Guys with the economic situation of things.Can you marry a girl that is not working.Just finished University or just finished Secondary school and probably earning 10k a month working.
Guys can you?Ladies can you assuming it were a man?

Kirinwa: Guys with the economic situation of things.Can you marry a girl that is not working.Just finished University or just finished Secondary school and probably earning 10k a month working.
Guys can you?Ladies can you assuming it were a man?

How can?

Personally i cant, i cant even date a pest talk more of getting married to one

O boi.....That's liability na.

O boi.....That's liability na. Not in this ENDTIME.

Not really sha but 10k can go a long way o

10K a month is still money.
I can if she is ambitious and share same/similar vision to mine.

Having a criteria to only date equal should be discouraged IMO.
I'm not saying people should go out and date no-hopers but personally as a human being, I'm guided by the value of "helping others when/where i can". I've lived my life based on this basic principle and have always made sure i actively encourage whomever I'm with to achieve their respective full potential.

Like you said in the other thread, 'give people a chance' =p. If the individual didn't pursue post-secondary and is just sitting idle with no job or income coming in, then that would be a different story. But if he/she just finished post-sec and is working, that's still an accomplishment. You can't expect someone to finish college/uni and be making big mula right away. You gotta start from somewhere.

Yield: Like you said in the other thread, 'give people a chance' =p. If the individual didn't pursue post-secondary and is just sitting idle with no job or income coming in, then that would be a different story. But if he/she just finished post-sec and is working, that's still an accomplishment. You can't expect someone to finish college/uni and be making big mula right away. You gotta start from somewhere.

Girl,I really like your depth in reasoning.Am not saying its not possible neither do I assuage the inherent challenges.
Most times I feel we resonate on the same frequency.What do you think?

Kirinwa: Guys with the economic situation of things.Can you marry a girl that is not working.Just finished University or just finished Secondary school and probably earning 10k a month working.
Guys can you?Ladies can you assuming it were a man?

I can marry a dependent girl that has just finished university but depending on my pocket and the fact that she'll be a graduate looking to secure a job in the long run

But just finishing secondary school?... God forbid.. I be senator yerima for your eye ni?

carujmonella:

I can marry a dependent girl that has just finished university but depending on my pocket and the fact that she'll be a graduate looking to secure a job in the long run

But just finishing secondary school?... God forbid.. I be senator yerima for your eye ni?

lol at Senator Yerima analysis.I meant if the girl was atleast 20 years old.

It all depends on her ambition. She might be dependent today and can be independent tomorrow. If she is chasing something and she has the prospects, yes. But if she is lazy and not willing to get out of her comfort zone, hell no

sunny t:

How can?

Personally i cant, i cant even date a pest talk more of getting married to one

How do you mean? If you think you are loaded and cannot marry a lady because of her present financial situations, you are nobody.
If I love a lady, even if it is 5k she earns and I truly love her, I will marry her and help her stand. It is your duty as a man to fend for your wife and build her to your taste.
For me yes, in as much as we love each other, I will create an avenue to make her comfortable and build her up.
You cannot because of a lady's present condition throw her away. Do you know her destiny? If she is educated and humble and a virtues woman, yes every other thing can follow.I will have her even without a job. What if you marry that lady today with fat salary and tomorrow she is out of job, will you throw her away? What if you marry that man with billions today and tomorrow, nothing again, will you throw him away? Be wise when you are talking about love and money.

andyanders:

How do you mean? If you think you are loaded and cannot marry a lady because of her present financial situations, you are nobody.
If I love a lady, even if it is 5k she earns and I truly love her, I will marry her and help her stand. It is your duty as a man to fend for your wife and build her to your taste.
For me yes, in as much as we love each other, I will create an avenue to make her comfortable and build her up.
You cannot because of a lady's present condition throw her away. Do you know her destiny? If she is educated and humble and a virtues woman, yes every other thing can follow.I will have her even without a job. What if you marry that lady today with fat salary and tomorrow she is out of job, will you throw her away? What if you marry that man with billions today and tomorrow, nothing again, will you throw him away? Be wise when you are talking about love and money.

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My sister, it makes me sick when people look down on their fellow human being because of money. Nobody is dependent anyone unless God.

You can have that good job today and tomorrow, you have none. Will you look down on your lady because she has nothing? Hell NO. She is just a blessing to help we men stay alive. It is because of the present situation we are in because of the economic crises that we drag women up and down for them to start creating wealth. I am not against it but they should be respected and be helped to stand. From the bible portion, it is the duty of a man to take care of his wife and children, and the duty of a woman to take love her husband and to help him.
Whereby a man has to wake up and start killing her and looking at her as a burden to him is nonsense of him because that woman is a helper and not a provider.
A woman is a helper while a man is a provider and whereby a man is not ready to carry his responsibility while looking at his wife as a way out is just a lazy man and men who has been writing here that ' they cannot marry a woman that earn 10k or whatever, are fools to themselves. I advise them to grow up and stop looking at a women as their bread winners rather a helper or supplements to the nutrients to help build their lives.

am i marrying her for the money or the love?if i get married to her am marrying her for love and not for her money so i don't care if she collects 10000 per month or even one naira per month what i care about is the woman that will make me have reasons to smile for the rest of my life wetin i wan use her money do?more over am the man so i should be the one fully responsible for the family,!!!and thats why i shake my head for some stupid guys that force theirself to marriage when they know that they cannot take the responsibility!!!i know someone will want to quote me and say is the woman not supposed to be financially okay so she can support,well i pray that i will never and by GOD grace i will never be in that situation where i will be expecting the woman i marry to assist in taking care of my own financial responsibilities in the house as a man!!!GOD forbid,thats why am working hustling reall good for my cash!!!!!yeah i said it my cash and not your cash!!!!!

If are working for someone you can be sacked or if you are employed you can be sick or be handicapped in such a manner you may need her assistance.Never maarry with your attitude because once you inculcate it in her its very hard to breaak.I will assume you are still single.

am i marrying her for the money or the love?if i get married to her am marrying her for love and not for her money so i don't care if she collects 10000 per month or even one naira per month what i care about is the woman that will make me have reasons to smile for the rest of my life wetin i wan use her money do?more over am the man so i should be the one fully responsible for the family,!!!and thats why i shake my head for some stupid guys that force theirself to marriage when they know that they cannot take the responsibility!!!i know someone will want to quote me and say is the woman not supposed to be financially okay so she can support,well i pray that i will never and by GOD grace i will never be in that situation where i will be expecting the woman i marry to assist in taking care of my own financial responsibilities in the house as a man!!!GOD forbid,thats why am working hustling reall good for my cash!!!!!yeah i said it my cash and not your cash!!!!!