stanhezo: Oh my God!!!
This is the only thread I've seen Nairalanders be on the same view.
The person that posted the topic deserv a Nairaland award.

wake up bro. Dey aint on d same view wiv her. Dey jez dont wanna call out CRITIQUEs cuz of a fool. Itz blatant

i wonder who are the so-called born agains hanging out with these confirmed players.

might as well throw your born again out the window and hit the town.

first of all, who is a BORN AGAIN? Maybe u meant church goers? The BORN AGAIN i know are those who no matter what would not even agree to have sex with their fiance before marriage.....let alone with friends. Again, not all those that wear head tie with no ear rings are BORN AGAIN.

xynerise:
Lai lai! ''Born again'' brothers dont know how to satisfy their wives on bed. They believe giving her the best of sex is immoral and a sin

Bro do they even have sex? I think they just keep fasting and praying and committing everything to God including conceiving and having babies. After a while with no results (because sister is not Mary the mother of Jesus who was concieved through the holy spirit) they come to pastor for counselling and then more prayers and fasting. Na wa oo

Ishilove: Another reetarded thread chock filled with idiocy. Smh

abi u dey claim born again,fowl nyash don open

hmmmmmmmmm

Lol,the whole truth is on this write up.
I have experienced it twice.
The maajor problem they have is attitude.
One was worse that she didn't know know how to cook or keep the home,boring to death and so superstitious. If she gets a cut from knife,she would shout jesus enemies are at work,she attributes everything to spiritual attack even if she coughs.
The other one ws like jesus himself,she judges nd condemns,the day she saw a gin in my refridgerator,she condemned me and said I was going to hell,she said to worsen the matter I had slept with girls before so that is automatic visa to hell,omg I couldn't withstand either of them,I had to break up. Perosnally,I don't have a problem with someone being christlike but loosening up and socialising is better for them. I still have them in my chuch,29 upward still looking for mr right yet they are not ready to mingle.

This your overgeneralisation!!

Not all are like that

Born again ko born back ni....Free those pretenders,dey r just not it like dey portray it 2 be....Responsible smart girls do it 4 me

I had to call it quit with my last babe because of the pretence it was just too much to handle. its so annoying, born again my foot.

Dubemkelly: Born again ko born back ni....Free those pretenders,dey r just not it like dey portray it 2 be....Responsible smart girls do it 4 me

on point

iropelebe: Lol,the whole truth is on this write up.
I have experienced it twice.
The maajor problem they have is attitude.
One was worse that she didn't know know how to cook or keep the home,boring to death and so superstitious. If she gets a cut from knife,she would shout jesus enemies are at work,she attributes everything to spiritual attack even if she coughs.
The other one ws like jesus himself,she judges nd condemns,the day she saw a gin in my refridgerator,she condemned me and said I was going to hell,she said to worsen the matter I had slept with girls before so that is automatic visa to hell,omg I couldn't withstand either of them,I had to break up. Perosnally,I don't have a problem with someone being christlike but loosening up and socialising is better for them. I still have them in my chuch,29 upward still looking for mr right yet they are not ready to mingle.

Dem go marry dem born-again die join.

Depends on your definition of bornagain.

ITbomb: You you forgot to add this
Most Born Again ladies are actually retired runz girlz who will use church as a blanket to prevent you from seeing how wide and deep their holes have been shattered by previous players.

i swear u 2 ryt bt nt all oooooooooo bt me no som "sisters" way ja

U av spoken well......

Dear Christians,
I guess I have some questions I wanna ask?
Pls who is a christian and who is a born again?
From what the bible says(cause it seems pple dnt read it anymore but listen to some passages on sundays then pick up the rest frm conversations and social medias which seems to know very little of it) a christian is one who has the very life of God in him,the same life that Jesus has.
A BORN AGAIN is thus what qualifies and makes you a christian.Attending Mass and Service doesn't make U a Christian.The entrance of the Holyspirit into your life makes U a born again then U lead a Christian Life.Even Jesus was born again when the holyspirit entered into him and raised him from the Dead.
So my question remains...If U are not Born again who then are You?

emma_best2000:
Wetin be choi
Are u one of them ?

are you blind? No offence......

