I had to be in Ibadan for an exam, and at the centre I met this girl and i all but fell for her immediately.
we spent the whole day talking, i got to know a lot about her.
Now I am back home (Akure), and communicating with her feels strange, I don't know how to talk to her.
I have never really dated a Nigerian, and I don't know anything about nollywood, comedians, or musicians.
I have no conversation topics, for the first time ever I have no idea how to talk to a girl I really like.

can anybody help me with some topics, or a way for me to get back into naija stuff so we can have something to talk about.

buh u said u7 spent d whole day talkin what else u want again . do am as before

screenagerjoe: buh u said u7 spent d whole day talkin what else u want again . do am as before

Lol! True! You can rehash all those things you spent all day talking to her about. You can stretch it as far as it could go.

Yeah I guess so

Dude, take it easy....its really easy..just be confident and dont be a wimp....you guys can talk about anything as long as a bit of sexuality is involved...would have said meet with her face to face cos body language is the key factor in sedution...but since u re far...u have to call her, avoid texting..it hinders everything....

Huh Wen did u meet me?

U said, u've neva dated a Nigerian girl. Who have u bin dating? A Congolese

Reney you got me worried there for like a second lol...

And I have dated 2 English girls(one black).. And 1 Ukrainian girl.

What do you mean by ss2 students?

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I think you just need to relax, you're trying too hard to get the same excitement you had the first time and that's what's cramping your style. Relax, and let things flow naturally, might be weird at first but you'll eventually find your pace.

fuzzyrambler: I don't know anything about nollywood, comedians, or musicians.

can u help me with some topics, or a way for me to get back into naija stuff

P.S If all else fails, just direct the above question at her and I'm sure that should get things going.

hit the nail on the head!
stop beating about the bush, I get tired of prolonged convo when the REAL intents are sidelined.
when you know where you are going, the 'how' of getting there will surely generate discussion topics

Call her and ask how her day was. Don't even settle for a 'fine', ask for details.
Girls can be chatterboxes once they get attention. Just say you like listening to her talk, and she'll provide every topic yoj need to discuss about.
You know there is such a thing as digressing

Here for example..
She talks about her dress, and you ask if she'd like to go into the fashion industry someday. Her fav designers, and yours can be discussed.

She brings up her family, and you ask what growing up was like. Friends, nutty things she did as a kid. Where she wished she lived, dream vacation spots etc.

If she talks about trouble on the road getting to her destination, then you can discuss Nigeria n corruption...This topic can never be exhausted. Throw in America, UK and even Ghana into the convo.

Food? You can go all local and continental dishes.

Geez there are a zillion things to discuss just relax, picture her like you are together again like the first time you met and let things flow naturally

uj_sizzle: Call her and ask how her day was. Don't even settle for a 'fine', ask for details.
Girls can be chatterboxes once they get attention. Just say you like listening to her talk, and she'll provide every topic yoj need to discuss about.
You know there is such a thing as digressing

Here for example..
She talks about her dress, and you ask if she'd like to go into the fashion industry someday. Her fav designers, and yours can be discussed.

She brings up her family, and you ask what growing up was like. Friends, nutty things she did as a kid. Where she wished she lived, dream vacation spots etc.

If she talks about trouble on the road getting to her destination, then you can discuss Nigeria n corruption...This topic can never be exhausted. Throw in America, UK and even Ghana into the convo.

Food? You can go all local and continental dishes.

Geez there are a zillion things to discuss just relax, picture her like you are together again like the first time you met and let things flow naturally

All these with how much airtime? You wan wreck the guy?

Mynd_44:
All these with how much airtime? You wan wreck the guy?

It doesn't have to happen at once na. I just supplied pointers for discussions shikena. Btw call rates are cheap now, and guys enjoy talking to girls they are interested in for long periods.

Mynd_44:
All these with how much airtime? You wan wreck the guy?

Lol!


They can chat about all na. .like maybe WhatsApp

uj_sizzle:
It doesn't have to happen at once na. I just supplied pointers for discussions shikena. Btw call rates are cheap now, and guys enjoy talking to girls they are interested in for long periods.

UJ, kindly drop more