too scared to make decisions about their future by themselves

@Mynd dat was harsh o
well, sorry @op, obviously u were dating one of dose females dat use religion as a crutch when it suits dem,i serzly cant imagine taking a guyz name to an alfa just coz i wan marry him,what happen to praying by urself and letting God do d rest,there is such a thing as destiny.
By d way dat is y u find so many "posh " ladies married to some dishonest babalawo, pastors or alfa, when d man sees dat dis chick wey come set wella,and she is inquiring about another guy, wont he call whatever demon he has to call to hold her down,or in d case of pastors dat cant publicly marry more dan one wife,he will simply "show her anoda level of grace".
Women really need to be carefull about this sort of situations because we usually end up being d loser/victim.

It was not harsh, it was the truth

That was how one pastor scattered my relationship of so many years, i swear if i catch that guy eh?

if I ever find out d girl I'm abt to marry first went to confirm my name with a pastor, I'd have serious doubts abt her credibility

Mynd_44: Why blame the pastors? They must survive na.

Blame the airheads who are not mature and too scared to make decisions about their future by themselves

why i will blame the pastor is that they washes this lady if u know how they backs every words with quotes, where a pastor sees vision for them and as well put fear in them.How we nigerians depend every thing to all this pastor is alarming, Reason I'm saying this is that I'm victim,a lady that I love and we are preparing a to settle down and her love is booming to the peak,trouble started as I refuse to visited the pastor and the church because he invite me to have vision if I'm the man for her which i refuse before I know it,pastor start seeing vision where a sister want to tie down by unbeliever.the same lady that loves me like mad now start seeing me a a gentile.my question still goes is pastor have power or sees vision for marriage because I still believe in the quote Proverbs 18:22 KJV
[22] Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing , and obtaineth favour of the Lord .but why our pastor complicating issues

The girl is the airhead. You just don't want to blame her cos you love her and that love is making you blind to all else.

Stop transferring the blame and see the girl as the childish person who does not trust herself enough to make decisions concerning her future