Am totally in support of this. They can de so so annoying to talk to and very boring to hang out with.

That's what my pastor calls 'Heavenly conscious and earthly stewpid'

Alikaxon: U ve spoken well. Fp things. The part u said "born again sisters are d most easy to sleep with" is very true. Most of dem are so timid not to know d tricks dat guys use in luring them to bed, dy re very emotional, all u need to do as a sharp guy is to be logical. Der re 2 types of born again in my view. 1: timid born again, diz pple are so timid, dy see any oda social gatherin except church as evil, even to be a casual frd with a guy is a no-go area, they stay away 4rm male like dy are devil. They hav d orientation dat weneva u a close to any male, u 'll be slept with, das not true. It is wen u ar aquainted wit ur opposite sex dat u bcom more confident in dealing with dem. Tel me a girl dat has nt had a hand shake with a guy 4 more dan 20yrs, der is a big tendency dat d very day he will nw be closed to a guy; she 'll bcom emotionally loosed nd eventually turned on easily, ar u always suprised hw many timid born again girls suddenly get pregnant?? Only on one encounter. Do u kw dat many of diz born again sisters dn't belong to any social netwrk? Hw can dy b social? Dy re mearnt to undastnd dat it is evil. 2: socially upright born again pple, i dn't tink der is anythin wrong wit havin opposite sex as frnds, der is grt benefit in it, it doesn't mean sex nd sex thing. Dress nicely, i dnt tink ur dressing with pensed trousers or very wild trousers makes a difference, dix x common wit men. Be social, kw hw 2 communicate. Kw wen to communicate d bible nd wen to communicate outside d bible. Dis is wat dis timid born again pple do, all dia communication is foccused on d bible, even wen its nt needed. I may continue on nd on... Bt i tink ma finger shud rest.

A brief summary will do

The OP has some good points but messed up by generalising. From experience, I agree some 'born again' sisters are plain mumus. Ask them anything other than Bible, and they are lost. They are heavenly minded but earthly useless. You see them all active in church or fellowship but struggling to graduate with a pass. All you hear is 'the Lord would help us' while they have no realistic plan or line of action of their own. I am a christian but bluntly speaking, I detest such ladies. In my opinion, being born again is something that must reflect in your entire life. Though, born again christians are said not to be of this world, the reality is that they are IN this world. The only thing is that they have to go about their normal earthly duties with the consciousness of heaven in mind. So, my advise for my fellow true christian brothers is to shine your eyes so as not to end up with a mumu as a wife all in the name of getting married to a 'born again'

WELL spoken,
God Knows the best

this is a dumb topic. last time I checked, I see born again ladies getting married to born again men. Even d ones dat don't marry born again man, the man has end up becoming born again because there is no way for a born again and worldly partner to live together. One has to convert.

if you are not a born again guy, then by obvious logic, it will make no sense for you to date a born again lady. stupid topics on nairaland lately. By carrying other people's problems on your head u will soon die of hypertension.

something i see is some born again women marrying muslim men. usually with the hope that the man will covert. but they tend to be compatible because they are both serious about religion.

The only problem I have with 'born again' sisters is their hairdo.

Btw, I have a thousand and one stories to tell of the so-called born again sisters but I can't say anything for security reasons.

