3months

happyjuliet:
3months

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You can wait to have sex as long as you can. Truth is most people are not spiritually disciplined or they lack self control!

Blackbeauty:
life ,experience and common sense has showed me that the no sex before marriage rule is pure deceit.how can u vouch that he was faithful..?all those coming here to say I dated my husband for 20yrs,no sex,we are happy,he had self control bla bla bla..av been there done that!all na wash.I had an ex who agreed to it, till I discovered he had a babe in calabar he was knacking steady..so it is a personal thing..and I cannot risk marrying a man who cannot perform or satisfy me cos I want to stay married,without craving for another .. its a sin yes..after marriage we will pray for forgiveness..and most of those men whose wives are coming here to brag are pretenders..I know married men who are holy at home but have girlfriends outside to fulfill their fantasies that they can't discuss with their holy wife.. at least doing it before marriage will help u know what drives him wild. I will never forget what my uncle told me.."my dear,am a man..the number one way to keep your husband is to be a freak in bed ...forget food and manners". So the fact that it led to marriage does not mean the man is faithful or a saint cos a man who is good at cheating will cover his tracks well.finally for a person who has been having sex to cope without it is not so easy so just quit d stresss. all sin na sin abeg

Thank you for your write up, ur smart, ur loyal, I love you........I wish I can dash u money like dj khaled to buy dt ur uncle a house.u spoke the ugly truth, our generation is caught in between religion and modern life.Too much pretence.