“In a two-person sexual activity, one
partner would stimulate the other,
gradually bringing them up to the point
high in the plateau phase where an orgasm
is actually building, and will then reduce
the level of stimulation to just below that
needed to trigger the orgasm_ By carefully
varying the intensity and speed of
stimulation, and by practicing with the
same partner to learn their responses, a
person can be held in the highly aroused
state near orgasm_. This process may be
repeated as desired, but at some point
repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to
become overwhelming. When a partner
eventually provides enough stimulation to
achieve an orgasm_, it may be stronger
than usual due to the increased tension
and arousal that builds up during the
extended stimulation.
Familiarity with one's partner is thought to
play an important role in helping
individuals better understand their limits in
what concerns sexual stimulation and its
intensity. This aspect of orgasm_ control is
mainly based on the idea that the entire
practice is an acquired skill. This skill can
only be developed through practice.
Generally, individuals who practice the
technique of orgasm control try it with the
same person and discover their own limits.
Knowing one's limits in this matter is
mandatory to be able to control the
amount and intensity of the sexual
stimulation so one can postpone the
orgasm__ as much as possible. Moreover,
practicing orgasm_ control with the same
partner for longer periods of time is more
likely to be more successful in achieving
the goal. The reason behind this is perhaps
the fact that the communication is more
open between partners that are familiar
with one another. Nonetheless, as orgasm_
control is an acquired skill, the technique is
usually successful if both partners are
aware of the others' limits.
On the other hand, familiarity in this matter
can be regarded from another perspective.
In order to be able to control one's
orgasm_, individuals must have a solid
knowledge of their own body and how their
body reacts at different levels of sexual
arousal. Therefore, orgasm control is also
closely connected with the familiarity
between an individual and his/her own
body. Being aware of the body's limits in
what concerns the intensity and duration of
sexual stimulation is mandatory in order to
be able to postpone climaxing. However,
this is a technique that is learned by every
person with time and which requires
consistent practice. In the end, orgasm
control is all about knowing one's own
body and it is not so much about the skills
of the partner.”


source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control

You've succeeded in saying nothing.

Thought u were gonna be specific

As in the dirty juicy details


Anyway I can't help laughing anytime I see this
'Heavenly feeling' ish

What happened to good old org.asm?

lorretta u: You've succeeded in saying nothing.

Thought u were gonna be specific

As in the dirty juicy details


Anyway I can't help laughing anytime I see this
'Heavenly feeling' ish

What happened to good old org.asm?

Lol...I have fixed it!

bad girl, what dirty juicy details did u want to c? lol