Living Soul34: @ Poster, you talked as if being born again belittles a lady or reduces her qualities as a person which is not true... To be born again means to accept Jesus as one's personal Lord and Savior and live by teachings of the bible and to the best of my knowledge that does not subtract anything from a woman's rather it increases the value of such a woman... A born truly born again lady definitely would not do many of the things other ladies do freely... The boy/man who is not born again will find it difficult to have anything to do with a truly born again lady because he would not understand her ways... In fact her ways are foolishness to the guy... There are several things that ladies do to attract men and some of these things are contrary to the teachings of the bible hence born again ladies don't do them.... And for the records,what the many of you called dating which is more or less a brand name for immorality is alien to the bible and true Christianity hence christian ladies don't date as in the way its popularly done... Again christian ladies do not wait for pastors to find husband for them as you erroneously asserted rather they allow pastors and other christian leaders to guild them in taking marital steps because marriage is meant to be till death you apart ( and not the go in today and come out tomorrow kind of joke you guys called marriage) hence its only wise for Christians to seek God's guidance because we human beings cannot see beyond the immediate but God sees tomorrow... There are too many cases of divorce today but then God, the author marriage hates divorce. If both men and women do the needful when it comes to marital decisions cases of divorce and separation in marriage will drastically reduce in our society... As for timidity as somebody said, a true christian who fears God cannot be timid hence God does not give us the spirit of fear and timidity but of sound mind... "A man that fears God has nothing else to fear"... What several people called timidity is actually humility...

The most sensible post so far..

I believe marriage was built by God and to really enjoy the real meaning of marriage you have to start it in God. Many people dont know the meaning of marriage and they kept on preparing for wedding at the stead of marriage.the reason why divorce rate is high is because people are driven by physical pleasures in getting marriage and neglected GOD'S rule for marriage.MARRIAGE IS NOT MEANT TO BE ENDURED BUT TO BE ENJOYED! I believe if you are really serving God and you listen to His voice you will never miss your own time. Pls people marriage is not meant for those that are not born agaiin in the first place because they will be trying to manage it base on some principles that dont always hold. Also if you are born again you are not permitted to marry someone that is not born again. The Bible says: do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness and what communion hath light with darkness? RULES FOR SEX: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, ENJOY SEX IN MARRIAGE AND NO SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE! GOD BLESS YOU

It is only a man that has pass thru hell that can describe how it looks like.I once dated a 'born again sister' and I can tell u that virtually all of dem are loose.let me start like this 1. Most of them see born again as the last resort.After they have lived some socially miserable life,they tend to be more closer to God as they now see marriage as a serious issue. 2 they tend to see that all that a man want is spiritual.they know nothing about anything,so boring to converse with,and any alteration from the bible is evil.

djeezy: Is this a thread to bash born again ladies? Op, I do not agree with all you have written above but some points are sorta valid to some extent. I believe everybody is attractive to somebody. We live in a world where virtues are frowned at. Those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it. We have born again ladies who get marriage proposals. Op is simply referring to the extremists.

We should ask the op how many girls he/she knows that acts as she describes.

You are spot on. There are extremists with both sexes.

duality: The world is constantly attacking the church.

The yardstick for the world must be different from that of the church, else it loses its value.

Jesus was never like the pharisees, But the Pharisees expected him to be like them.

The Op has some valid point, but has misfired. Go to the world and see the sorrows of the so called sharp, non born again ladies. Have they all gotten married? You should know the answer.

God's standard is to protect and preserve his own. the wisdom of man is always foolishness before God.

Remember Adam/Eve and the forbidden fruit. Immediately she tried to rationalize it, she lost it. It's that simple.

Dare to be different, Daniel was different, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were different.

You are celebrated for your difference and not your similarity with the world.

God Bless.

Brilliant post. The best yet!

Op, are you a Christian. If by chance you are, I think the use of 'born again' in your topic is not only inappropriate but an aberration. Being born again is the sole ticket to entering into eternal life. That goes to show that anyone who hasn't been born again is not a Christian. That's not something to be trivialised.

'Spirikoko' sisters can be used to differentiate it from the truly 'spiritual' sisters.

To the topic, I think you're guilty of some sorts of generalisation. You perhaps find such characters in few conservative denominations like deeper life, mfm, cac and the likes. A vast majority are faced with the threat of extreme worldliness. You hardly can discern a Christian sister by her dressing or comportment. Provocative dressing and uncouth language are second skins to many. Even the few conservative ones are influenced negatively on campuses. These form the larger chunk of the evil that assail the christian sisters.