Icherishu:

Why won't he take care of the kids? Are they not his own? Well because of christianity, we don't want to go the extreme way. Though I discussed with her that he is seriously pushing us to look for army to deal with him. Well he says he will change and we are seriously praying for him. I hope he does and may God help him.

Cathaliya: i am still looking for that agency o

Sparkle777: I ve been silently following this thread. Can I say,my hubby is also on the abusive side. I ve been receiving slaps from time to time,so when I finally got pregnant(yippy yeh). I became too careful wit my self. When he slapped me silly dat gave me severe hbp. I called my brothers to publicly beat shege out of him. One of the best tin i should have done since. He now avoids me like plague even swore never to touch me. Pls and pls to any abused wife,save money get agbero to mess up abusive hubby without his knowlegde. It will save ur life.

kreami diva:

What agency are you looking for?

Cathaliya: the ngo i can volunteer

swag queen:



Hahahaha...... once,i tried convincing him to pay stipend into my account monthly just as savings,he went about telling people that it was my mum that put me up to it.that was how i forgot that one.he makes sure i don't hold any cash on me. He shops for the kids and says since my MIL drives,she can be doing the household shopping. Even airtime for my phones come from him. Quite pathetic!

dominique: Good morning.
My people, what do you think?

Royal Roy:

I think your friend is an extremely impatient woman. if the man hasn't laid hands on her or be verbally abusive, she should have used tact and feminine genius to lure him back home....instead of trying to bully her way to her desires.

Sometimes a little patience and tact saves the day than being confrontational and aggressive!!

dominique: ... she's a troublesome type of wife, the type that chases her husband outside... .

registered:

THATS THE MAN THAT PRESSED HER NECK ALMOST TO DEATH. THIS ABUSED THREAD IS FOR HER. COME OUT AND CONFESS KOFINSKY KO, KOFSI NI. WHERE IS SENSUAL MAN?? https://www.nairaland.com/647069/all-lie

Sparkle777: I ve been silently following this thread. Can I say,my hubby is also on the abusive side. I ve been receiving slaps from time to time,so when I finally got pregnant(yippy yeh). I became too careful wit my self. When he slapped me silly dat gave me severe hbp. I called my brothers to publicly beat shege out of him. One of the best tin i should have done since. He now avoids me like plague even swore never to touch me. Pls and pls to any abused wife,save money get agbero to mess up abusive hubby without his knowlegde. It will save ur life.

dominique: Her 3 year old daughter was recounting what happened earlier in the morning. I couldn't really understand what she was saying but little I could decipher was- mummy and daddy were fighting... mummy went to take knife...daddy carried her into the bathroom and locked her there... daddy went to call Pastor...

I couldn't confront her about what I heard from her daughter. It would have been too awkward considering the source. Now with the latest turn of events, I'm forced to conclude she's a troublesome type of wife, the type that chases her husband outside. The sad thing is that its the innocent children that gets affected most in a situation like this.

Sparkle777: I ve been silently following this thread. Can I say,my hubby is also on the abusive side. I ve been receiving slaps from time to time,so when I finally got pregnant(yippy yeh). I became too careful wit my self. When he slapped me silly dat gave me severe hbp. I called my brothers to publicly beat shege out of him. One of the best tin i should have done since. He now avoids me like plague even swore never to touch me. Pls and pls to any abused wife,save money get agbero to mess up abusive hubby without his knowlegde. It will save ur life.

LaShawn:

Yes. That is why I can relate with others who have been in such situations and when they hear mine, they'd also exclaim about How similar my case was to theirs.

Infant, I saw this with a roomie I had. I could see what happened to me happening to her too. The guy was behaving in a way that was very similar to my ex. Infact, without her confiding in me, I knew the guy was abusive.

I told her my story, hoping she'd pick one or two lessons. Alas, She went ahead with the marriage. She even told us that the love was now very sweet as the guy had gotten a job in an oil company. The guy succeeded in alienating her from her brother who brought her up before the wedding and She was actually supporting the guy over the brother. Suddenly, to her, her brother was up to No good. All Because of a guy She met over the social network.
I was just looking at her, Because after all I've been through, I can't pick a man over my family. My family have been there for twenty something years, loving me and Seeing to my well-being.

Anyways, they got married and from the honeymoon, trouble! Of Course She didn't confide in me. But the person She told told me.

For the honeymoon, they lodged in a beautiful hotel in lag for a few days. This guy would Sleep with her roughly with his huge manhood. At night, in the mornings and he'd also come back for more during his breaks from work, as he was also working during the honeymoon. She dared not complain of pains as he bluntly told her it cannot be painful, that after all, She wasn't a virgin bride.

Probably Because of the rough sex, She got an infection and started Seeing drops of blood after urinating.
When She told him, he told her to get herself cured before he got back from work or else, he'd return her back to where he got her from.
He told her if he gets infected, she'd be in for it. That How won't She get infections when She was always sleeping around.
She was always being harassed and abused and insulted. I won't be surprised he beat her too. A few weeks after wedding, She was already envying single girls.

LaShawn:

Yes. That is why I can relate with others who have been in such situations and when they hear mine, they'd also exclaim about How similar my case was to theirs.

Infant, I saw this with a roomie I had. I could see what happened to me happening to her too. The guy was behaving in a way that was very similar to my ex. Infact, without her confiding in me, I knew the guy was abusive.

I told her my story, hoping she'd pick one or two lessons. Alas, She went ahead with the marriage. She even told us that the love was now very sweet as the guy had gotten a job in an oil company. The guy succeeded in alienating her from her brother who brought her up before the wedding and She was actually supporting the guy over the brother. Suddenly, to her, her brother was up to No good. All Because of a guy She met over the social network.
I was just looking at her, Because after all I've been through, I can't pick a man over my family. My family have been there for twenty something years, loving me and Seeing to my well-being.

Anyways, they got married and from the honeymoon, trouble! Of Course She didn't confide in me. But the person She told told me.

For the honeymoon, they lodged in a beautiful hotel in lag for a few days. This guy would Sleep with her roughly with his huge manhood. At night, in the mornings and he'd also come back for more during his breaks from work, as he was also working during the honeymoon. She dared not complain of pains as he bluntly told her it cannot be painful, that after all, She wasn't a virgin bride


Him being rough eas unexcusable, even if she was a former prostitute. If he wanted a virgin, why did he marry her.
My husband started that way early in the marriage. The description was almost identical. I had to beg him to let my body heal many times throughout the day, not even week. I thought he was ovet excited or impatient. I never understood why he did it.


Probably Because of the rough sex, She got an infection and started Seeing drops of blood after urinating.
When She told him, he told her to get herself cured before he got back from work or else, he'd return her back to where he got her from.
He told her if he gets infected, she'd be in for it. That How won't She get infections when She was always sleeping around.
She was always being harassed and abused and insulted. I won't be surprised he beat her too. A few weeks after wedding, She was already envying single girls.

Sparkle777: I ve been silently following this thread. Can I say,my hubby is also on the abusive side. I ve been receiving slaps from time to time,so when I finally got pregnant(yippy yeh). I became too careful wit my self. When he slapped me silly dat gave me severe hbp. I called my brothers to publicly beat shege out of him. One of the best tin i should have done since. He now avoids me like plague even swore never to touch me. Pls and pls to any abused wife,save money get agbero to mess up abusive hubby without his knowlegde. It will save ur life.

IgboWifeUSA: My husband was also rough during s*E*X early in the marriage. I had to beg him many times a day to let my body heal. He would still insist on having his way instead of waiting. Pretending to be asleep didnt help either. I never understood the concept behind this.

kofsy:
Registered, is this you?