I Was just wondering,what d big deal is about this 'se><'of a thing.The way people attach much importance to it as if their life depends on it.In my opinion,Being in a relationship is an avenue where u share ur dreams,visions,pains,worries,joy and many more things with someone.I feel there's more to a relationship than se><.''Love is in no way synonymous with se><''.Whats ur opinion abt this?

you are absolutely right. relationshp should be a way of love sharing and knowing each other the more. one of the many things that can ruin a relationshp is s*x because of lost of value thereafter and a host of other negative implication. I strongly belong to team-abstainance.

Alexk2: you are absolutely right. relationshp should be a way of love sharing and knowing each other the more. one of the many things that can ruin a relationshp is s*x because of lost of value thereafter and a host of other negative implication. I strongly belong to team-abstainance.

Thanks Alexk2,very much well said.

Sure. Sex in relationship will only reduce if not removing the value you have for your ptner. As for me, I and my Ayomide will never do that until we are married.

That's How Relationships Are!

IamValiant: Sure. Sex in relationship will only reduce if not removing the value you have for your ptner. As for me, I and my Ayomide will never do that until we are married.

thanks 4 ur contribution.U're ryt,sex devalues a relationship.Good 2 know u're determined 2 wait until marriage

timwezzb: That's How Relationships Are!

Thanks.But am talking abt sex in a relationship,ur comments are welcome.

cutiepie01: I Was just wondering,what d big deal is about this 'se><'of a thing.The way people attach much importance to it as if their life depends on it.In my opinion,Being in a relationship is an avenue where u share ur dreams,visions,pains,worries,joy and many more things with someone.I feel there's more to a relationship than se><.''Love is in no way synonymous with se><''.Whats ur opinion abt this?

Thank you sister, you are right and let me tell you i have been in a sexless relationship and i never bothered much on intimate affairs, my gf told me i should be a man that girls need sex more than men.

cutiepie01: In my opinion,Being in a relationship is an avenue where u share ur dreams,visions,pains,worries,joy and many more things with someone.I feel there's more to a relationship than se><.

You are right, there is more to relationship than just s*x. A wise man once said that - revenge is for the weak - forgive is for the strong - ignore is for the intelligent. It takes intelligence for a grown man to ignore s*x. As quoted above, when a girl don't share her dreams etc that means she's in for two things alone, ur cash and s*x (good for dating only), but the one that shares the above, means she's in for it i.e serious, though it is said that s*x is the foundation of a relationship (only when the babe is not a virgin o). If u and ur partner shares the above, one day u both will express the 'love feel' to each other by making love (not having s*x) passionately, and that can occur once, twice or thrice per year.

S*x no be food, if u make s*x a priority u'll turn out getting married for s*xual satisfactory (which is supposed to be the least of ur worries). Thank u.

Emzybrown:
Thank you sister, you are right and let me tell you i have been in a sexless relationship and i never bothered much on intimate affairs, my gf told me i should be a man that girls need sex more than men.

Thanks 4 ur contribution Emzybrown.Am glad 2 know we still have people who will stand irrespective of d societal odds.

cutiepie01: Thanks.But am talking abt sex in a relationship,ur comments are welcome.

I don't think SEX in a RELATIONSHIP is Good coz it After SEX the Respect for Each will not be as Strong like b4 so 2 me is not a good idea...............

timwezzb:

I don't think SEX in a RELATIONSHIP is Good coz it After SEX the Respect for Each will not be as Strong like b4 so 2 me is not a good idea...............

well said timwezzb,it really devalues a r.ship.There wont be respect as it used 2 be.The more sex ppl av in r.ships,d more d ppl involved loose respect 4 each oda,especially d girl.

cutiepie01: well said timwezzb,it really devalues a r.ship.There wont be respect as it used 2 be.The more sex ppl av in r.ships,d more d ppl involved loose respect 4 each oda,especially d girl.

Yh coz After SEX he will not think of Marrying Her at the end of the day coz He'll think that His not the Only One......

timwezzb:

Yh coz After SEX he will not think of Marrying Her at the end of the day coz He'll think that His not the Only One......

exactly!

Hmm,my own two kobo of the topic...We r emotional human n sometimes we lose it,we wanna have da sexual feeling n to us it makes more sense,hardly u see a guy who is in a r/ship n doesn't have sex,it creates bond between the parties involved,its rare these days but truth be told,the basic essence of r/ship is 2 get along,share aspirations,goals n interests n if its worth it then u can take it 2 d next level not a craddle 4 intimacy but d question is this, how many people believe in such thot n can manage such excesses? Personally, I don't see myself in a sexless r/ship,its an emotional torture cos I luv enjoying it buh if u don't do such,no biggie,keep it up till u walk down d aisle

@OP ur username tho 'CUTIEPIE' is sexy n munchy, what does one do with pie? Taste it n if its sweet,u eat it like it is. Just saying tho

Dubemkelly: Hmm,my own two kobo of the topic...We r emotional human n sometimes we lose it,we wanna have da sexual feeling n to us it makes more sense,hardly u see a guy who is in a r/ship n doesn't have sex,it creates bond between the parties involved,its rare these days but truth be told,the basic essence of r/ship is 2 get along,share aspirations,goals n interests n if its worth it then u can take it 2 d next level not a craddle 4 intimacy but d question is this, how many people believe in such thot n can manage such excesses? Personally, I don't see myself in a sexless r/ship,its an emotional torture cos I luv enjoying it buh if u don't do such,no biggie,keep it up till u walk down d aisle

The fact is once you start having premarital s.ex it becomes difficult to stop unless you find a more fulfilling reason not to u will so abuse s.ex that it won't be fulfiling after a period of time, its not about thte Thou shall nots....but about your happiness and freedom in and out of that relationship
The herd mentality is to let the instincts dictate......

