Ishsoph:
50Cal abeg save your breath.
Ayaf tried
You need to read the back and forth post between me and him.







We give up, in the words of yuzedo!

Nwokem.. Dont blame me.. Blame the circumstances of my birth society..

But seriously, I want 6 kids sha.. I understand all your fears and I believe that the least of my owrries if the Love I will show them. I am more concerned about the finances involved in raising children in our present economy.. With private schools tution now as high as 300,000 - 1,000,000 sef for just kindergarten education, talkless of Nursery, Primary, Secondary and Uni..

If I get like 1 billion Dollars now in a Jackpot.. Not even the gods can deny me my half dozen children o!


Imagine having 6 children to send message..

<sub>Chi-Chi!! Go and buy me shuff from Iya Karos shop. Anayo!! Go and dress my room. Ebere.. Go to the shop and bring me the salesbook for yesterday. Okafor!!! Go and wash my car. Apollos! go to the bank and deposit the money from yesterdays sales..

Where is Alphonsus!!! Stand here and wait while I think of the message to send you!</sub>

mz mariah: I don't want to make a mistake. I don't want to marry the wrong person. It scares me a lot

notinmege:

May God Almighty pour his grace upon you, strengthens you and bless you with a peaceful marriage simply because of your truthfulness, Amen!

Mynd_44: Why fear when I can always opt out?

k2039: Marriage done turn molue

Matthew briggs: Nothing really my parents have proved to me that marriage is indeed beautiful. They've set the benchmark and example for me to improve upon.

I use to be afraid that I'll marry the the wrong person but I discovered my footsteps are ordered by God and so far my life to this point has been ordained by him.

I use to be afraid that'll I fall out of love and cheat on her due to the numerous transformation her body will go through over time due to child birth and stress. But I have to come realize that beauty is just a skin deep and the real value of a woman is her companionship and the beauty that eminates from her soul. Presently when I like a lady I usually picture her at different stages of her life, pregnacy, child birth, monopause, even till old age. The more I do, the more I get to fall in love.

I think long term . Because I believe the future belongs to those who see it.
Therefore I am hustling hard against the future I see, preparing my mind, soul and pocket for Mrs. Matthew. As a a helpless romantic, I can't wait to to shower her with love, I can't wait for our romantic vacation, waking up to see her face, the surprise birthday parties I'll host for her, the exquisite dishes I will learn how to cook just to surprise her. I can't wait to have her as my beautiful distraction, a face I come home to after facing the stress of managing my multi billion dollar business empire.

I fantasize about Matthew jnr, he's first day at school, steps I will take to always be there for him and various father- son discussion I'll have with him in a bid to prepare him for this world. I can't wait to to welcome my Ada, to to become her first love, setting the bar high for her prince charming and helping as she navigates through life.

I also imagine the quarrels and the fights me and my Mrs will have, I am practising my three magic words "baby am sorry" and learning how not to allow my ego cloud my sense of of judgement.

I am not afraid of marriage, Instead look forward to it. As I do am learning to put my body under my subjection, to comtrol my desires and with shears I prune out every selfishness to implant selflessness.

I know when the time is ripe the constellations will fall in place, the sun will stand still, and the rings of destiny shall trade hands.

Till then I live my life building my dreams... One day at a time.

#Matthew Briggs.

Billyonaire: You are unfaithful, woman also is unfaithful. This is because life itself is unfaithful. Prepare for heartbreaks and take the giant step, expect unfaithfulness and be happy if you dont get to know cos it happens.

ogugua88: Fear of the unknown. Will it be happy? Will it be complicated? Will it fail? It's that next huge chapter in life, and you don't know what it looks like. You hear advice and stories from others who are there or been there, but they're not even that pertinent as every couple and marriage is different. Plus there are bills, possibly preparing for children, and all sorts of pressures to worry about. It makes you wonder if you could ever be ready.

All you can do is put to use all that you've learned in life, and have faith in yourself and your partner... and make sure you marry for love.

make sure you keep your husband sexually satisfied.....

Mynd_44:
The truth is that people can't be trusted to remain the same and a lot of em pretend during courtship.

Thank God for the people who invented divorce

Ngokafor: Awwww!..@Mathew B nice one and may God grant you your hearts desire.Your future wife is a lucky lady cos you'll make a good husband.

sanniemoe: I fear if I would ever get married. Dont even have a gf,mean not dated anyone in like 2years...
I'm not the very patient type and I hold on to things alot,especially words that reminds me of ugly past..
I fear I might not be good enough
I fear being broke in marriage
I fear any situation that can lead to divorce
I fear greed
I fear crowd ( I HATE CROWD with a passion)

A live in lover is fine by me for now but marriage is a no no no at this point. ...

sexymoma: Giving Birth, Cooking for someone else, Everyday s3x.

sexymoma: Giving Birth, Cooking for someone else, Everyday s3x.

Matthew briggs:

Amen.

Wu Zetian: I should stop being a hater and like Mathew Briggs' post. The dude is a hopeless romantic. (in a good way)

emmezzy: if these are your reasons,then u not a woman.

dasparrow:

Why would you say that to her? You think that it is every woman that enjoys someone ramming something as hard as an erect p8nis into her private part all the time? Or you think there are no risks involved in child birth? Do you know how many Nigerian women loose their lives yearly during child birth? You think all women are passionate about spending hours on their tired feet slaving away in the kitchen?

Let's face it, marriage does not benefit the woman most times. I wonder why ladies allow themselves to be talked into that modern day slavery known as marriage especially Nigerian/African marriages where the woman is instantaneously transformed into a baby making machine, a glorified housemaid and sex machine with no voice of her own and who has to tolerate all her husband's excesses and infidelity. None of my female kids will marry from Nigeria/Africa. I don't want them to start looking older than their age once they get married.