I’m 23 years old and have been in an honest, mature relationship with my amazing and sweet boyfriend for six months....


We are very compatible and it’s likely that we’ll end up moving in together in the next year or so. A few weeks ago, I got to meet his sister, who is two years younger than us and the person he’s closest to in his family. Man, was I in for a surprise!

Not only did they hug each other tightly for almost a full five minutes when we met her at the airport, but he constantly had his arm around her or was holding her hand (and sometimes mine, simultaneously). The “pet name” that he calls me turned out to be a variation on his nickname for her. He even called her by my nickname and me by hers several times.

He honestly looked distraught when he had to choose which one of us to sit next to. It was strange because many of his flirtatious moves, like play wrestling, tickling, picking me up, etc. were also things that he did with her! It felt….bizarre.


On top of this, his sister exhibits signs of anorexia that my boyfriend refuses to notice. A meal for her consists of an orange or a handful of crackers, and she’s super skinny, weighing 105 lbs at 5’7″. In the past, my boyfriend has mentioned that while he knows that it’s unhealthy for women to be so thin, he’s really attracted to the wispy, thin women. He may have been trying to compliment me, since I myself am fairly thin, but I can’t help but feel like his sister has something to do with it.


Do you think I am just being paranoid and jealous about the way he treats and looks at his sister, or do you think there’s something strange like I do? I’m worried that if we see much of his sister, I may be at risk of developing an eating disorder myself (I’ve had some borderline problems in the past). What should I do?
see her escaped pic of her boyfriend below:
source http://www.revealzones.com/2013/09/wierd-man-kiss-his-sister-to-make-his.html