CARUSO:

eeya
oh well i guess the waiting game continues
where u get this your username from?
na coil cylinder wey me i sabi, which one be spiked one again?!haha
una no go kill person for this Nairaland!!!

Yea. . . you wait, I wait, god no go vex.
As per my username, leave story for cinema.

@ smooooooth

yh everyone is human and gets tempted but it is up to us to not fall for it. thinkin of sexing someone is temptation then it is a sin if u actually hav sex wit the person. there are even thoughts that are not really u and d devil temption u, lol. serious.

love has nothing to do with lust.u can definitely love someone and cheat on them.

maybe people should just have self control!

onyinye2 says

hmmm, now that i think about it . . . NO. you didnt love that girl. cause if you did, you wouldnt betray her trust in you and go and start messing with another woman. and mind you said it "shows i liker her" you didnt say love.

let's not assume and say that ONLY men cheat, plenty of women cheat, in fact that girl that the man cheated with is ALSO enabling him to cheat, so to me she is as much of a cheat as he is, even if the skank is single, she is a homebreaka, AND a cheat!

NL threads get stupider stupider.

How can you loff someone then go out of your ways just to hurt that person? That is what I call being unfaithful!

Wat kind of question/topic is that?

Heeeeelll nooooooooooooooo!!! Haba!

in love there is rules which include thou shall not cheat no matter the excuse.

I do believe you can like someone a lot and cheat, but call me a typical female if you wish but I don't believe that you can love someone and cheat on them. With this I will also say a lot of people don't know true love when it's right infront of them, and after making 'the mistake' they often feel a wave of guilt and disgust (the non-players that is).

Now, here is my question, imagine, now really try to imagine , if every two people in a relationship had a passport type of document for their relationship, and everytime someone cheated a stamp was placed automatically under no. of times cheated on partner,  Automatically, magically, mystically whatever, this is only an analogy after all  ,  But if you knew that once you'd cheated it would be stamped forever on your card, your partner could see it, it'd be with you everywhere you go, throughout the whole of the relationship, after marriage, after kids, after everything! Would as many people cheat? The basic question is ' Would people cheat as much if they knew they would ALWAYS, 100% get caught" I don't think so. This relates to my idea that people cheat because they think they can get away with it, that there is a chance their partner will forgive them. The people who cheat often exploit the imbalance of love in the relationship, they know their partner loves them more than they love their partner so worst comes to worst, they know that there is still a chance that the partner cannot bare to lose them and so forgives them.

For me I don't think it has any thing to do with the other party,

It definitely has to do with taking care of Ur own personal issues than any thing else. . . . .

if u love somebody, u will not do anything that would hurt him or her.

eudio:

if u love somebody, u will not do anything that would hurt him or her.

False!!

if u really love someone and they love you in return, then no one will cheat. but how can u love a man or woman and they dont love u in return? how do u cope with a spouse that neglects u, nags you, complains about almost everything you do, doesnt give you attention and all that? check it! 60% of people who cheat dont really cheat because of sex, they r trying to fill a void in their hearts.

love is a two way thing. when the other person isnt feeling it and doesnt have the will power to take it, the next thing is to go outside to fill the void.

if you love ur spouse you wont cheat on them
coz boi if ma man cheat on me no long ting
take your damn wedding RING simple equation abi

Dis cheating thing depends on situations. OK, what happens in a long distance relationship n they havent seen each other for like 2 years? D guy may just be sleepin with other person(s) just to keep body n soul together (at least dats what they say), but his heart is still with the other girl. And of course, he does it codedly so she never finds out. You know what they say, what u dont know cant hurt you. (Not entirely true sha)

You can love some1 and still cheat on 'em.
Love doesn't guarantee faithfulness.

Missy B:

You can love someone and still cheat on 'em.
Love doesn't guarantee faithfulness.

so what guarantees faithfulness

Aside AIDs, that's the one thing man is still trying to find out.

i didnt really read the whole post but my answer to the title is yes, my rationale - no matter how much you love rice (for example), you must eat eba, amala, yam etc, the fact that u eat chocolate or biscuit or whatever else, doesn't mean you dont love rice, u get my drift?

however, u cant say u love rice but eat it once a yr, as u cant neglect something you love (even if it is bad for u, if u think I'm lying, ask smokers!)

I didn't blame people that cheat, Reason is that,u may find it diffcult for you to mess her up, just for the sake of love or you want her to belive sex is not all you want from her, in this case you will find it diffcult to hold body, Body No Bi Wood.

You need to service some part of your Body, [img]

Aunty Mary:

i didnt really read the whole post but my answer to the title is yes, my rationale - no matter how much you love rice (for example), you must eat eba, amala, yam etc, the fact that u eat chocolate or biscuit or whatever else, doesn't mean you dont love rice, u get my drift?

however, u cant say u love rice but eat it once a yr, as u cant neglect something you love (even if it is bad for u, if u think I'm lying, ask smokers!)

this is not right and you know it. i cant believe a woman think this way.

aunty mary is a total idiot. one of the stupidest analogies of all time.

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[quote
author=smooooooth]i have been in love and cheated b4, so it doesnt
follow that you dont love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of
town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed
and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation,
which makes me human. so i dont agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, so are u all
gonna tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before,
the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust(
which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others
[/quote]U told ur girlfriend.Mine said the lady was just unclad with him&that she is his friend.Na dat lie scatter us oooooooo!

what the fork is this person talking about casting spells

NA JAZZ?

rili detest cheatin n been cheatd on. Cheatin is simply lack of respect n lov for ur partner

smooooooth:
i have been in love and cheated b4, so it doesnt follow that you dont love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation, which makes me human. so i dont agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, so are u all gonna tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before, the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust( which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others

Yea you right, I guess if she cheats on you too u would still understand she loves u

smooooooth:
i have been in love and cheated b4, so it doesnt follow that you dont love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation, which makes me human. so i dont agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, so are u all gonna tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before, the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust( which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others

Yea you right, I guess if she cheats on you too, u would still understand she loves u