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Thoughts On Controlling Your Life And The Way You Love by ofala(m): 10:09am On Mar 11, 2009
[b]Reclaiming your lost love

Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change and the things you cannot change? Do you have the ability to
accept that other people are opt to change them, rather than you changing them? Do you accept that you are who you are,

regardless of what others think? Can you accept the many changes that take place in your life?

Talking of change,love is one of the issues in life that can change and rechanged severally.There are some factors that affect the way we love and the we take those we love

If you answered yes to one or all of these questions then you are off to the start of improving your love life. If you are willing to accept, you have the ability to laugh, even when love seemslost. For instance, if someone you really love start behaving in some unpreditable manners, you could stand back and practically turns things around positively. The push is only a threat to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the situation.

When you can accept things in life, including you and others you find a way to take control. When you are in control of your love life, it helps you to see how you can improve your love life. When you learn to accept you will learn to discover the new you.Individuality is personal, which philosophers over generalize this subject. Many people in the world believe that when we act the same way at all times, we have established our identity.This is prectically not so true, We have emotions, thoughts, behaviors, actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both good and bad. Each day we will feel something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore, when you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in emotions, which is a normal pattern of identity for this person. Unless the persons eyes change, behaviors change dramatically,and love too, friends change regularly, etc, and you are seeing common behaviors in real life living. We live in a world that desensitizes us.We continually interact with the good and not so good companies.Sometimes,things or people we believe in so deeply may dissapoint us.It the behoves us to master ways being in control of how our partners,in this instance view us.It is an act in its self to have absolute control of your love life.Some really donot have any clue how to go about this. We are surrounding by billions of influences on television, in the media, on radio, in house-holds, government, schools and so forth. Each to their own, but everyone is judging someone at some time, which is something we have to accept. We cannot change these peoples behaviors and way of thinking, but we can change the sequence and the after react to benefit us if only we know how. This is a part of learning and mastering act. The best way around the world is become your own influence and allow other influences to make someone else’s life miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful with their actions, behaviors and words. Positive reflections are the key to living happier and love healthier.Even when that love of yours goes astray.

Once you learn to positively be in control of your love life,you will be in perfect position to amend even the worst cases of love-gone-wrong. For instance, if someone makes you mad you will see the humor in his or her actions. You may see the humor in your actions if you make a mistake and feed into their stupidity.
Once you start to see the humor in life,living and loving, you will feel better inside and you will then be sychologically ready to be in control,effortlessly. We are involved in a unruly world filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept us and move on. Once you learn to change to better you, other people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective than words to encourage others to change.When it comes to your love life,there some delicate ways to handle unfavorable situations.Its a kind of mastery and takes effort to perfect it

As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to better you. In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat right, and hang out with positive influences,want to do away with that special person that had hurt you earlier,even when you know right inside of you that that you truly still feel some great unresolved binding for the preson and so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labor to achieve your goals.And of you goals may br recaliaming that love that went wrong.You still can call back the time.You still can bring him or her back to where you two were and you two can still carry on all the beautiful dreams you shared.Dont rock the boat yet.All hope is not lost,all you need to do now is to learn how to be completely in control of your live and your love life especially[/b]

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