Oni Suru apekotje konijebaje!!!!

What's the point of being in a relationship without having sex?

Do I look like a serial-wan.ker or a flaming phaggot to you?

Darn!! You would make a nyggah a dreamer like Joseph, with wet-dreams.

And blue-balls is unacceptable in this weather - that's a killer right there.

shymexx: What's the point of being in a relationship without having sex?

Do I look like a serial-wan.ker or a flaming phaggot to you?

Darn!! You would make a nyggah a dreamer like Joseph, with wet-dreams.

And blue-balls is unacceptable in this weather - that's a killer right there.

Hypocrites
See them! Una don füçk finish, you con come here dey preach! Mtchew!


Abeg, try to speak for yourself only.
For some, the more they make love to their partners, the more they love.

Stingy OP Your boyfriend go don wänk tire.

Presumption!!!!
Not everyone is doing it as nairaland, media and peers make one believe!!!

There is a time and place for everything, its a natural something

Dubemkelly: Hmm,my own two kobo of the topic...We r emotional human n sometimes we lose it,we wanna have da sexual feeling n to us it makes more sense,hardly u see a guy who is in a r/ship n doesn't have sex,it creates bond between the parties involved,its rare these days but truth be told,the basic essence of r/ship is 2 get along,share aspirations,goals n interests n if its worth it then u can take it 2 d next level not a craddle 4 intimacy but d question is this, how many people believe in such thot n can manage such excesses? Personally, I don't see myself in a sexless r/ship,its an emotional torture cos I luv enjoying it buh if u don't do such,no biggie,keep it up till u walk down d aisle

thanks 4 ur contribution.Love ur sincerity though

49cents:

The fact is once you start having premarital s.ex it becomes difficult to stop unless you find a more fulfilling reason not to u will so abuse s.ex that it won't be fulfiling after a period of time, its not about thte Thou shall nots....but about your happiness and freedom in and out of that relationship
The herd mentality is to let the instincts dictate......

Oni Suru apekotje konijebaje!!!!

*U're so on point..This is d rzn some ppl think its impossible 2 be in a r.ship without sex.Most of dem av started having sex in their r.ship,and are kinda addicted 2 it ,so they find it difficult 2 stay without it..

Dubemkelly: @OP ur username tho 'CUTIEPIE' is sexy n munchy, what does one do with pie? Taste it n if its sweet,u eat it like it is. Just saying tho

lol.Thanks 4 dropping by..

Iaz93: Hypocrites
See them! Una don füçk finish, you con come here dey preach! Mtchew!


Abeg, try to speak for yourself only.
For some, the more they make love to their partners, the more they love.

Stingy OP Your boyfriend go don wänk tire.

Hey!!!take it easy,everyone is entitled 2 their opinions..okay.Thats my opinion,u're free 2 air urs without insults.Thanks 4 dropping by though

youngds: [size=18pt]Hmm, If it was a boy that open this thread, i won't post! but a girl , i think i need to enlighten you, Don't you ever feel like having sex? i mean ever even for a nano second? i guess you sometimes do its nature, & don't you wish your wishes(sex) come true? c'mon girl don't fool anyone! relationship without sex is family not even friendship cos friendship comes with benefits, so if you're in relationship without sex, you don't like that guy, you probably keeping him for show that you ain't alone, dreams, love, plans blah blah blah talks? dear you will probably get bored of it & when their is nothing to say anymore, you start staring at each other before you know what happen you already giving him a Mouth Action ,and for those saying sex kills relationship you probably having a bad sex[/size]

F*ck it I can't pass off this chance to be cynical. Maybe the OP and chicks like her have dry and atrophied pu$$ys. That will explain the lack of libido.

Uyi Iredia:

F*ck it I can't pass off this chance to be cynical. Maybe the OP and chicks like her have dry and atrophied pu$$ys. That will explain the lack of libido.

wow,is dat what u think?

A relationship without se*x is like a loner walking in a grand crayon. I adore se*x and if my partner refuse me then she's indirectly offering me a plan B(cheat). My honest decision.

cutiepie01: I Was just wondering,what d big deal is about this 'se><'of a thing.The way people attach much importance to it as if their life depends on it.In my opinion,Being in a relationship is an avenue where u share ur dreams,visions,pains,worries,joy and many more things with someone.I feel there's more to a relationship than se><.''Love is in no way synonymous with se><''.Whats ur opinion abt this?

You are definitely a virgin...

cutiepie01: I Was just wondering,what d big deal is about this 'se><'of a thing.The way people attach much importance to it as if their life depends on it.In my opinion,Being in a relationship is an avenue where u share ur dreams,visions,pains,worries,joy and many more things with someone.I feel there's more to a relationship than se><.''Love is in no way synonymous with se><''.Whats ur opinion abt this?

The extreme of Love is sex and tis one of the means by which Love is expressed !!!


So, Love is like a house and sex is a room in it ...... Go figure !!!

donroxy: The extreme of Love is sex and tis one of the means by which Love is expressed !!!


So, Love is like a house and sex is a room in it ...... Go figure !!!

i disagree with u.There are many other countless means in which love can be expressed.Love is not sex,and sex is not love.U'll agree with me dat u can have sex with a person without loving him/her.